Ladies, do you tell girlfriends about your man?

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Donk: To you ladies who are or have been involved with a man with a large penis, do you tell your girlfriends about his size? If so, what is their reaction?

I know that my girlfriends (past and present) have tended to gossip with their female friends about my size. I have been informed of a few reactions to this information. For example, one girlfriend was warned by a friend of hers that I would "spoil" her for "normal" men. Other times I have picked up on the reactions my girlfriends' friends have when I'm around. For example, someone will make a sly "horse" comment and they all start giggling.

 

[TinyPrincess]

Bump

Bumping a thread after 14 years - fourteen, FOURTEEN years....

Geez, must be a new record

 

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No, no I don't. It's none of their business. I may touch on vague things about sex life/relationships in general with some friends who are equally open, but otherwise? No.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

Depends.

If I'm talking to a close as Fuck friend and they wanna chit-chat about sexy times, why not? He knows I might say a lil somethin' flattering about him, and he's mentioned things about me to his close friends. It doesn't bother me at all.

It's not like I go into intricate detail about him, but exchanging stories has opened my mind and broadened my sexual horizons. I flatter myself to think I may have inspired a friend or 2 along the way as well.

 

[chicagosam]

Our banning threads were definitely exciting.

Ah! The good old days! If you go to Ecetera and set the options to most viewed, banning threads are among the most viewed. Hickboy started a petition and Manlybanisters started this fun one:
https://www.lpsg.com/threads/lpsg-post-whore-terrorist-on-the-run.51492/

 

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huge_cock_have_pic: If ever there was what seems to be an obvious answer. Oh they talk. Even if my girl's friends aren't saying anything about it (and often they do) there are the stares and sometimes the brushes across by crotch.

 

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wvalady1968: [quote author=Donk link=board=women;num=1067229094;start=0#0 date=10/26/03 at 20:22:34]To you ladies who are or have been involved with a man with a large penis, do you tell your girlfriends about his size?  If so, what is their reaction?

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No, I don't.

He and I work in seperate departments of the same large hospital, so a couple of women have noticed and made comments. When they do this, I just look at them for about thirty seconds without saying anything, and then go on with whatever I was doing.

It's none of their business, and that place is SUCH a gossip mill, anyway.

 

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Tender: my mother IS my best friend...
and we have made general comments regarding sexual things...
but never have said anything personal--size, color ect..
birthmarks, moles...

i never was a talker to any of my other friends either.
even in highschool, my x was an 8ish, and i figured NONE of it was anyone elses business...
yep i have the gossip mill thoughts too....

i mean really, i wouldnt want him talking about me ....

Tender

 

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bblumbee: I have NEVER discussed any guys size with my girlfriends. Although a lot of men feel we do, and quite honestly, a lot of women do, I have not. First, I do not feel it to be appropriate. That is a very sensual and personal moment between you and the guy you are with. Secondly, if you start telling things, some of these girls might be trying to latch onto your man.

There have been occassions where I did discuss some pvt. things with a guy whom I was in a relationship with. A lot of times, men will continuously nag you to find out the sizes of the men you had a sexual relationship with (goes back to my theory that men worry to much about their penis size), but only when they asked. And they normally ask several times before I answer...

Huge-cock, I will admit that when I have been in these "gossip mills" and that I have been guilty of starring at some of the guys the girls have talked about. But, in the same token, don't we all? If a sexy woman walks in the room with a nice shape, are not most guys going to check her out and possibly "discuss" her with his friends. I think so. Same thing.

As far as the slight brushes against a guy... I have never been guilty of personally brushing against a guy, but I often times feel men rub against me. And when they do, they normally put their hands on my waist or in the small of my back, press against me, and then say excuse me. I won't say anything more about that... hmmm

Respect of people you've had relationships with is dire. And, it is crucial that one would respect him/herself in the same regard. Unfortunately, we do not live in such a society....

