Ladies, do you like french kissing?

[marriedasian]

hello ladies of lpsg; my wife and i were lying in bed and the discussion of french kissing came up. a little background: she and i absolutely love french kissing and could simply make out for 10-15 minutes easily. we don't normally make it past that since we'll be fucking by then but for sure we'll still be doing it during booty.

so the topic came up that she has a few lady-friends who do not like to french kiss at all. when i say "french kissing", i mean as in open mouth with tongue exchanging saliva. whether it be sensual, rough, or just plain old messy, that's what i'm talking about. it can start out with lip to lip but eventually ends up with tongues dancing together in a slow dance.

i personally like wet and under-controlled tongue kissing wherein there is a slight suction when we kiss so that saliva doesn't get everywhere. i'm not too fond of messy french kissing. i'd rather save those moments for eating pussy, haha, i digress... all the while this is happening, our tongues are going at it getting to know each other. i find it very erotic and a huge turn on. if you wanna get me hard, that's a sure-fire way to do it. wife knows it and doesn't hesitate when she wants some cock.

so, if any of you ladies would be so incline to share your likes, dislikes, love, or hate for it, i'd be very appreciative. or just simply cast your vote. seems there is a mixed bag of ladies who love it and also a bag of ladies who abhors it.

 

[LaFemme]

Like the Kevin Costner says in Bull Durham, “I believe in long, slow, deep, soft, wet kisses that last three days.” (Back when Kevin was both sexy and cool.)

As long as the wetness of the kiss remains in the mouth - no dampness should be felt on my cheeks, chin, or god forbid, my nose.

Kissing is definitely the most erotic of the make-out tools. A good kisser, wow...a bad kisser? Yikes. I’ve been kissed by guys where it felt like they were licking my face, pushing bricks against my mouth, or literally trying to count my teeth with their tongue. Amateur.

Good kissing. *sigh*. I’ve gone all celibate, and it’s been fairly painless - except for the kissing. To never be kissed, or to kiss again, now that’s a tough one. I try not to think about it too much. It kind of hurts.

 

[918177]

I love french kissing with an important caveat....Saliva is fine - downing me in it is not. Tongue is fine - shoving it down my throat is not.
All are unforgivable and revolt me to my stomach.

Things will come to a screaming halt if the technique isn't there. There'll be correction, direction and resumption.
Failure to grasp basic fundamentals like kissing doesn't bode well for his ability when it comes to sex.

I won't be with someone who can't master a basic thing like kissing.

 

[MickeyLee]

I am a full-body snog enthusiast. Smooching being the most important element to a successful snog.

I can spend a good hour making out and dry humping, being completely content and satisfied with the results.

Bad kissing is annoying as all get out. I will try to use my actions to guide a bad kisser to new skills. Some people just ain't opened up to learning. *sigh*

Only caveat... Beard status is key when smooching it down with a dude. Stubble can be brutal. A nice fluffy beard is loverly.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

I'm not so into it. I even hate seeing it in porn. I don't know what it is, but full on Frenching just icks me out. I'd rather make out with his butthole (not remotely exaggerating).

The only times we actually lock lips is during particularly emotional circumstances. Even then, very little tongue is involved.

We are completely compatible as far as our appreciation for kissing. No one is missing out or doing it for the sake of the other.

 

[MickeyLee]

*leans over, smooches TnJ on the cheek* gothcha

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

*leans over, smooches TnJ on the cheek* gothcha

 

[693987]

I love to kiss. I kiss, nibble, maybe lick his bottom lip, etc. I kiss him all over. We just don't have tongues in each other's mouths when we kiss. It isn't our thing.

I've never liked it, with any of the many people I've been with. I've disliked it more from some than from other people. I've been more tolerant of it with some than with other people. I still never have liked it, thought it was sexy, pleasurable, etc. I did it with some people because I liked them and they liked it. On my own? No thank you.

