Ladies, how did you become interested in big?

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  1. bill125250

    bill125250 New Member

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    Ladies, how did your desire for large penis begin? Did it begin with fantasy that caused you to seek out well hung men? Or did it start when a guy pulled it out for the first time and you had no idea they could get that big? How old were you when you first started thinking of big penis? Was it before you lost your virginity?

    Bill125250
     
  2. B_Veronica_Divine

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    Definiately the middle one for me...had a visual/measuring exposure to a MASSIVE one and it just kinda broke my brain.

    And its stayed broken since.

    *grins*
     
  3. Biggie77

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    God bless you! :biggrin1:
     
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    My desires and fantasies about being fucked by a well-endowed man began long before I ever saw or touched an erect penis.

    I think originally, for me, it was just another facet of my wanting to be dominated...a larger cock seemed like it would feel more emphatic than a smaller one, and therefore a man could use it to really make a statement when fucking me.

    After I started to have sexual experiences, including masturbation experiments, I learned that two specific sensations -- being stretched and being banged deep in the fornix (end of the vagina) -- brought me faster, more intense orgasms than other kinds of stimulation did. I just don't orgasm as easily or as powerfully with clitoral stimulation alone or with less intense vaginal stimulation.

    However, I'd been sexually active for over 20 years before I finally encountered the man (and the cock) of my dreams. Artfulwilly is the most well-endowed man I've ever had, and also the best lover. Sex with him is definitely an intense experience -- not for the faint of heart. His formidable length and thickness, combined with his enthusiasm, skill, experience with women, and general overall nastiness make him incredible in bed. He has a powerful weapon and he knows how to use it. So...

    "It's not only the size of the wand, but also the magic you wield with it."

    (I added the words "only" and "also" to the traditional adage, because size does matter to me -- very much). :wink:
     
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    Wow Hollyblue. That was erotic, technical (fornix) and poetic. My brain is as turned on as my penis. Well done!!!!!!
     
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    Aw, shucks. :redface: Thanks! :biggrin1:
     
  7. Principessa

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    My first big guy was the 5th guy with whom I had sex. Prior to him I think I just had sex because it was what I thought I was supposed to do.:rolleyes: When he first pulled it out I was sure it wouldn't fit. Honestly I think my face looked like this ====> :eek: He assured me that most girls thought that it was too big to fit, but that it always had. :biggrin1: He was right. :smile: That night was the first time I finally understood why people thought sex was so incredible. Truly, prior to that I had no idea what everyone thought was so great about it.

    I lucked out finding him at the tender age of only 19. Some women go decades without having a great lover. Not only was he an admirable 8x6 he gave me my first orgasms, was the first guy to go down on me, the first man to rim me or that I rimmed. I learned a lot from him. Come to think of it that's about all I learned my freshman year in college. :biggrin1:
     
  8. IntoxicatingToxin

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    When I first started having sex, I never really thought of how a big cock could be different than a smaller one. Never crossed my mind. I just dealt with what I had at the time. :biggrin: When I DID have my first larger one (8x6), I realized how much I enjoyed feeling "full" inside. I liked being stretched out a bit. I don't mind having sex with smaller guys, they can please me just as much... but getting that "full" feeling is definitely awesome.
     
  9. Cyrano

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    Tell us about it!
     
  10. whatireallywant

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    I'm sort of like HollyBlue, but without the submissive aspect. I remember daydreaming about the "big guys" from the age of 12. Yes, I had been told the "size doesn't matter" stuff, but I thought it was logical that it would matter. (although I do think this varies from woman to woman...)

    I didn't verbalize any of this fantasy, really. Just thought it, and my fantasies are more in images and phantom-tactile (yes, I actually "knew" what sex was going to feel like before I actually had sex, just from imagining what it would feel like!)....

    Then, in 1986, I read a book that contained the verbal version of MY sexual fantasy: The Valley of Horses by Jean Auel. Truly one of The Books That Changed My Life! My only sexual experience up to this point was with one guy (in 1984), who was medium or maybe a little on the small side. So while I still fantasized about being with a big guy, I didn't know exactly if I would be ok with that (although I was pretty sure I would be, being the phantom-tactile fantasizer that I am).

    Later on, I had a couple of partners in the 7' to 7.5" range for length and 5.5" to 6" range for girth. Definitely a different feeling from the other guys, and no problems with being "too big" at all. In fact, I talked extensively to one of them, and he said that I still had room! :eek: Apparently my physiology is made for a big guy. It isn't something that anyone is able to tell, and my body type is not the type that most men go for, so my experiences have been rather limited. No guy has ever "bottomed out" in me, for instance. I have no idea what that would be like, or what size he would have to be for that to happen.
     
