My experience with joking around with men is that they always lie or brag about being hung. But as insecurity somemtimes set in and they ask the question that should not be asked "Am I the largest you've ever had", or who is the largest. I had sex with a married women once. She was one of the biggest size queens I've met. When her husband found out, and asked her what did I have that he didn't have.....she told him, and she gave him details. He was in the Army at the time and went AWOL. Do you think telling your lover he has a small dick will hurt his ego, or ruin the relationship?