 

[MickeyLee]

I have to add my name to the saliva minimizing list. I don't want my shirt front as wet as my panties are after a session of snogging. Also, don't try to get your whole tongue in my mouth and keep it there. That's weird and gross.

 

[286798]

+1 to ML. I lurve kissing. Well, kissing someone compatible, that is... the right ratio of lip to tongue, just enough tongue movement, not sticking your tongue the whole way in my mouth, etc.

If you're not a compatible kisser, there probably won't be anything further.

 

[marriedasian]

thank you for sharing ladies. i remember when i was younger wherein i had no clue how to kiss. it was a sloppy mess for sure as there was no control and tongue was all over the place. needless to say, i didn't kiss much. over time, i learned to be patient and kiss slow while testing the waters with each new girl to see what worked and what didn't. it took a lot of self-control but it sure did pay off as today i would consider myself a very good, sensual kisser. my wife and previous girlfriends would certainly attest to that.

i personally love to kiss so whether is simply just sticking out our tongues and touching without any lip-locking or a full-on deepthroat of her tongue in my mouth (or hers), i simply love it! of course, since i enjoy the full spectrum of french kissing, i always let her lead on what type of tongue action she's up for then i go from there and mimic her comfort levels. either way, as long as i get some tongue action, i'm a happy camper.

keep on sharing ladies. i think this is a good subject for the guys to know more about.

 

[EllieP]

I may make a bunch of people on this site upset when I say this, but on our second date with my now husband I didn't care if he had a big weenie, if he could bench press 300 pounds, if he was 6'4" tall, or if he had a lot of money. All I cared about then and there was "is he a good kisser?" I'm not a praying person, but this was probably the closest I came to praying in a long time because I was falling for the guy, but I just didn't know. Is he a good kisser?

I've gone out with some guys who were mediocre kissers. And I've had one or two who had no clue how to kiss. But I've dated some awesome kissers, and some who never realized they were awesome until I told them.

But him? Was he? Could I learn to get used to it if he wasn't? Was he worth putting up with if he's a bad kisser? All of these were questions that occupied me throughout the day. I reasoned that I was merely infatuated, and it was puppy love bubbling up inside. The kiss would be the deciding factor if we barrel on ahead or just play. Our kiss after our first date was a simple peck goodbye. I need to know how much more he could do when he gets it in gear.

OK, cutting to the chase, when he kissed me I was in heaven! He knew how to kiss! I don't know who taught him, but I would give that woman a deep kiss myself! He's an awesome kisser, but we don't kiss enough anymore. Every so often we'll have a romantic weekend, and those lips light up again.

Wait, what was the question again? Oh yeah, the answer is yes.

 

[marriedasian]

But him? Was he? Could I learn to get used to it if he wasn't? Was he worth putting up with if he's a bad kisser? All of these were questions that occupied me throughout the day. I reasoned that I was merely infatuated, and it was puppy love bubbling up inside. The kiss would be the deciding factor if we barrel on ahead or just play. Our kiss after our first date was a simple peck goodbye. I need to know how much more he could do when he gets it in gear.

for me, a bad kisser is a deal-breaker. call me shallow or inconsiderate or what you may. this is a standard requirement for me and is nothing against the other person. life is too short and i won't settle. i'd rather be alone than be with someone who doesn't compliment who i am or is able to offer what i want/need. same goes for me for her too (by the way).

glad it worked out for you and that he's your hubby now!

 

[Scarletbegonia]

One of the delights of being with my guy is making out like teenagers at every opportunity.
Adding tongues to the cosmic dance is where it’s at for me.

Bad kissers, move along.
I’ve had my share.

 

[deleted924715]

Love it.

And neck kisses. I love neck kisses *shiver*

 

[Holly Doors]

Absolutely love it, can't beat lot's of sloppy messy kissing in the height of passion

 

[AlteredEgo]

Yeah. I will stop if my face gets wet though. I don't like that. Once I'm dry again, we can resume.