Ladies:Can Sex Be Satisfying Without Penetration ?

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Ladies,I was wondering if you think that its possible to have a fully
satisfying sexual experience without any sort of penetration taking
place ? Sure,a guy could be great at oral and i assume that its
possible to acheive orgasm;but would you feel like something was
missing if you weren't penetrated ?

Maybe I'm weird,but when I think about being with a woman...I often thing
about deep french kissing, performing oral(for extended periods) and totally exploring her body but some reason I don't focus on actual intercourse.

Maybe if i were to be with someone, my behaviour would be different but
unlike most guys my fantasies don't include penetration :confused:
 

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For me, it is possible, but not for the long term.
I'm one of those women that really craves penetration and the act of intercourse. If my partner and I were not fucking, and there was not a valid, short term reason, the intimate relationship would not last long before I found someone else to bang. :shrug:
 

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Ladies:Can Sex Be Satisfying Without Penetration ?

Is this a trick question? Sex isn't sex wthout penetration. :rolleyes: :duh:

For me, no. If his dick ain't in my pussy it ain't sex. I can orgasm from oral; but to me that's just foreplay, it isn't the main course.


Ladies,I was wondering if you think that its possible to have a fully
satisfying sexual experience without any sort of penetration taking
place ? Sure,a guy could be great at oral and i assume that its
possible to acheive orgasm;but would you feel like something was
missing if you weren't penetrated ?

Maybe I'm weird,but when I think about being with a woman...I often thing
about deep french kissing, performing oral(for extended periods) and totally exploring her body but some reason I don't focus on actual intercourse.

Maybe if i were to be with someone, my behaviour would be different but
unlike most guys my fantasies don't include penetration :confused:
 

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To me penetration (filled out) is the most satisfying part of having sex. Oral can be real nice too (both giving and getting), but without penetration it's like there's something missing.
 

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Ladies:Can Sex Be Satisfying Without Penetration ?

Is this a trick question? Sex isn't sex wthout penetration. :rolleyes: :duh:

For me, no. If his dick ain't in my pussy it ain't sex. I can orgasm from oral; but to me that's just foreplay, it isn't the main course.


Yeah!! What she said, I love oral but have to have the penetration. Balls deep for me!! Unfortunately not getting any.:frown1:
 

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Completely. Penetration is something I've only recently started to "get", actually...I frequently crave it now, but for me cocksucking is and will always be #1. I will always come hardest from touching myself while I'm getting face-fucked by a verbal dom.
 

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No.

Even when I self pleasure myself I need to use a dildo..just vibrator on clits by itself does not work for me...than same for man togue etc.

Oral sex for me is just 1% appetizer regarding satisfaction, comparing with penis 99% penetration satisfaction thou.
 

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No.

Even when I self pleasure myself I need to use a dildo..just vibrator on clits by itself does not work for me...than same for man togue etc.

Oral sex for me is just 1% appetizer regarding satisfaction, comparing with penis 99% penetration satisfaction thou.
Wow, I am the same way!
I love wearing out my guy's hand and forearm withthe fingering I need while he licks my pussy.. some can't take it, but if you want to make my come, I need a dildo or enthusiastic fingering... or just fuck me. :tongue: :wink:
 

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Ladies:Can Sex Be Satisfying Without Penetration ?

Is this a trick question? Sex isn't sex wthout penetration. :rolleyes: :duh:

Well,I am 37 and have no experience...so I am going to ask a
dumb question now and then :rolleyes:

What I was kind of getting at was that I think that I could
be satisfied by kissing,performing oral on a woman;exploring
erogenouszones,etc.

Then again,I've tried neither (foreplay/penetration);so I couldn't
say what I would enjoy more.
 

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Well,I am 37 and have no experience...so I am going to ask a dumb question now and then :rolleyes:
:y
ikes: I'm sorry, I didn't know. :redface: Why do you have no experience? Is it religious reasons?:confused:

What I was kind of getting at was that I think that I could be satisfied by kissing, performing oral on a woman; exploring erogenous zones,etc.
That's nice . . . but it's not just about you dear. Where you are comfortable stopping is important, but most women aren't going to accept that. Especially not the women in your age bracket.

Then again,I've tried neither (foreplay/penetration);so I couldn't
say what I would enjoy more.
Uhmm, just what exactly are you waiting for dude? You want a neon sign to drop down from the heavens and say go forth and fuck? :confused::tongue:
 

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You can do all kinds of foreplay including bringing her to an oral orgasm first. My wife goes nuts for that all her life but from conversations with her on if she likes oral before or after sex she craves the 'filled' feeling of sex at the end.
 

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I just remembered the scene in Chasing Amy when she demonstrated the fisting action to the guy she was talking to. Basically she was illustrating the point that even lesbians can have penetration (and far more than what most men could ever offer in that regard).
 

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BS - plenty of lesbians love penetration! I'm not sure why so many guys are shocked by this. Cocks aren't the only things that can fill a vagina! (What's most hilarious to me are the guys that think if a lesbian likes penetration, she secretly wants to fuck guys. No, she likes penetration and _women_...so she obviously wants to be penetrated by another gal, not a dude.)