Ladies, do you ask a guy his size on a first date?

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  1. hill51107

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    For those of you who conider yourselves size queens, when do you ask a new guy about his size, or do you just wait to find out?
     
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    I'd only ask if I wanted to appear to be a cock obsessed slapper whose sole interest in men was the size of their cock.
     
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    I never ask. Which is why it's useful having sites like this where you can find out the answer before the date :wink:
     
  4. snoozan

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    do you ask a woman if she shaves her pussy on the first date?
     
  5. IntoxicatingToxin

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    Or do you ask her how deep her pussy is? Or how big her tits are? Duh.

    I never ask a guy his size.
     
  6. rob_just_rob

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    No, I just stick my hand into her pants and find out for myself. :rolleyes:
     
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    If you did it would up being the first and last date with that chap. It shows a lack of respect, style or class.
     
  8. whatireallywant

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    I have actively sought out big guys on ads online and phone ads, but have gone out on "normal" dates too :biggrin1: - and no, I don't ask.
     
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    What kind of douchebag, would do such a thing,anyway?
    Besides a few of the, "men" here.
    cigarbabe:saevil:
     
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    Of course not, silly! I just keep a tape measure in my purse. :tongue:
     
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    I'm a little unclear is that a yes or a no
     
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    normally I would agree but with your body I'd let you get away with it
    (hint hint)
     
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    It's a yes of course :)
     
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    If by 'ask' you mean do I sit on it nekked and wiggle - well yes, often and that usually gets me the answer to the question - If, however, by 'ask' you mean do I say 'hey, man, do you have a big cock? What are the stats?" then no, of course I don't.
     
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    of course i fucking don't :rolleyes:
     
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    I've been asked on a first date before, but only once, and only because the conversation had turned in that direction because of an exchange of double entendres.

    Generally unless it was asked out of a spirit of fun and fit into the conversation, I wouldn't see it as being the classiest move a lady could make.
     
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    Exactly mule, if we asked that on a first date it would be apparent that our major interest wasn't his personality, how well we got on, it would be his cock only - it'd be a sure way of confining anything that happened purely to the sexual.
     
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    No, I would not.
     
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    I wouldn`t ask, i`d assume he was average until proved otherwise.
     
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    Why are women so fucking timid and afraid to bring up sexual topics?

    Is it because they don't want to be seen for what they all really are? Human beings with wants and needs... 'sluts' to American society?

    Grow the fuck up. Ask BEFORE the date starts for all I care. Hell ask before you even say HELLO. Just be a fucking grown up and forget this social anxiety bull shit.
     
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