Ladies, hardness or size?

Ladies, have you ever had a problem with a guy not being able to get it up? Or maybe he does but it isn't quite stiff enough? If this has happened, would you give up some of the size for a more stiff erection? Would you rather a really hard average size cock or a big huge floppy one? Which is more important, or what combination of the two?

 

Has this already been answered or something? If so, can someone point me in that direction?

 

LOL Obviously you've never seen me nekkid. :wink: No, I've never encountered this.

Now I see why there have been no responses. It's a stupid question! :irked: A soft, floppy, flaccid penis is useless! Doesn't matter how big a man, is a soft cock is of no use to a woman. :duh:

 

ahh come on NJ! Cut me some slack. Im trying to get better about my question asking.

 

Your question was not whether a woman prefers average over large; but soft over hard. Even men don't like floppy dicks that don't get hard, so why should a woman like that?

Try again. . . but try to apply logic to your question this time.

 

A woman will blame the man if she feels his penis is too small, but she'll blame herself if he isn't hard.

And there's your answer.

 

Ok NJ, how about this...A Big, hard enough to work, dick? Or an average rock hard dick?

 

An average rock hard dick is better. There is nothing more frustrating and disapointing when you are really horny than a soft dick, no matter the size. I agree with the post before that it tends to make you feel like there is something wrong with you, even though that might not be the case.

 

Or you could just stop asking the same dumbass question over and over again.

 

women will never tell the truth...they evade...lie...whatever they can
to avoid the truth in their sexual preferences.

they even lie to themselves and know they do.
(fme)

 

:261: Was that the question? No, it was not.

 

i think it's a valid enough question. there are some guys who even at full erection aren't "rock hard." i actually didn't know this for a long time, until i saw a few guys like this in porn and had girls not only compliment my size but how hard i would get...to which i would think, "well...yeah. i'm hard. it's an erection, that's what happens." i think that's more what the OP was asking (or should have been, though his wording is rather faulty), not whether you prefer flaccid or erect, but whether you prefer the hardness of the erection itself or the size of the penis.

 

Apparently this is some kind of taboo subject, I asked a similar question earlier and received no response. You see it all the time in porn (Amateur and even the pro stuff) and I've seen it first hand out in the field. There's lots of guys, especially big guys, who never get rock hard. They get hard, but there's still some flexibility to it, sometimes a lot of flexibility. I've been told that being rock-hard sometimes makes things more difficult, but it improves a girl's ability to squirt, and that the preference is for a hard but not diamond-hard cock.

I don't know why asking a question like this would elicit such a vitriolic response.

 

Yeah, I first noticed this in porn as well. While I enjoy watching a woman getting fucked by a big dick, I'd rather see an hard average dick than a semi-hard big dick doing her. I imagine women feel the same way.

There's that guy Castro who appears in some of the Monsters of Cock videos. He's huge, but only gets semi-hard, and I wonder how the hell he even cums. I can't stand watching scenes with him in it.

 

Some women do not lie. Some women have no need to lie.

I prefer a thick, very hard cock, on that I will not compromise.
If he cannot get it up a few times, that's fine.
Regularly, however, is not. Untreated, unacknowledged chronic impotence would lead to the relationship's end or my cheating. This is what I advocate as a choice for men who, barring illness of some sort, find themselves in a sexless relationship, and I advocate it for myself.



Btw, whatever Psidom has is perfect for me. :biggrin:

 

Oh... I didn't realize there was a history, I was just jumping on board because I had a real question about hardness.

 

There is no history...I remember talking to her a few times in chat...along with plenty of others. Like she said, im average...not small. So SPH wouldn't make since to me. Also, if I wanted girls to say that they prefer average to large, how is that SPH? That makes no sense at all. My question was about stiffness vs size which had nothing to do with SPH. I actually happen to like sizequeens...doesn't mean that I like SPH. SPH means that you like being humiliated for being small. Im not small and I never have and never will want to be humiliated.

 

Shouldn't you be posting to APSG.org, then?

 

It's an ok question. I've certainly read worse on this website. No such thing as a stupid question and all that.

I don't know how some of those semi hard huge dongs you see in porn can get it in a pussy. They must be cavernous holes, because if I am not 100% stiff, there's no way it's going in the average pussy. I agree with the poster who said it's a turn off to see that in porn.