Ladies:Can Sex Be Satisfying Without Penetration ?

Discussion in 'Women's Issues' started by Crosz, Nov 28, 2008.

  1. Crosz

    Crosz Member

    Joined:
    Jul 31, 2008
    Messages:
    159
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Montreal
    Ladies,I was wondering if you think that its possible to have a fully
    satisfying sexual experience without any sort of penetration taking
    place ? Sure,a guy could be great at oral and i assume that its
    possible to acheive orgasm;but would you feel like something was
    missing if you weren't penetrated ?

    Maybe I'm weird,but when I think about being with a woman...I often thing
    about deep french kissing, performing oral(for extended periods) and totally exploring her body but some reason I don't focus on actual intercourse.

    Maybe if i were to be with someone, my behaviour would be different but
    unlike most guys my fantasies don't include penetration :confused:
     
  2. D_Fiona_Farvel

    D_Fiona_Farvel Account Disabled

    Joined:
    Nov 27, 2007
    Messages:
    3,790
    Likes Received:
    17
    For me, it is possible, but not for the long term.
    I'm one of those women that really craves penetration and the act of intercourse. If my partner and I were not fucking, and there was not a valid, short term reason, the intimate relationship would not last long before I found someone else to bang. :shrug:
     
  3. Principessa

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Nov 22, 2006
    Messages:
    19,494
    Likes Received:
    28
    Gender:
    Female
    Ladies:Can Sex Be Satisfying Without Penetration ?

    Is this a trick question? Sex isn't sex wthout penetration. :rolleyes: :duh:

    For me, no. If his dick ain't in my pussy it ain't sex. I can orgasm from oral; but to me that's just foreplay, it isn't the main course.


     
  4. StraightCock4Her

    StraightCock4Her New Member

    Joined:
    Dec 30, 2007
    Messages:
    922
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    DFW, Texas
    Oral... Sex...?
     
  5. Mike7

    Mike7 New Member

    Joined:
    Aug 23, 2006
    Messages:
    487
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    3
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Balls deep in my wife's pussy
    My wife needs penetration after oral.
     
  6. nay-nay

    nay-nay New Member

    Joined:
    Jun 1, 2006
    Messages:
    767
    Likes Received:
    0
    hahaha! that made me chuckle. :biggrin1:
     
  7. 3664shaken

    3664shaken New Member

    Joined:
    May 17, 2007
    Messages:
    611
    Likes Received:
    8
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    Teenie Weenie Hell
  8. Nala

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    Aug 24, 2006
    Messages:
    1,331
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    9
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    The Netherlands
    Verified:
    Photo
    To me penetration (filled out) is the most satisfying part of having sex. Oral can be real nice too (both giving and getting), but without penetration it's like there's something missing.
     
  9. Ms M

    Ms M New Member

    Joined:
    Sep 11, 2008
    Messages:
    59
    Likes Received:
    2

    Yeah!! What she said, I love oral but have to have the penetration. Balls deep for me!! Unfortunately not getting any.:frown1:
     
  10. voyeuristic

    voyeuristic New Member

    Joined:
    Nov 10, 2008
    Messages:
    648
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    16
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    Bay Area
    Completely. Penetration is something I've only recently started to "get", actually...I frequently crave it now, but for me cocksucking is and will always be #1. I will always come hardest from touching myself while I'm getting face-fucked by a verbal dom.
     
  11. Gisella

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Mar 18, 2006
    Messages:
    4,872
    Likes Received:
    23
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    USA
    No.

    Even when I self pleasure myself I need to use a dildo..just vibrator on clits by itself does not work for me...than same for man togue etc.

    Oral sex for me is just 1% appetizer regarding satisfaction, comparing with penis 99% penetration satisfaction thou.
     
  12. D_Fiona_Farvel

    D_Fiona_Farvel Account Disabled

    Joined:
    Nov 27, 2007
    Messages:
    3,790
    Likes Received:
    17
    Wow, I am the same way!
    I love wearing out my guy's hand and forearm withthe fingering I need while he licks my pussy.. some can't take it, but if you want to make my come, I need a dildo or enthusiastic fingering... or just fuck me. :tongue: :wink:
     
  13. Crosz

    Crosz Member

    Joined:
    Jul 31, 2008
    Messages:
    159
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Montreal
    Well,I am 37 and have no experience...so I am going to ask a
    dumb question now and then :rolleyes:

    What I was kind of getting at was that I think that I could
    be satisfied by kissing,performing oral on a woman;exploring
    erogenouszones,etc.

    Then again,I've tried neither (foreplay/penetration);so I couldn't
    say what I would enjoy more.
     
  14. Principessa

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Nov 22, 2006
    Messages:
    19,494
    Likes Received:
    28
    Gender:
    Female
    :y
    ikes: I'm sorry, I didn't know. :redface: Why do you have no experience? Is it religious reasons?:confused:

    That's nice . . . but it's not just about you dear. Where you are comfortable stopping is important, but most women aren't going to accept that. Especially not the women in your age bracket.

    Uhmm, just what exactly are you waiting for dude? You want a neon sign to drop down from the heavens and say go forth and fuck? :confused::tongue:
     
  15. Mike7

    Mike7 New Member

    Joined:
    Aug 23, 2006
    Messages:
    487
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    3
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Balls deep in my wife's pussy
    You can do all kinds of foreplay including bringing her to an oral orgasm first. My wife goes nuts for that all her life but from conversations with her on if she likes oral before or after sex she craves the 'filled' feeling of sex at the end.
     
  16. StraightCock4Her

    StraightCock4Her New Member

    Joined:
    Dec 30, 2007
    Messages:
    922
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    DFW, Texas
    I'm in fucking love
     
  17. D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah

    D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah Account Disabled

    Joined:
    Apr 5, 2006
    Messages:
    5,455
    Likes Received:
    14
    Im not a big fan of oral so even if im getting that i stll need fingers or something inside of me. I like to have something to tighten and squeeze around
     
  18. BS76

    BS76 Active Member

    Joined:
    Nov 28, 2008
    Messages:
    480
    Likes Received:
    144
    Gender:
    Male
    I just remembered the scene in Chasing Amy when she demonstrated the fisting action to the guy she was talking to. Basically she was illustrating the point that even lesbians can have penetration (and far more than what most men could ever offer in that regard).
     
  19. voyeuristic

    voyeuristic New Member

    Joined:
    Nov 10, 2008
    Messages:
    648
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    16
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    Bay Area
    BS - plenty of lesbians love penetration! I'm not sure why so many guys are shocked by this. Cocks aren't the only things that can fill a vagina! (What's most hilarious to me are the guys that think if a lesbian likes penetration, she secretly wants to fuck guys. No, she likes penetration and _women_...so she obviously wants to be penetrated by another gal, not a dude.)
     
  20. Mike7

    Mike7 New Member

    Joined:
    Aug 23, 2006
    Messages:
    487
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    3
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Balls deep in my wife's pussy
    Good point, that's another form of penetration I forgot about. My wife loves fingers during oral too.
     
Draft saved Draft deleted