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Disagree. :smile:

So do I subgirrl - strongly, absolutely and totally!

Thank you both so much. That actually means a lot :smile:.


I remember the gf I had back when we were yong :rolleyes: (I was 19 and she was 18.) Whenever anyone pointed a camera her way... Well, it was a big issue. She'd pull faces, run away, make a big fuss. She had a totally poor image of herself. It might have stemmed from comparing herself to her older sister, who had better posture and seemed more confident all round. My gf's poor self image was not easy to deal with, and I hope she went on to gain more confidence, because she was actually very lovely all round.
I'm not silly enough to make a fuss. That just makes people MORE determined to get a photo of you! I just make sure I'm usually BEHIND the camera!

I think part of the reason why I never look good in photos is that I never know what to do with myself when a camera is pointed at me - with my face or body. The few pictures of me that I can tolerate were taken either when I didn't know the camera was there, or when I had such strong emotions (usually happiness, not always) that I didn't give a crap about posing or what my face looked like. But telling myself to 'just be natural' doesn't work either because I don't know what natural looks like.


I went back to college to learn photography and later became a professional photographer. I now know that there are lots of people who, like you subgirrl, feel that they are not photogenic. But you know, that's a self fulfilling prophesy. I'd love to spend a bit of time with you subgirrl (for all sorts of reasons :eek:)). Hopefully, you'd trust me to take some shots of you, and I'm sure I could come up with some pictures that would change your mind.
If one of us ever goes a-visiting the other, I'd LOVE for you to give it a go! But remember, even the best photographer can only work with the subject matter they have :tongue:.


I HATE all pics of me and have like maybe 5 pictures in my life that Ive been OK with. I feel like I look older, uglier, whatever. Not photogenic in the least.

Pretty much how I feel about my pics, only without the older part. Do you think part of the problem could be that there is a difference between what we THINK we look like and what we actually look like? I know in my head I look similar to me, but not quite the same way as I do in reality.


I can show you my BJ pics..I look like a fish in all of them!:eek:
I would love to give you my opinion on them! But it would probably be a rather biased opinion - I really DO like most blowjob pics. I doubt I would see the fish effect.
 

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Thank you both so much. That actually means a lot :smile:.[QUOTE/]

It's no more than you deserve. Same goes for DasZeezard and others (see above). You girls really must listen when we say we're certain it's all in your head.


reason why I never look good in photos is that I never know what to do with myself when a camera is pointed at me - with my face or body.

I'm pretty much the same. I'm ok in charge of a camera, but in front of it I'm pretty self conscious and uncomfortable.

If one of us ever goes a-visiting the other, I'd LOVE for you to give it a go! But remember, even the best photographer can only work with the subject matter they have :tongue:.

I'll enjoy rising to that challenge, to name but one :rolleyes:


Pretty much how I feel about my pics, only without the older part. Do you think part of the problem could be that there is a difference between what we THINK we look like and what we actually look like? I know in my head I look similar to me, but not quite the same way as I do in reality.

One factor is that we are all fairly asymmetrical, and the image we see in mirrors is reversed compared to photos. So if you reverse a photo it'll look a lot more familiar. But I think the greater factor is that we are constantly conditioning ourselves to the 'look' of people/models in professionally made images. Therefore, when we see ourselves (in amateur snaps) we wince. Simples.

... I really DO like most blowjob pics...

I wouldn't mind accepting that if it were a challenge :wink:
 

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It's no more than you deserve. Same goes for DasZeezard and others (see above). You girls really must listen when we say we're certain it's all in your head.

Das is gorgeous, but I can't keep telling her so or she'll think I've upped my gay percentage and become a stalker! :biggrin1:


I'm pretty much the same. I'm ok in charge of a camera, but in front of it I'm pretty self conscious and uncomfortable.

Probably not as bad as me. I literally ask people what I should be doing when the point a camera at me :redface:. Because I just don't know.


I'll enjoy rising to that challenge, to name but one :rolleyes:

It's a deal then :tongue:


One factor is that we are all fairly asymmetrical, and the image we see in mirrors is reversed compared to photos. So if you reverse a photo it'll look a lot more familiar.

I look just as strange to me when I look in the mirror!


But I think the greater factor is that we are constantly conditioning ourselves to the 'look' of people/models in professionally made images. Therefore, when we see ourselves (in amateur snaps) we wince. Simples.

I'm not at all sure this applies to me. I mean, the airbrushing and stuff does help of course, but there are very few female models or actors whose look and body shape I admire. Although I did quite like Kate Winslet in the Titanic era. She also looked pretty good in Quills.