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    For me it was when I had sex w/my current bf and he's a lot bigger than the guys I was with before. I was sorta surprised it was a lot better cuz you hear how size isn't supposed to matter.
     
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    I think every women really desires a big cock... even sublimnarly (is this how it spells?)
    most women say that Size doesnt metter .. but I think it is just because they dont wanna be called whores and things like that .. and I think this still happens nowadays mainly by the average/ under average guys (who are the majority btw) who must feel minimalized by a frase like : I like the big one´s a small/average is not enough for me, etc...
    To exemplify: Imagine if big mac would sell the amount it sells all over the world if it was just like the other hamburgers?!
    strange comparisson .. but I think you got it!
    well it is my oppinion at least..
     
  13. Act2_Begins_Now

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    Easy ... I have been intimate with three men. Two husbands and one lover. In that order. Both husbands were lazy lovers and smaller, then I hooked up with the lover. He was much bigger and well you couldn't call him lazy when it came to pleasuring me. The man would have done acrobats for me, just because he saw that as his job ... doing his best to make sure I was completely satiated. So you know what that means, right?

    Big dick = great lover

    I, like you, have read threads that say different. However thats just heresay. ~wink~
     
  14. nismosimo

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    my ex that I have spoken about in different post before has told me numerous times that I am the best she has ever had. We have even gone over a year w/out speaking and when we did talk again one of the things she brought up was how good I was w/sex. In fact, when we were seeing each other we weren't dating... we were simply fuck buddies. She was just ending a relationship w/ a b/f and just starting seeing another guy while we were fucking. I have asked her before why she was still seeing me even though she just starting dating someone new and she said it was the good sex. Size was brought up and I asked if it had something to do w/ it and she said no. I asked if either of the guys were smaller and she said no. I'm a 6x6 so I'm not that small so I asked out of curiousity if I was the smallest and after asking several times she finally told me I was the smallest she had been with. Wow, this was coming from a girl who just turned 20 and I was 27 at the time. She had been w/ 9 other guys including her new b/f. She said her new b/f was the 2nd largest she has had but would never tell me his size nor the size of the largest one she's had. She did tell me before that her first was 8" and he didn't know how to use it. And the guy she dumped when we started fucking was just over 7". She admitted to prefering a larger dick b/c of the pain (which she liked pain) but that the largest dick she had was too much. She referred to my dick as perfect almsot all the time, even before size was ever brought up and told me later it was perfect b/c it did not hurt "as bad" and that she could take me in her ass w/out the major pain. I was the second to do anal on her after her last ex. So.... bigger does not always = better lover/sex.
    Sorry if this was too long for some.
     
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    hehe... it read like the the plot twists in "pirates of the carribean"!! ;D
     
  16. Marius2000

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    This is just great....so women do prefer large dicks!
    So ,all that size doesn't matter stuff is bullshit then:confused:

    What does that hold in store for me now? Iam only 7x6
    and recently single, what hope do I have?

    Does that mean all the women I had sex with lied to me?
    But why lie?
    They never complained and they always mostly orgasmed...

    Now that Iam hearing it straight from the women's perspective,
    I don't think I can look a potential girlfriend in the face, without thinking
    about what I have heard from the ladies on this thread....

    I guess I'd better invest in a strap-on now:biggrin1:
     
  17. whatireallywant

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    7x6 is big. Maybe not as big as some on here, but bigger than most guys.

    One of the best lovers I've had was 7x6.
     
  18. Scott8361

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    Yes, 7x6 is big! Its guys like me who have to worry!

    I am only 6x4.5 and while my partner says my size is fine I feel there is a truth that intercourse would be a lot more pleasurable for her if I was bigger, especially in girth.
     
  19. Act2_Begins_Now

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    Agreed.

    I think there may be a point for some women where it can be too big. Key words would be ... may and some.
     
  20. zaza

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    Before I had sex for the first time I had no Idea about penis size, I thought my first was absolutly huge, and thought this was the size all men were. When I split up with him and had another boyfriend who had the same size cock again I thought all men must be the same in terms of cock size. It wasn`t until my third encounter I noticed a size difference.

    Since then I have encountered a variety of sizes. Have developed my own perception of what small, average, large and huge are, which probably differs from any of the survey findings available. I know that I prefer average to large ones, also know that you can have satisfying sex with penises of any size if all other factors are right, and know that bigger is not necessarily better.
     
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