Ladies - can you shed some light on this?

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  1. Lordpendragon

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    I am seeing this woman at the moment who seems to go out of her way to make the point that size doesn't really matter. However when we are having sex, she goes wild over my cock.

    What's going on?
     
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    I am not a woman, but I can see your cock is huge!!! Damn, I am half you size.
     
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    What she may mean is that size is not a defining factor for her, even though she may consider it a bonus.

    If it helps to illustrate this point think of chocolate. Dark Belgian chocolate will make most women go weak in the knees, but that doesn't in any way dim our appreciation for other varieties of chocolate.
     
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    Its pretty simple actually.

    She's trying to let you know that she likes you for more than your 'larger' cock but when she does get it that she loves it.
     
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    Perhaps she doesn't care about size but likes your cock because it's yours. Perhaps she really does prefer a big cock but doesn't consider it really important thing and wants you to know that's not why she likes you.
     
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    For some of us, sex is about you as a person. She might like you enough that she'd be that excited no matter what size you were.

    Or she might be thanking her lucky stars that you're a decent person who happens to have more to be thankful for?

    She'd probably have a more definitive answer than we would. :wink:
     
  7. Lordpendragon

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    Thank you Ladies and Russ (great ass BTW). How are you supposed to keep your mind on things when you bring up Belgian chocolates?

    I think (mmhhh pralines) that there may also be an element of her keeping an eye to the relationship independent to the fact that we are enjoying smearing each other with chocolate so much.

    You know - I don't think there's any chocolates better than Belgian. I mean they are so creamy with just the right balance of sweetness and chocolatieness.

    So if you had a sex toy made of Belgian chocolate and you were both really hungry and horny as hell, but you could only either eat it or use it to satisfy your other hunger, which would you do?
     
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    I did behave kind of the same way with my ex...

    My motives were..

    1) I did not want he feel vain about his size...:rolleyes: (he never did..at all..but who knows??? I thought) and did not want at same time he feeling as an object too...

    2) Man..i trully enjoy the pleasure he gave me and the beauty of it...was excited in having all of him...to me! Just to me all of that!!! Wow!!! i felt great, he felt great ..just great to all!!!

    :tongue:
     
  9. Lordpendragon

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    Gisella - we should be consoling ourselves over the football - or lack of it in England's case.
     
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    Yeh...:tongue:

    Lets hug and console one another...

    :biggrin1:
     
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    Good lord, why limit yourself. Do both ! Satisfy your carnal needs with it first, then devour what's left. Feel free to lick clean anywhere it may have melted and possibly have rubbed off on each other. After all, you'll want the sustenance for round two.

    :wink:
     
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    Preferring size or not, as long as it doesn't hurt a big penis always means more stimulation. So, if she goes crazy when you two have sex, that means you're doing a good job. Neither does "not caring for size" mean "dislike size". You can't care for something, but still you can actually like it when you get it, which seems to be the case here.

    I'm pretty much like that myself, just that I'd say I invert that. I like size, and I prefer it, but I've also had good orgasms from men who were more on the average side of the scale.
     
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    Women are supposed to think and say that size does not matter: it is the politically correct answer. Depending on your personality, as she perceives it, she might also tell you this in order to keep your ego in check.

    In bed, however, political correctness has a tendency to go out of the window at the first opportunity. Thank God.
     
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    I agree:)
     
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    She is lying to you, as all women do.
     
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    Eat it.
     
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    I love you.
     
  18. Lordpendragon

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    Me too.
     
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    Well just because she says size doesn't matter doesn't mean she can't go wild over your big dick...
     
  20. Lordpendragon

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    I see what you are saying Lisa - but isn't it a little illogical?

    I do get it - it's like enjoying a sport even if you don't win, but when you do win it's great - but actually the winning does matter but then it doesn't.
     
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