Ladies, did you have an orgasm your first time?

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  1. Principessa

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    Okay ladies a current thread made me wonder about a few things.

    Did you have an orgasm your first time having sex?

    Did you masturbate at all prior to your first sexual experience?
    If so were you able to make yourself orgasm?

    Guys seem to j/o with friends all the time and think nothing of it. Have you ever masturbated with girlfriends?

    Do you do a monthly VSE - Vulvar Self Exam?

    Hmmm, I think that's all for now but I'm sure I will think of other questions later. :smile:
     
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    Okay ladies a current thread made me wonder about a few things.

    Did you have an orgasm your first time having sex?
    I'm not sure...we played around and orgasmed a lot before actually having IC.

    Did you masturbate at all prior to your first sexual experience?
    Yes, A LOT
    If so were you able to make yourself orgasm?
    Yes, I think that is how I discovered it....by accident.

    Guys seem to j/o with friends all the time and think nothing of it. Have you ever masturbated with girlfriends?
    That is gay if guys do it. I never have done it with anyone other than my man.

    Do you do a monthly VSE - Vulvar Self Exam?
    HUH?

    Hmmm, I think that's all for now but I'm sure I will think of other questions later. :smile:
     
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    Okay ladies a current thread made me wonder about a few things.

    Did you have an orgasm your first time having sex?

    No, I didn't.

    Did you masturbate at all prior to your first sexual experience? If so were you able to make yourself orgasm?

    No, I didn't.


    Guys seem to j/o with friends all the time and think nothing of it. Have you ever masturbated with girlfriends?

    No, I haven't.

    Do you do a monthly VSE - Vulvar Self Exam?

    No, I don't.

    Hmmm, I think that's all for now but I'm sure I will think of other questions later. :smile:
     
  4. D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah

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    Did you have an orgasm your first time having sex? NO, not until the 3rd (?) time when i was able to relax properly

    Did you masturbate at all prior to your first sexual experience?
    If so were you able to make yourself orgasm? I did masturbate but not properly. It toook a guy to show me how to masturbate to the point of orgasm

    Guys seem to j/o with friends all the time and think nothing of it. Have you ever masturbated with girlfriends? Never. They still dont know i own toys etc

    Do you do a monthly VSE - Vulvar Self Exam? No. never heard of it before now

    Hmmm, I think that's all for now but I'm sure I will think of other questions later. :smile:
     
  5. TeflonDon

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    "Guys seem to j/o with friends all the time and think nothing of it. Have you ever masturbated with girlfriends?"

    ummm, we do? LOL. this is Big news to me hehe.

    *waves*
    Teflon

     
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    The VERY first time...NO.." But, down the road with him I did.."

    I did not really play with my self at a young age..." But, I found out by accident, that by squeezing my legs together...it felt really good..":redface:

    I will not even do that in front of my hubby..." So NEVER in front of another chick..."

    I don't know what the V exam thing is........
     
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    I can honestly say I have never jerked off with another guy or had any interest in doing so.
     
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    Did you have an orgasm your first time having sex? No, first time penetration was too uncomfortable.

    Did you masturbate at all prior to your first sexual experience? Yes, frequently.

    If so were you able to make yourself orgasm? Yes.

    Guys seem to j/o with friends all the time and think nothing of it. Have you ever masturbated with girlfriends? No, only in the presence of guys.

    Do you do a monthly VSE - Vulvar Self Exam? No, nothing that thorough.

    K
     
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    Did you have an orgasm your first time having sex?
    sadly, first sexual experience was rape at age 12. No I didnt.
    And with my first boyfriend at age 16, I still can hear him say as he pumped away on top of me- "ya know, you're supposed to move" LOL I wasn't sure what he meant- move? which way?? oh lordy.


    Did you masturbate at all prior to your first sexual experience?
    If so were you able to make yourself orgasm?
    yes I masturbated, nope- no orgasm

    Guys seem to j/o with friends all the time and think nothing of it. Have you ever masturbated with girlfriends?
    Nope, though played around a bit with some girlfriends at age 14, we had no clue what we were doing.

    Do you do a monthly VSE - Vulvar Self Exam?
    I, too, am clueless as to what this is exactly- but I sure examine my 'bits' a lot, if that means anything.
     
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    and, never heard of that self exam.
     
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    Did you have an orgasm your first time having sex?
    No... not even close... I didnt even get horny...
    Did you masturbate at all prior to your first sexual experience?

    All the time...
    If so were you able to make yourself orgasm?
    Always

    Guys seem to j/o with friends all the time and think nothing of it. Have you ever masturbated with girlfriends?
    I have... on a few occasions...

    Do you do a monthly VSE - Vulvar Self Exam?
    never heard of it...
     
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    Okay ladies a current thread made me wonder about a few things.

    Did you have an orgasm your first time having sex?

    NO. Not even close, and he orgasmed A LOT that first night. A few weeks later though i did...wonderful, incredible feeling.


    Did you masturbate at all prior to your first sexual experience?
    You know what? i didn't really masterbate until a bf in university asked me to do it for him.

    Guys seem to j/o with friends all the time and think nothing of it. Have you ever masturbated with girlfriends?

    Ummm no.


    Do you do a monthly VSE - Vulvar Self Exam?

    never heard of it.
     
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    Did you have an orgasm your first time having sex?
    Heck no. He was large and it HURT. Plus I was very young. I didn't have my first penetration "O" until I was in my twenties. Had plenty of clitorial one's but usually had to teach my partner how to do it.

    Did you masturbate at all prior to your first sexual experience?
    If so were you able to make yourself orgasm?
    Sure did. All the time, from a pretty young age too. Read about it in a book, and taught my cousin how to do it. We'd spend the night together and masturbate and then talk about it in 'code' the next day.

    Guys seem to j/o with friends all the time and think nothing of it. Have you ever masturbated with girlfriends?
    See above, cousin.

    Do you do a monthly VSE - Vulvar Self Exam?
    Never heard of it?
     
  14. Gisella

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    1) NO

    2) NO

    3) NO

    4) I do check my gyna looks and behaviours often...plus since long have routine to go gyno for pap and anyother changes I feel.
     
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    Did you have an orgasm your first time having sex?
    Nope... I didn't even have fun my first time. I think I was just too young.

    Did you masturbate at all prior to your first sexual experience?
    I honestly don't remember.

    If so were you able to make yourself orgasm?
    ?

    Guys seem to j/o with friends all the time and think nothing of it. Have you ever masturbated with girlfriends?
    Nope.

    Do you do a monthly VSE - Vulvar Self Exam?
    Nope.
     
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