I wouldn't mind accepting that if it were a challenge :wink:

Why? You got some you wanna show me? :tongue:
 

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Ok, ladies you're all wacko and beautiful. I've seen some type of photo of every single one of you and you all look great. Believe it or not I HATE taking pictures. Every family or work event I'm curiously missing from the photos:biggrin1: I hate pictures.

The pictures I have up here have been randomly selected as the I guess these will do. I've also taken many down right after they were put up and I have taken them all myself using the timer on my camera.

No one has a picture of my face in a sexual situation. NO ONE. However, I did let a partner record us together in reverse cowgirl. I watched it afterward and for some reason I did not feel like a porno star:tongue::redface: More like WTF is that really my tush on screen... delete, delete, delete!!!
 
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Das is gorgeous, but I can't keep telling her so or she'll think I've upped my gay percentage and become a stalker!

Tell me about it! I have to go back and have another look at her from time to time. I hope she wouldn't mind the though of me gazing at her like that.

Probably not as bad as me. I literally ask people what I should be doing when the point a camera at me :redface:. Because I just don't know.

You're a bit phobic. I think you should make a pact with yourself to try to overcome it. Find a good photographer who's work you admire and ask him/her to be gentle with you.


It's a deal then :tongue:

Okay. I volunteer. But we are on opposite sides of the planet, so don't wait for me. See if you can find a photographer a bit nearer you.

I'm not at all sure this applies to me.[QUOTE/]

Argue with me why doncha :rolleyes:

I mean, the airbrushing and stuff does help of course, but there are very few female models or actors whose look and body shape I admire. Although I did quite like Kate Winslet in the Titanic era. She also looked pretty good in Quills.

Ok. So you like slender girls :biggrin1:


Why? You got some you wanna show me? :tongue:

:cool:
 

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I never take pics of myself (well I have tried a few times with the phone cam, but yeah, they were terrible!!)

My Hubs takes most all of my pics and I am a bit like you seaside. Extremely critical of myself. I really don't like my tummy in pics. And for the life of me can't figure out why guys like to look at pussy. (I guess they probably wonder the same about us girls oogling over cocks.) (chuckle)

As far as the blowjob pics go... I agreee, I look like a blow-fish (LOL). But really those pics are more to turn the guys on than for me to adore. There are a few where I am licking that I think are pretty cool...tongue on cock is pretty cool. I never take pics for MY personal pleasure tho, am alway trying to think...what turns the guys on. Thankfully, I have a great male photogropher who is helping me edit the pics 'just so'.
 

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I think I've taken four good photos in my life, and two are from before I was 11. I don't like photos of me. My smile is too big or the angle is off. So I'm not going to take naughty photos, that's for sure.

I don't like the photo I use for my avatar. That was my husband's idea. My smile looks put on and my eyes are weird.
 

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My GF has this same complaint, whenever she takes pictures of herself or when we`re together fooling around she rarely ever finds a pic worth keeping. And like others have mentioned she also isn`t a fan of pics I`ve taken of her giving me a BJ, says she doesn`t like the way she looks for a myriad of reasons.

I gotta say though ladies, from our point of view and I think most men would agree with what I`m about to say here, and that is whenever we see a pic of you giving us a BJ it always looks good to us, and the reason is simple its because when we see you playing, sucking or doing whatever with our dicks the thought makes us smile and horny and turns us on.

Remember us men are very visual creatures, we love to see sexual images and so when we see one involving ourselves with be it our partner or some random hookup its gonna turn us on one way or another. Speaking for myself there is no such thing as a bad blowjob pic, but then thats just me.

As for body pics they can be tricky to take, and as has already been mentioned lighting is key and angles are also a big factor, everyone has an angle they look better from than another, the key is to find it then get the right lighting and then start taking the pictures.

Mind you it is easier when someone else is taking the pictures, doing them by oneself is frustrating at the best of times, at least that was my experience having taken some pics recently and most other times I`ve attempted it.
 

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Well I'll be darn, I got this far in this thread and now I can't remember what the hell it was about...thinking...oh yeah, naughty pics. I only have pics of myself and as for the pussy pics...hahaha oh goodness I wrote a blog about that damn dilemma. I'm still laughing about it. But I haven't had the pleasure of taking any with someone else. I'd love to though. Hey, we only live once, right?
 

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Ok, ladies you're all wacko and beautiful. I've seen some type of photo of every single one of you and you all look great. Believe it or not I HATE taking pictures. Every family or work event I'm curiously missing from the photos:biggrin1: I hate pictures.

You're pretty wacko and beautiful yourself :tongue:.


