Ladies, how big was your biggest

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  1. Kat

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    The largest penis I have had the pleasure of enjoying is my husbands. He is 10.5 inches long and 8 inches thick. I loved it 20 years ago and I still love it. Prior to him the few guys I had sex with were all average in size. They felt great but I must admit (only speaking for me now) my husbands size does feel better.
     
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    My partner now is my largest & also my 2nd partner. He is 9x6.5 I do not know what size my ex-husband & only other partner was, but consideralby smaller. Current partner is large for me & it has taken time & patience. I still have some bleeding, occasionally, even after 3 months of relations. Started dating him last May & have been significant others since last sept.
     
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    Norfolk_Katt: I never had a chance to measure, but it was approximately the size of two soda cans stacked end to end. The first time was wonderful but the second time was horrible; his attitude was what made the difference.
     
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    Welcome, Norfolk Kat!

    The topic (within ChimeraTX's post at top) says PLEASURE... although the lead to this thread doesn't mention that... so sorry your experience was so unpleasurable.

    2 cans?
    Jeez! (to paraphrase one of my GF's), that's sooo big!

    Even I cringe at the thought of getting so much - with or without being patient about it.
     
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    Norfolk_Katt: As I said, the first time WAS pleasurable, immensely so, it was just the second time that ran into rough ground...
     
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    2 soda cans. Wow!
    He is definitly bigger than me, but I'm happy to hear that there are some bigger guys out there ;-)
     
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    blackcockluvr: Hello everyone, I'm absolutely in love with the black cock. Now, I've got just a little 8.5"x6.5" erect member, which is nothing compared to every black man I've seen; they've all been over 10" long and over 8" around...soft! I think that the pornos are just trying to make you little white guys (and I feel pity on the aZns cuz they arent long enough to even jerk off) feel better by showing some relatively tiny black cocks that are still bigger than just about any whiteboy out there...a lesson to anyone taking a black cock is watch out if his cock goes all the way to your stomach.

    When I'm with girls I dont think i can satisfy them like a Big Black Man can so i offer to do a threesome, and they are excited to finally take on a Big Black Cock and they ignore me while im left jacking off in my undies and licking up the cream that seeps out of the girls ass cunt and mouth when the black guys all done.
     
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    Wow, that sounds like a huge one, alright
     
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    My husband is 13" long and by far the biggest man I have ever slept with. He is not the best lover I have had because of his inexperience (both overall and in using his size). However, I wouldn't trade him in for someone who was a better lover, whether the same size or smaller. It's part of him and I'm happy the way he is.

    Prior to him, my largest was just under 10" and very well-skilled. He was probably one of my best lovers in terms of giving me pleasure and knowing what he was doing in bed. My best partner was without a doubt a guy I dated for several months and was just a bit over average-sized, so go figure......
     
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    Wow, that is some serious length! Can you take him all the way? I know for me 12" is the absolute most I can take. I was also wondering how thick your husbands penis is. For my husband the thickness was always the issue (he is 8" thick) with other women. It obviously becomes a serious problem having sex if the woman can't get much more than the head in! For me, I actually love the feel of the extra girth and the extra length. So you might call me a size queen...but only for my husband (and some toys that I have ;).

    Kat
     
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    Kat, I can ALMOST take him all the way....to be perfectly honest, I never was fixated on measuring to the last 1/8" the few times I measured him (he might be 12 3/4 measured one way or one time, or maybe 13 1/8 another way and another time). He is not as thick as some might think, maybe 6 1/2 to 7" tops.

    As for accomodating him, I can ALMOST get it all in. I don't feel pain, I just seem to stop stretching to accomodate him. Neither me or him are that obsessed with it. From his POV, I'm the dream girl he never had and far more easygoing and understanding in bed than his previous 2 woman (he didn't have his first until he was 26 or so). From my POV, he's already larger than anybody I have ever had so worrying about that last inch seems a bit ridiculous.

    As I mentioned, my best lover was a shade over average-sized so while I have had some great times with his size (esp. since I've helped him become a better lover and he's gotten more confidence), I wouldn't say I'm a size queen. Oh, I enjoy it and I'd rather he be larger than smaller if his lovemaking skills were the same, but as with most women, I think technique makes up for alot of inches. - Jean
     
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    As it seems with a lot of women on here, my current partner is the biggest man I've ever been with - he's 11.5 x 7.5.

    Currently I can take about 9.5 - 10" of his length. At first, his girth was something of a problem but we've both worked on that a lot and now he feels the perfect, tight fit. I'd love to be able to take all 11.5" of him, because no woman has ever done that for him, so I'm working on it - of course, I don't mind getting lots of practice lol

    I love his size - the feeling of being so completely full and stretched so wide, the increased sensitivity of my nerve-endings that make my orgasms so much more intense - but he's also a wonderfully caring and skilful lover. One without the other wouldn't mean anywhere near as much - size is important but it's nothing without control.
     
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    I totally agree. The few guys I had sex with prior to my husband were average in size. Even though at the time all of us were young (high school or college) one of the guys was an incredible lover. He just seemed to know all the right buttons! Anyway, I didn't have any idea how much size made a difference to me until I met my husband when I was 19. He was was ten years older and WAY more experienced sexually. Anyway, he is also a fabulous lover (does amazing things with his hands and tongue...;). That combined with his size just put me over the top. It was only then that I realized that for me bigger was definetely better. That being said, if he had been a real jerk I would likely be singing a different tune now!
     
