no i havent, if i dont like or felt atracted to him why should i waste his time for a free meal, when he could be out enjoying himself with some one else who mite be more his type, but now that ive been with hubby for 16 yrs, im glad im out of the dating seen as that was the hardest part of my life looking back, hopefully if we ever part it will be together as i dont want to live alone and i dont think i could love someone else like i do him and that would also be unfair as going with someone for a free dinner to me. i am 33 an he is 43 and we are inseprble but one never knows what can happen with illness and all these days, so i always charish each moment we have together in any way that i can with him and he me as well.