ladies...his sex sounds?

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  1. dolfette

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    tell me what's good to hear. what's sexy to you?

    do you like it quiet?

    are you a fan of dirty talk? what would he say?

    just some good animal grunting?

    ...i love it when a guy almost roars when he cums.
     
  2. B_Kshelby67

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    I looooooove when guys talk dirty and grunt and make all sorts of sexy sounds. Ugh. I love it so much. The dirtier the better. If I'm not wet enough, or having trouble cumming, all he has to do is talk to me or moan or something, and I'm spent. Same thing with being out in public. We could be doing whatever completly unsexy, he out of no where whispers raunch in my ear....He is done for.
    I'm the same way with porn too. If the guy is really into it and making man noise....just yum. I can't handle.
     
  3. dolfette

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    what's a good thing for him to say?

    this is a public service to men who don't know how to talk dirty :wink:
     
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    glad I can help educate!
    I like him to describe how he likes certian parts of me, if something feels good, what he wants to do to me, what he wants me to do to him, commenting on my performace, ability, or what i'm doing to him, if something is getting him really especially hot...stuff like that.
     
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    DEFINITLY ALOT of animal grunting with a few really nasty words whispered directly into my ear lol
     
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    I like guys that moan and tell me that whatever it is I'm doing feels good to him. I don't even mind a little cussing! Hell, I was giving a guy head a few days ago... and he was trying to "hold back", I think... so he was pretty quiet the first minute or so, then he just goes, "Goddamn, girl!" and started moaning openly... that was awesome. :biggrin:
     
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    Agreed - only one prerequisite - that he has the personality to pull it off. It must feel like a natural response from him - the least hint that it's fake or just for the sake of it and I'm more likely to be turned off than anything else.

    Same thing as with some guys that try to act dominant instead of actually having a dominant trait in them as part of their personality. Doesn't work, doesn't produce that feeling in me - I can spot it right away and it just makes me cold.

    I'm sure both traits can be learned to some extent - some guys just seem to have it in them naturally. And those are usually the guys I fall for (not always good guys, but usually heavenly sex...)
     
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    I love the gutteral moans and groans so many guys make. I've had a few guys growl. :smile: Not too many into real dirty talk. I do love when they tell me how good my body feels and how tight my pussy is. That usually makes me more wet.
     
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    It really depends upon who the guy is. On most men, groaning and telling me that what I'm doing is how he likes it is good. I really get turned on when they tell me they are getting close to cumming and yes I really like guys who grunt loudly when they cum.

    As far as dirty talk goes it has to depend upon the guy and if it fits his personality. If he is Mr. Cleancut, conservative, proper type of guy, who doesn't swear and speaks eloquently than all of a sudden he starts talking dirty it seems out of character to me. It's not believable and then is a turn-off.

    On the other hand if he is a rough around the edges type then it would be most appropriate.

    I don't want to hear any crap back about this one - but I used to have sex with these black guys and for reason they could say the dirtiest stuff, call me all sorts of names, degrade me and it was this really intense turn on. It was all sort of animalistic type black taboo thing, hard to explain but it was awesome.
     
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    I adore these noises!!! sooo hot!
     
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    What about the heavy breathing right before he cums?
     
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    What the hell does a grunt sound like?
     
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    Kind of like an "ugh". Just deeper and more gutteral. :smile:
     
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    Like a death metal growl? Cuz im not very good at that lol.
     
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    Well, with me, I don't grunt...I growl. It happens in my chest, not my throat, so it always has interesting ramifications. :biggrin1:
     
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    I take it that you've never been around a hog farm...:tongue:
     
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    ever deal with a guy who talks dirty, but you have no clue what the hell he's saying?

    ever ask him to repeat himself?
     
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    Nah...more like the sound you make when you pick up a refridgerator...but sexy.
     
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    This thread fucking rules. The things the girls are describing are the things I do so it's quite a big fucking pat on the back for me.

    I have a somewhat deep voice and I always like to say things low and softly in her ear...it seems to drive her fucking nuts...I would estimate that it gives her that same feeling of when I hear her soft voice in my ear and it mesmerizes me.
     
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    I was just speaking to the fwb about this... and how hot it is.. but he says he doesn't even know he does it...
     
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