Ladies,Ever Been Told How Lucky You Are ?

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  1. Crosz

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    Some of the ladies of LSPG have related some less than positive
    experiences with guys who are large.Some of you have expressed
    the idea that some large guys have no other skill but being large and
    act like you should be thankful for being with them.

    But have any of you been actually told that you were lucky for being
    with a large guy while in the act with a lover ? What would you're
    reaction be if a guy actually said "You don't know how lucky you are
    to be with someone as big as me.."

    Would that turn you off to the point that you would end the encounter
    right there and then ?

    Just wondering
     
  2. B_Jennuine73

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    "You're lucky to be the one getting this big dick tonight"

    I laughed and said "I'd be luckier if you knew how to use it."

    He got soft immediately, called me a cunt and left while I continued to laugh.
     
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    I have heard from several women... that finding those who can use what they have is slim-to-none.

    A few have also noticed the guys who think they are HOTT... or would be considered a 9 or above by most people are also poor performers in the sack.
     
  4. whatireallywant

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    I would think "What an egotistical asshole"! :biggrin1:

    I like big guys who are humble about it. :smile:
     
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    :biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1:

     
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    I woulda smacked him silly if he said something like that to me in the middle of it. Kind of tactless..
     
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    See, this is why talking in bed is bad. I am silent except for the occassional moan. I hate when guys get chatty in bed and have been known to tell them to shut up and fuck.:cool:
     
  8. TheRob

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    he was probubly right to do so honestly
    I mean realistically if you had taken a softer approach you would have improved his night, your night, and any woman he winds up with after that's night as well

    instead you had to be a bitch so
     
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    Best answer ever. :biggrin1:

    Oddly enough all the hung guys i've been with weren't smug and arrogant about their size.
     
  10. TheRob

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    right, smacking someone who is trying to give you pleasure is tactful....

    is the hypocricy not obvious here? you are on a big dicks website
    if you prefer a large penis you are admiting that large penis is preferable (that's how it works!) so you really are just upset with the guy for having self confidence
    that's all there is to it

    you want him to have the big dick
    and your glad he has the big dick
    but if he KNOWS that your glad he has the big dick, that's no good

    this is the female equivilent of a man who tells a woman she's stupid or fat or whatever so she will stay with him, even thohe finds her attractive or could not live his life with out her...
    pretty damn weak
     
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    You say self confidence, they say arrogance. And maybe they just don't like the way it makes them feel. Sounds like a very dominate thing to say, and not all women like to be submissive.

    And by the way, I don't have to say outloud how big my cock is to know how big it is.
     
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    Seriously, it was a joke! I never had a guy say that to me before so I really don't know how I'd react to it.
     
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    Ladies, is it okay for a hung guy while fucking hard to say "You like that big fucking cock, baby?"
     
  14. B_DEATHbyCARROT

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    Part of the problem is that being able to "using what you have" can mean very different things for different women. I learned this the hard way early on after breaking up with my 1st (multi orgasmic) gf. I did the same thing that got great results on the old gf on the first new girl I was with and found out later through the grapevine that she wasnt that into what I was doing. So the lesson learned was that I needed to start at square one with a new woman and not think I know how to please her and that I needed to find out what she likes early on. I also blame the second girl partially because she never said anything to me during the act indicating she wanted anything different (even came back for seconds and thirds). So I think with a lot of these "poor performers" its usually just a bad match or one or both partners not speaking up about what they like/dislike.

    But to the OPs question I would never say anything about my dicksize in bed. I'll leave that to her. I also think that as a Black guy some girls expect us all to be my size and larger :rolleyes:
     
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    I'm sure some woman like their men to be quietly confident and carry their organs with a certain amount of humility. Others might prefer their lovers to be arrogant and vocally proud of what they bring to the bedroom. It all comes down to the chemistry...I'm sure there's a "right" girl for each big dick out there.
     
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    Ladies, is it okay for a hung guy while fucking hard to say "You like that big fucking cock, baby?"


    Actually I wouldn't mind that at all.... I like it when they say how big and fat their cock is...

    The only thing that wuld annoy me is someone telling me how "lucky I am" like you say!!

    I might end up laughing....

    Confidence is great, feeling good about yourself and what you have but arrogance is a HUGE turnoff!!!!!!!

    I wuld end up in stitches!! :biggrin1:
     
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    Would you ladies like it if he stood naked by a window and started shuffling side to side and when asked what he is doing says, "My cock is dodging traffic !!" ???
     
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    I said something stupid about luck one time and the girl actually laughed at me. She asked me if I was so wonderful, why was I the one who always paid for dinner and drinks.
     
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    I'll side with Rob on this one. When I am with a guy mainly because of his cock size, I like him to feel like his size is the center of my attention, so saying something like that lets me know he's enjoying it.

    Plus, if a guy is really big, I want him to be proud of it. It's not arrogant to tell me what I already feel. I usually feel lucky being with him, too.
     
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    I would most deffinatly laugh at anoyne telling me I was lucky to be getting someones cock, fuck that.
     
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