Ladies, how are we supposed to know the size queens when we see them?

[Catchoftheday]

It's quite easy to tell who is the size queen, it's the person who has a ruler in one hand and a pair of undies in the other also another good indicator is someone who is wearing a crown.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

I don't know what all the banter is about, it's a legitimate question. I hate having to ask a guy how big his dick is. Find a way to hint at it when youre flirting with a girl. Be "kidding" about being well hung. If a guy doesn't measure up for me, I agree it's a waste of everyone's time. (Before you ask how big..it depends on girth but really anything under 6-7" I won't be happy with) Does that make me a terrible shallow person? Oh well. I guess it's a good thing I'm not trying to go out there and date.
Oh and one more note, I know that statistically most guys are not above 7" but I've managed to have 4 long term relationships and date quite a few guys regularly that well exceeded that so no, I'm not living in a dream world and yes size queens DO exist!

Well i know you a little better than the average stranger and given you are in an open marriage in order to get your sexual needs met, its totally not unreasonable if you are looking for sex that you look for what you want. I see nothing wrong with that. If a man was looking for sex only, he could have a DD cup minimum and no one would see that as shallow. But if he was looking for a good woman and that was first on his list he would be throwing out a lot of good women for the sake of DD's.

I think the standards are put in a different priority list when looking for the guy you will introduce to your parents and who you will eat turkey dinner with ya know?

I think if one is looking for a man to have children with or to be around their kids...he better have more than a big dick going for him because thats a useless trait that has nothing to do with character when pair bonding for life.

 

[Swole2112]

I could very well be putting my foot in my mouth for saying this, but oh well. I don't want to be thought of as less of a man just because some other guy's dick is bigger than mine. I have this thought in my mind that any given women, in the back of her head, hold's some big dicked guy in awe over me, simply because of how endowed he is. Even if the guy is the ex and I'm the current, there's the idea of her morning the loss of what she remembers as something I can't give her but he could.

Why yes. As a matter of fact, I do have issues.

 

[Enid]

I could very well be putting my foot in my mouth for saying this, but oh well. I don't want to be thought of as less of a man just because some other guy's dick is bigger than mine. I have this thought in my mind that any given women, in the back of her head, hold's some big dicked guy in awe over me, simply because of how endowed he is. Even if the guy is the ex and I'm the current, there's the idea of her morning the loss of what she remembers as something I can't give her but he could.

Why yes. As a matter of fact, I do have issues.

On the whole, women are not nearly as obsessed with penis size. Just keep repeating that like a mantra. There are obviously going to be exceptions. It just varies from individual to individual. For serious though, it's not a crazy obsession to the exclusion of all else with the majority of women.

 

[Incocknito]

The size queens have this tattoo:

http://www.fwditon.com/attachments/2006/10/18/116124082424_None.jpg

 

[D_Ollyvall Oilyclit]

I could very well be putting my foot in my mouth for saying this, but oh well. I don't want to be thought of as less of a man just because some other guy's dick is bigger than mine. I have this thought in my mind that any given women, in the back of her head, hold's some big dicked guy in awe over me, simply because of how endowed he is. Even if the guy is the ex and I'm the current, there's the idea of her morning the loss of what she remembers as something I can't give her but he could.

Why yes. As a matter of fact, I do have issues.

Then the task, if you choose to accept it, is to be a better lover than her ex. There are smaller guys on this forum who still please their partners because they think with more than their dick.

Enid is correct, most of us just don't care when it comes down to it.

 

[Daisy]

Well i know you a little better than the average stranger and given you are in an open marriage in order to get your sexual needs met,

I think if one is looking for a man to have children with or to be around their kids...he better have more than a big dick going for him because thats a useless trait that has nothing to do with character when pair bonding for life.

First, I WAS in an open marriage, currently going through a divorce. (Obviously that didnt work, the marriage not the open part)

Secondly you're right, in the case of finding a life partner yes, there are waaaay more factors involved than penis size, but plenty of good men have larger penises, so just like they say you can marry a rich man just as well as a poor man, you can also marry a great guy who happens to have a big dick and that's my hope...some day!

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Sorry to hear that, but if it wasnt working its probably easier on everyone to just go their seperate ways.

 

[kc2007]

Anyone with any experience with real relationships, real love, knows that penis size isn't the end all be all. My girlfriend and I are currently going through a "break" after 4 years and it's really tough. I have a bigger than average penis and the biggest she's ever had and also the first and only to give her vaginal orgasms. Our sex life was outstanding. It hasn't been too great lately which is more a result of other issues in our relationship. Granted, not having great sex or much sex at all lately has contributed to our problems, but it wasn't the crux of it. There are many other complicated issues. But the point is, she is seriously considering ending it with me and moving on. Now, is she still considering staying with me because of my dick? I seriously doubt it, but guess it could be a factor. To her at this point, I think my dick almost means nothing and she is perfectly capable of just starting over with another guy. As great as she thinks my dick is, many other things are much more important to her. I've learned first hand this obsession with dick size, even great sex, is much more of a guy thing. Women fall in love with the guy and how he can make her feel and how he can complete her life, not his dick, as much as we guys would love to think.

