Ladies..grinding guy at club...can you tell a difference

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  1. D_Irving D Injector

    D_Irving D Injector New Member

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    Hi Ladies,
    Wanted to see if you are dancing/grinding w/ different guys at a club can you tell a difference just by dancing up on them or no?

    Have a good one!
     
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    No. I can't. My ass doesn't have that skill. I can't even tell if that's actually your cock or your belt buckle most of the time.

    I just enjoy the grindiness of doing it because it's fun and sexy.
     
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    @ both Petite and Empathizer. Thanks for consistently taking part in the dialogues on this site. Although this question is not all that interesting, you both had your say. As a straight male, I enjoy getting the rare female POV on LPSG. Again...thanks.
     
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    Oh, thank you!

    I've read other women say that they can feel it and they can tell. I can't. I've wondered, tried to tell, and I couldn't do it. Maybe I wasn't moving my ass in the right way or something, but then again, I haven't focused all that much on developing that skill. Maybe if i was trying harder? It's usually just a fleeting thought that passes in a few seconds. :smile:
     
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    Lol...thought for sure your ass wld thxs for debunking that myth!
     
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    Well i think it's a interesting topic. there are not that many nerve endings on the buttocks, thats why spanking isn't really really painfull. So i guess it would stand to reason, if women were wearing jeans or trousers they may not be able to judge size at all unless you have a seriously huge raging hard on.
     
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    I would never be able to tell size - if there's a bulge, yes - but the size, no.
     
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    I can't really tell but if I had noticed a big bulge earlier, while dancing I'd make sure my hands brushed his dick a few times. If he started to get hard I'd brush more. :wink:
     
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    Seriously, why are there not more women like you in this world?
     
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    Agreed!
     
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    can you tell me what club you go to and when you plan on going next so I can dance up on you! lol.

    thanks for the responses...never knew ifladies were checking out the situation lol.
     
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    HAHA, i just asked my girl this question because i was up against her, i asked can you feel me, she said yes all you, im like no way... iwas in shock, and i said so girls can feel that when i grinded up against me, she laughed and said yeah since i can.

    good thread..
     
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    I can tell if he has an erection, depending on what pants each of us are wearing. If we're both wearing jeans, most likely not, but I can through thinner clothe. I can't tell if he's big or small or average, though, which is what I assumed you were asking.
     
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    I was recently informed that if I'm dancing (grinding would be more appropriate) with a girl at a club and I get an erection, unless it's likely that we'll go home together, I should probably back off.

    Sage advice, or do most women know that an erection is bound to happen when you're dancing like this?
     
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    I suppose it would be hard to tell with ass to crotch grinding. The way I would always grind when I was into that whole thing was crotch to crotch. I couldn't help but feel like it was impossible to hide, and one time in particular I remember a girl deliberately grinding her thigh against my bulge. Any ladies ever get that serious, or is that considered to be kind of skanky? I have no opinion either way, but I am curious about what you have to say.
     
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    "my ass doesn't have that skill"
    that should be a slogan on something,somwhere..lol!
     
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    I've never been anywhere where anyone was doing any "grinding." I think I'd be shocked if I actually saw it happening.
     
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    I don't like that kind of dancing with strangers. I'm not so keen on it with well-known men for that matter. If I want some dude to rub his dick all over me, we could always just have sex.
     
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    depends on the girl imo, some chicks do stuff like that just to tease, but back up enough so that its her choice if she wants to keep it going.
     
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