i dunno, im just really confused. please see this thread if you want some more info.http://www.lpsg.org/98717-how-do-i-tell-if.html#post1652451 anyway i was kinda a dick to this girl cuz she went out to lunch with me one day then the second time gave me 101 excuses(rejection). it really wasnt a date, just 2 co-workers that had huge crushes on each other?? we both paid. anyway i started to ignore her, and the road got bumpy.....i didnt know how she was going to act the next day. from nice, to ignoring me, to rubing her tits on me, flirting, it all depended on how she was feeling lol. i dont know what happened but we were best friends one day, then she rejected(?) me......then once i ignored her everything went nuts. i was just mad she couldnt just say no thanks, or say "lets just go as friends". anyway, alot of time has passed, we say hi now, smile, small talk if we pass........ let me explain, at one point when i was ignoring her, i felt bad. she kept waving, smiling, trying to throw some jokes when we passed.....i was feeling confused, maybe she really didnt mean to tell me indirectly to "fuck-off", as i took her rejection for lunch. i was just going nuts with feelings, what all this ment, and how she was acting. i felt i was inmature because at first she was going out of her way to be extra nice to me. that is when i started to be nice again............ fast foward to this week, i asked if we could talk. she did, and i told her "im sorry for being an inmature dick". her:"WHAT!!!!, BUT YOUR NOT!..................................................pauses...........I WOULD OF TOLD YOU THAT IF YOU WERE!.................i dont even know what to say".... then she stairs at me.......and i keep saying ok,ok.....as she wasnt saying anything i was saying "ok", thats all i wanted to say you can leave....she finally ran out. lpsg, look im not very good with these things, i dont know if i should of told her im sorry...that might of even confused things more......but i just felt i had to, i felt i was an inmature prick, which is not me at all! by her comments, she knew exectly why i was saying it... i am just trying to be this girls friend.......... women, what is going through this girls head after i told her that? she kinda got emotional, her voice ranged from a loud ARE YOU NUTS to a soft voice that could barely be heard. it looked like she wanted to run out, but kept stairing at me even after i kept telling her "ok". finally after a few ok's she left. i just want to be her friend, should i just forget it and if i need to go to her side of the building send someone else???