You're a bit phobic. I think you should make a pact with yourself to try to overcome it. Find a good photographer who's work you admire and ask him/her to be gentle with you.

I blame my dad. He's a bit of an amateur photographer, and when we were kids he took a ridiculous number of pictures of us. And he made us pose for every single bloody one. It drove me nuts.


Okay. I volunteer. But we are on opposite sides of the planet, so don't wait for me. See if you can find a photographer a bit nearer you.

Hmmm . . . maybe one day. Eventually.


Argue with me why doncha :rolleyes:

Don't worry, I will :biggrin1:.


Ok. So you like slender girls :biggrin1:

Slender? Maybe. Not according to Hollywood standards. Personally, I consider her to be just right - a healthy weight, reasonably slim, but with boobs and very definite curves.



I want :tongue:.


I don't like the photo I use for my avatar. That was my husband's idea. My smile looks put on and my eyes are weird.

Are you serious?!? I've always loved your avatar pic!! I think you look beautiful in it. And if you look even better in real life . . . wow!


What you ladies don't realize is that a picture of you with a penis in your mouth is a work of beauty....to us. It says everything about your sexuality, generosity and attitude. And those are the things we really find sexy!

What a beautiful post! Very reassuring :smile:.
 

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I blame my dad. He's a bit of an amateur photographer, and when we were kids he took a ridiculous number of pictures of us. And he made us pose for every single bloody one. It drove me nuts.[QUOTE/]

Thereby resides the problem.

Slender? Maybe. Not according to Hollywood standards. Personally, I consider her to be just right - a healthy weight, reasonably slim, but with boobs and very definite curves.

Yes, she was in great shape at the time. Plus she had the best wardrobe and make-up people money could buy. Plus tremendous camera work and direction. Plus a really romantic story to make you really really empathise... Need I go on? C'mon subgirrl give yourself a break. It's one thing to admire an image like that, but to reject your own image because you can't look like that too?

Are you serious?!? I've always loved your avatar pic!! I think you look beautiful in it. And if you look even better in real life . . . wow!

I agree. EllieP's avatar pic is nice. I can see why her husband urged her to use it


What a beautiful post! Very reassuring :smile:.

Yes I agree. Nicely put nicenycdick.
 

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Thereby resides the problem.

I'm with you there.


Yes, she was in great shape at the time. Plus she had the best wardrobe and make-up people money could buy. Plus tremendous camera work and direction. Plus a really romantic story to make you really really empathise... Need I go on? C'mon subgirrl give yourself a break. It's one thing to admire an image like that, but to reject your own image because you can't look like that too?

Liking the appearance of one (and probably only one) female celebrity of 1000s really doesn't mean that's why I don't like my own photos. Truly, I don't think it has an impact on me.

But I do think there's something in the Imaginary Me/Real Me disparity theory. I'll talk to my psych about it when I see her in a few weeks and see if she knows of any research on it.
 

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well have you thought of it from a guy's perspective? he always admires the girl and sometimes even ignores the guy... hence it wouldn't even cross his mind as to how good/bad he looks.

then again you are comparing two unequal things: girl and boy! you need to compare two girls in two different pics in the same scenario. that would be fair.. then you can say the girl in this is good/bad as compared to the other.

another aspect is psychological.... people never feel they are perfect. its a deep rooted mental thing that sometimes even the person doesn't know it for him/herself. the plastic surgery industry is running by exploiting this insecurity among the people. you always feel the grass is greener on the other side... i dont look good in this photo or in that situation as compared to something else... whatever or whoever that may be...
guess its all in the head! if you ask me...
 

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Das is gorgeous, but I can't keep telling her so or she'll think I've upped my gay percentage and become a stalker! :biggrin1:

Tell me about it! I have to go back and have another look at her from time to time. I hope she wouldn't mind the though of me gazing at her like that.

You two are silly. :tongue:

Thank you, though :smile:
 

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If you crop a blowjob photo down to just the mouth and the penis, it looks pretty good. And that is all he is looking at anyway...
My guy has gadzillions of photos of me/us. Some of his faves are (to me) ewwwww! I wish my eyeballs had the power to delete from across the room!
But all in all, the photos are pretty good.

I'm with Punny here: with the right cropping most pics look pretty darn good. That being said if the guy is insanely huge then the 'fish look' might be a factor. :tongue:

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I'm with Punny here: with the right cropping most pics look pretty darn good. That being said if the guy is insanely huge then the 'fish look' might be a factor. :tongue:

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Might be!? LOL. No it is. If you really have to open wide to get the dick in, then yes you will look like a fish. I showed SubGirl one of our pics and I think she would agree I'm working with a lot of girth :)