Ladies, ever just go on a date to get a free dinner out of a guy?

Discussion in 'Women's Issues' started by W/In 1 Stand Dev, Jul 4, 2008.

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Have you ever gone on a date with a guy to get a free dinner out of it?

  1. Yes, hey, I am cheap and I knew the guy wasn't my type

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    5.0%
  2. Yes, I was hoping the guy and I would hit it off, but at least I got a free dinner out of it

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    15.0%
  3. No, I have never been that much of a cheapskate and/or hungry to use a guy like that.

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    55.0%
  4. No, for whatever reason/other________

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    25.0%
  1. W/In 1 Stand Dev

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    Yeah, have you ever?

    Please, PLEASE! Just the women answer this, 'kay?
     
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  2. Not_Punny

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    From a lot of your posts you seem like a class act, far different than South Florida women. The second they realize you have a good job or a rich family you are the most interesting man in the room. This place is hard to find a REAL woman with basic morals.
     
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    Why thank you, BillyBulge. I' believe that my own two feet are the best vehicles to get me wherever I'm going. (In other words, there are no free rides)
     
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    i love these stupid poll questions hahahaha :lmao:
     
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    no i havent, if i dont like or felt atracted to him why should i waste his time for a free meal, when he could be out enjoying himself with some one else who mite be more his type, but now that ive been with hubby for 16 yrs, im glad im out of the dating seen as that was the hardest part of my life looking back, hopefully if we ever part it will be together as i dont want to live alone and i dont think i could love someone else like i do him and that would also be unfair as going with someone for a free dinner to me. i am 33 an he is 43 and we are inseprble but one never knows what can happen with illness and all these days, so i always charish each moment we have together in any way that i can with him and he me as well.
     
  7. The Dragon

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    Never.
    If I want dinner I have money to buy my own or cook my own as I am an exceptional cook.
     
  8. marleyisalegend

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    Sorry ladies, I voted and I'm a dude. Hope you don't mind me hogging this poll.
     
  9. The Dragon

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    You are fine Marley. Knock yourself out.
     
  10. marleyisalegend

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    I was gonna make a comment about certain polls posted in "Women's Issues" that are REALLY men's issues but I dunno, maybe some women do think about this stuff.:rolleyes:
     
  11. The Dragon

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    Well I could give an "honorary woman" status if you like?
     
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    No, of course not. That would be so very rude. The thought of doing such a thing has never crossed my mind.
     
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    That would kick ass.
     
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    Have you ever gone out on a date with a girl and paid for dinner expecting to get sex out of it?
     
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    No. I do have morals and my own income
     
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    I've never been that hungry.
     
  17. ManlyBanisters

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    It's never even occured to me...
     
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    Well yes. I went out to dinner with my dad when I was pissed at him just to get a free meal. :rolleyes:
     
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    Yes, I was hoping the guy and I would hit it off, but at least I got a free dinner out of it

    That's not what the question insinuates at all, that just means you went on a date and you didn't hit it off...
     
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    No because there is no such thing as a free meal. If a guy took me out to dinner, he would almost certainly expect something in return. And if I were not attracted to him, I would not be willing to give it! This is quite aside from the fact that I would not have dinner with a guy I was not attracted to unless he were a work colleague or a friend...
     
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