 

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huge_cock_have_pic: I agree with you on respect. The reason I think women talk is because I know men. Absolutely we talk about "female traits," especially when they are so physically obvious. Some goes as far as physically touching. The same applies to women, especially when the "obvious" is out there to be seen.

 

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longtimelurker: Possibly a bit of a strange situation, but I have been at a table in a pub with my old uni housemates before now where all the girls measured out the size of their exes with their hands on the bar table. Needless to say, I didn't proffer my dimensions!

 

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bblumbee: [quote author=huge_cock_have_pic link=board=women;num=1067229094;start=0#5 date=10/27/03 at 12:15:42]I agree with you on respect.  The reason I think women talk is because I know men.  Absolutely we talk about "female traits," especially when they are so physically obvious.  Some goes as far as physically touching.  The same applies to women, especially when the "obvious" is out there to be seen.[/quote]

You are right... I cannot deny that. I suppose the flaunting it syndrome can be a detriment, huh? :-/

 

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james9692000: Just about every girl I've been with has mentioned my size to at least one of her friends. However, there is usually a couple friends that she would never tell because they rarely talk about sex. I think some people are just more comfortable being candid about risque topics.


James

 

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huge_cock_have_pic: If you flaunt it, then the comments or looks are you get are not a drawback. If you can't help it because of the size of that body part, male or female, then that is the drawback and the embarrassment.

 

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bblumbee: I understand where you are coming from. However, I also believe that one should not be embarrassed by his/her physical demensions. We are who we are and nothing can change that, unless we surgically alter ourselves. That, of course, opens up another can of worms!

People come in an array of sizes, colors and shapes. Some are more acceptable than others, but nonetheless, it proves our differences. Uniqueness is ingredient of life that many people overlook. It took me a long time to express myself, comfortably, and celebrate me. Although I am not physically large, I do have a very shapely figure. I was ashamed of my breast and hips, but learned quickly that they are part of me. Some people will stare, some will make lude remarks and some will just compliment me, but I learned to appreciate all of me. There are no drawbacks. I am totally grateful for my size and would hope others would be, too.

As for you... I can see where you might feel awkward, but your size is a part of you. Nothing you do will change that. Celebrate it. A lot of guys wished they could "flaunt" that around...

 

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wvalady1968: [quote author=bblumbee link=board=women;num=1067229094;start=0#10 date=10/27/03 at 14:21:38] I understand where you are coming from.  However, I also believe that one should not be embarrassed by his/her physical demensions.  We are who we are and nothing can change that, unless we surgically alter ourselves.  That, of course, opens up another can of worms!

People come in an array of sizes, colors and shapes.  Some are more acceptable than others, but nonetheless, it proves our differences.  Uniqueness is ingredient of life that many people overlook.  It took me a long time to express myself, comfortably, and celebrate me.  Although I am not physically large, I do have a very shapely figure.  I was ashamed of my breast and hips, but learned quickly that they are part of me.  Some people will stare, some will make lude remarks and some will just compliment me, but I learned to appreciate all of me.  There are no drawbacks.  I am totally grateful for my size and would hope others would be, too.

As for you... I can see where you might feel awkward, but your size is a part of you.  Nothing you do will change that.  Celebrate it.  A lot of guys wished they could "flaunt" that around...[/quote]



Yes, h_c_h_p has such inferiority issues!

 

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huge_cock_have_pic: I may have miswrote it, and not to sound defensive, but I honestly like to show my bulge as well as other parts of my body that I workout on, or for that matter, my ideas and my mind.

 

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sammygirly: No, I don't. It's a respect thing.

He doesn't flaunt it, so I won't do it for Him. Besides which, it's MINE! ~laughs~

 

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bblumbee: I hear ya, Sammy! My sentiments exactly.

Sorry I misread your post, huge and am glad you are comfortable. And, I must add, the flexing of your ideas and mind are quite interesting, too.

 

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huge_cock_have_pic: Hey, flexing your mind and your ideas with someone who will challenge you will make everything else even better.