Ladies , how do you initiate sex?

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  1. las000005

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    Do you use words or other subtle hints?
     
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    Actions.
     
  3. MickeyLee

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    pouncing on him seems to be a very effective method of getting the point across.
     
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    It would work on me!

    I've actually been paying way more attention to body language recently. Women practically display their exact thoughts through BL if you can pick up on it.
     
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    i agree on the bl thing... things are way more obvious than most guys think.
     
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    A few things guys normally don't pick up on...

    1) wetting their lips
    2) flipping their hair
    3) stroking their hair
    4) initiating physical touch more than once

    (all while making unbreakable eye contact)

    I could go on. Women don't communicate with words, they communicate with body language. If you watch girls talking to each other they seem to leave out half of the conversation. You see them make quantum leaps between topics. That's because they use body language to communicate subtext.

    I tell my buddies that if they feel nervous when alone with a woman, it's probably sexual tension.

    My two cents...
     
  7. bunnylove

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    i'm disturbed that some of you seem to have figured us out. yes, generally if i want to have sex with someone, i try to make it obvious without having to blatantly say so or putting myself out there like a whore. touching the hair, neck, cleavage, lip-biting, blushing a lot is a curse of mine... plus, eyes say a lot. if a girl wants it, she generally LOOKS like she wants it.
     
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    LOL. :biggrin1: Yeah w/my bf its easy usually I just haveta give him a look, its a harder question if you mean w/someone youve never had sex w/before!
     
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    lol see.... told yall if she wants it she generally looks like she wants it
     
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    i guess i am just far from subtle. even on the hook up i am very comfortable with being aggressive or being the one to initiate the next stage. i wouldn't call it putting myself out there like a whore.

    women who will come out and state what they want have always done it for me. the bitch slap seduction is the hook and is damn near irrestiable. body language simaphore just reads like someone who isn't mature enough to know what they want or is too insecure to make the first move.

    it could be my approach is from a tomboy, one of the guys mind set, so i'm just a touch more physical than some women. still when it all comes down to it, a hand on his cock and a few select phrase whispered into the crook of his neck.... well there is very little left to interpritation.

    failing all above i will slam the boy into a wall with the promise of fucking him blue eyed before i'm done with him.

    ml
    my way is so much more fun.
     
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    no offense intended, but you don't think that grabbing a guy by the cock or slamming him into a wall and promising to fuck him is whore-ish? because even hookers are a little more subtle than that, from what i understand
     
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    I'm with ML on this one: while I do truly appreciate the subtleties of a woman's movements and actions ... sometimes it's a damn good thing to be manhandled. Pun intended.

    Nothing wrong with mixing it up, either. I know y'all like to keep us guessing. :wink:

    Just my 2 cents.
     
  13. MickeyLee

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    it's only whorish if i charge by the hour.:rolleyes:
     
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    by someone you're with, sure. but if a complete stranger came up to me and groped me and promised to have sex w me....... i would assume she was a prostitute
     
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    Every person on earth is a whore- that is, they are sexual and "out there" at some point or another.

    Stop trying to convince yourself you're not and maybe you'll have an easier time with life.
     
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    lmfao i'm not a whore darlin. i have self-respect. if that means i'm having less fun, so be it.
     
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    groping a perfect stranger would be sexual assault. more sex crime than sex worker.

    the question asked "ladies how do you initiate sex?" the question assumes there has been the basics of introduction, at least of few moments of pleasant conversation. we've chatted up the weather, if the person is enjoying their evening so far, who they might be at the club with and a mutual interest is obvious. or i've been dating this person but haven't yet made the jump from kiss at the front door to skin friction on the couch.

    or did i completely miss the OP's point?
     
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    Liking sex and letting the person with whom you want to have sex know that you want sex is not 'whorish' - doing that and saying 'gimme 50 bux' would be 'whorish' (cheap whorish, at that).

    What is it about letting your man (ML is talking about her man, not just some guy) know you want him that you have a problem with? Sometimes don't you like a man to just take you in his arms, press you close so you can feel his hard-on and slip his hands in your panties? I know I do! And why would my man not want to feel wanted, desired and needed like that? Men really aren't that different from women when it comes to a need to be desired.

    One of the ways I initiate sex is to get on a plane, fly 4500 miles, change planes, fly on another hour or so (freshening up in the rest room), get off the plane, get out to arrivals as fast as possible, throw myself into his arms, kiss him deeply, suck his cock in the parking lot and see how fast he can drive home without getting trouble.

    He's yet to say no :smile:
     
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    self respect does not equal close minded and judgmental, Ms bunnylove. :smile:
     
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    no, self-respect means not throwing myself at someone like i'm cheap
     
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