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    Jane, I agree 100%. My situation was that my husband is/was much less sexually experienced than I was. He had been to bed with women only 7 or 8 times in total (he can't recall exactly), and that was with all of 2 women. For all intents and purposes, he was as close to a virgin as you can get in terms of lovemaking skills, even though he wasn't a virgin. He was pretty honest in that with both girls -- but especially the first one -- he was just looking to "get experience" for when he would have a serious, romantic relationship like he had with me. I guess he didn't want to be a virgin for when he met Miss Right. As it turned out, he didn't get much experience (his 1st girl was way too sexually demanding and not inclined to teach him, and his 2nd was just as inexperienced as him).

    My husband's size -- 13" and then some (depending on how long it's been between sessions) -- is definitely an asset. If he were alot smaller and equally inexperienced, it would be alot less fun in bed as far as I'm concerned. His size, as you noted, can stretch me and "fill me up" so that if I take the initiative, he doesn't have to do much to make it sexually thrilling for me in bed. I may not orgasm every time, but it's not bad sex by any means.

    A part of me certainly wishes that my husband had gotten alot more women when he was younger (he didn't lose his virginity until his late 20's) because, quite frankly, I'd probably be having an out-of-this-world sex life, instead of one that's OK-to-pretty-good. At the same time, I kind of like being the woman who gets to teach him, sometimes guys like him are very vulnerable when involved in a relationship with a good-looking woman. My husband never fails to mention to me how lucky he is to have me, and I kind of feel like I'm reciprocating for all the nice things he has done for me since our 1st date when I help him out with the one thing he has always been a bit uncomfortable with, unknowledgeable about, and maybe a bit shy/afraid (namely, any relationship with a woman, sexual or otherwise).

    Besides...if my husband were a super-lover in addition to being super-hung, then I'd probably NOT be a member of LPSG and wouldn't have the pleasure of chatting with all you fine gals and guys !
     
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    GorgeousJane, that is wonderful !! I don't know if the "skilful lover" part applies to my dh, but he tries his best and always defers to me. And as far as wonderfully caring, both in bed and out, I can't imagine being with anybody better. Some of my gf's may have more thrilling times in bed, but I never hear them rave about the things their husbands or bf's do for them outside of bed. My dh cares so much for me all the time that I love helping him out with those few things he isn't as skilled at.
     
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    Kat, I agree completely ! :)

    I would only say that one of the reasons it seems to me that guys with large penises are better lovers is that they are probably more sexually experienced (for the most part) than guys with smaller or average-sized penises. I realize that's a generalization, but it stands to reason that WHATEVER your size, the more partners you've had, the better you are going to be. The more you do something, the better you are at it. That goes for sex...cooking...driving a car...whatever.

    I'm glad my husband is so large given that he was very inexperienced when I started dating him. In his case, his size had nothing to do with his lack of sexual experience, he's just a guy who's more shy and reserved than guys I had dated before. I was a cheerleader in high school and college, always outgoing, never lacking for dates or attention at parties or bars or whatever. My husband's idea of "going out" was going over to the guys place to watch a sports event on TV.

    I think this has alot to do with it. Guys like my husband, regardless of size, tend to be less sexually experienced with women and also in dating women. In fact, my husband still blushes when I remind him of when he first asked me out -- he had to be prodded by a mutual friend -- because I could tell how nervous/scared he was when he approached me. I'm not sure I would have dated him when I was younger, but when you're looking for a guy for something meaningful, you tend to have different standards than you did in high school or college !
     
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    Jane, do you mind me asking if you are into aerobics or excercise? The reason I ask is I was a cheerleader in both high school and college. It's good excercise, and the last few years I do aerobics quite regularly on my own and at a ladies spa (sometimes 2 hours a day). I sometimes think that all that excercise probably has helped me accomodate my husband's large size (he's 13" long).

    I remember watching a documentary a few years ago with a female porn star and she said that she used to excercise regularly (esp. on her days of shooting) and had to stay in shape very rigorously to accomodate all of the (large) men who she performed with. For some reason, I never forgot that actress stating that excercising regularly helped her with large cocks.

    In case anyone is wondering, no, I am not that large vagina-wise. My gyno says I am larger than normal but she sees plenty of women who are larger than me. This tells me that I probably stretch alot and all those years of excercising from the time I was 14 years old has probably helped me out.

    I also guess this means I will be doing aerobics for quite a few more years...unless my dh's penis somehow shrinks over time !! lol :9
     
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    Jean - I used to do gymnastics quite regularly, although not so much now, but I still go to the gym quite often - I think my 'flexibility' has helped me feel comfortable with Mark's size, and allowed me to adjust to accommodate his girth, so hopefully in time I can work on taking his full length. When we first started having sex I could take about 9", but now it's definitely improved to the point where depending on the position and other things, I can take up to 10" of him. I still do all my regular muscle-toning exercises as well as going to the gym, so hopefully in time we'll get there!
     
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    Hey - there may be something to recommend -
    My mate was a college cheerleader (funny when you consider the college) - and I think (considering your conversation) it may have something to do with her comfort level.

    Now- I'm no 10+ inches (8 here) but I've had GF's of similar stature with far less 'desire' than this wonderful woman.
    And, thinking back, only one of my former GF's without such physical activities (swimming, running, gymnastics...) had a comfort level for my size with any frequency...

    Now, you may have found something to do with how often we do it.
     
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