All that said, I'm sure in some casual sex instances, a big dick helps "complete" the package and the fun factor. And I agree that true "size queens" are either not looking for any sort of relationship or have other issues themselves.

 

[wallyj84]

First, I WAS in an open marriage, currently going through a divorce. (Obviously that didnt work, the marriage not the open part)

Secondly you're right, in the case of finding a life partner yes, there are waaaay more factors involved than penis size, but plenty of good men have larger penises, so just like they say you can marry a rich man just as well as a poor man, you can also marry a great guy who happens to have a big dick and that's my hope...some day!

That's ridiculous. Poor men are significantly easier to find and marry than rich men.

I think the realistic chances of marrying a good man with a large dick go down significantly as you get older and move into different age groups. This is because good men with large dicks are scooped up almost immediately as they get on the market. The only ones left are those that are defective in some manner. For example, they might have a big dick, but are poor and bad with money.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

everyone knows the big dicked rich men are gay anyway

 

[kc2007]

That's ridiculous. Poor men are significantly easier to find and marry than rich men.

I think the realistic chances of marrying a good man with a large dick go down significantly as you get older and move into different age groups. This is because good men with large dicks are scooped up almost immediately as they get on the market. The only ones left are those that are defective in some manner. For example, they might have a big dick, but are poor and bad with money.

This might be true, but I guarantee women care about whether the guy has money or at least can manage money to some degree 99x more that whether his dick is big. I'd also bet women would choose the rich guy with small penis vs. the poor guy with big dick 99 times out of a 100. throw in other things like looks an personality and maybe 76 times out of 100.

 

[gretchenweiner]

It's quite easy to tell who is the size queen, it's the person who has a ruler in one hand and a pair of undies in the other also another good indicator is someone who is wearing a crown.

oooh a crown with a rhinestone penis

 

[AlteredEgo]

This might be true, but I guarantee women care about whether the guy has money or at least can manage money to some degree 99x more that whether his dick is big. I'd also bet women would choose the rich guy with small penis vs. the poor guy with big dick 99 times out of a 100. throw in other things like looks an personality and maybe 76 times out of 100.

This is me. Give me the rich guy or the guy who knows how to stretch a dollar until it hollers anytime. Even with a small penis, as long as it's not abnormally small.

 

[B_crackoff]

I think the realistic chances of marrying a good man with a large dick go down significantly as you get older and move into different age groups. This is because good men with large dicks are scooped up almost immediately as they get on the market. The only ones left are those that are defective in some manner. For example, they might have a big dick, but are poor and bad with money.

You're assuming here that the women are so outstanding - forever - that the guys don't leave. Life ain't like that.

It's a bit like saying single women over 30 are defective.

There's as many defective people in a marriage as out of it.

 

[Guy-jin]

First, I WAS in an open marriage, currently going through a divorce. (Obviously that didnt work, the marriage not the open part)

Secondly you're right, in the case of finding a life partner yes, there are waaaay more factors involved than penis size, but plenty of good men have larger penises, so just like they say you can marry a rich man just as well as a poor man, you can also marry a great guy who happens to have a big dick and that's my hope...some day!

Or you could marry a rich, handsome, intelligent, big-dicked guy.

Too bad I'm already taken, sorry ladies! :frown1:

 

[wallyj84]

You're assuming here that the women are so outstanding - forever - that the guys don't leave. Life ain't like that.

That is a good point. There will be some high status men who re-enter the dating market due to divorce, but I don't think it will be that many of them.

It's a bit like saying single women over 30 are defective.

They aren't?

There's as many defective people in a marriage as out of it.

Exactly, this is why I don't think that divorce will heavily impact the number of "good" men on the market, because most divorces are between either two defective people or one average/mid-status person and a defective person. Good, and by that I mean high status people, generally don't marry defective people.

 

[petite]

They aren't?

Wally, I'm over 30 and I've never been married. I've been asked many times, but I've never said yes. I'm very selective, romantic, and I only want to be married once. I want it to really count. I don't feel that I need to have a husband to be fulfilled or else I would have said yes to the first man who asked, or any of the other men who asked. Instead I weighing whether I really believed that we should be spending the rest of our lives together. I have never been worried that there won't be another man in my future who will also want to marry me. I've never been concerned that I won't have other options in the future. Even though I am in of a "defective age" according to you, men still appear to be very interested in me.

How do I fit into your social hierarchy?

 

[wallyj84]

Wally, I'm over 30 and I've never been married. I've been asked many times, but I've never said yes. I'm very selective, romantic, and I only want to be married once. I want it to really count. I don't feel that I need to have a husband to be fulfilled or else I would have said yes to the first man who asked, or any of the other men who asked. Instead I weighing whether I really believed that we should be spending the rest of our lives together. I have never been worried that there won't be another man in my future who will also want to marry me. I've never been concerned that I won't have other options in the future. Even though I am in of a "defective age" according to you, men still appear to be very interested in me.

How do I fit into your social hierarchy?

Not knowing you personally, I can't give you a good answer.

What your saying may be true, false or only true from a certain point of view. The point is, I don't know because I've never met you.

I've never personally met a woman who was in her thirties, still single and not defective in some manner.

 

[B_ILIW]

there is a membership card. all size queens carry one in their handbag. membership of the club states they must present it when asked by a man if they're a size queen. :wink: