ladies, how long before...

[kc2007]

...you would consider it acceptable for a guy you've been dating to ask you about photos, videos, and camming together. I've been dating a very hot woman for a few weeks and we've just started having sex. It's very good so far, but nothing wild and crazy...although I think she's open minded and wouldn't be totally turned off by the idea.
Thanks!

 

[D_Fiona_Farvel]

If the dates go well and I like the guy, he'll probably receive a few naughty texts before we have sex. Camming? If we are dating, why? I would rather he just come over so I can touch and taste. Not sure I would ever allow videos.

 

[kc2007]

Yeah, the camming thing is more of a fantasy of mine, and the one thing I'm most hesitant about asking about. I'd love to be an exhibitonist on cam with a willing female participant.

 

[D_Ivana Dickenside]

i would say you should first start off doing the dirty text and pix messages. if she's into the camming and stuff, i'm sure she'll let you know!

 

[TinyPrincess]

...you would consider it acceptable for a guy you've been dating to ask you about photos, videos, and camming together.

Well, I would never accept digital media unless I'm absolutely certain my face can't be seen on them, which makes most photos, videos and cams almost impossible.

Don't get me wrong - I don't mind doing pictures or videos - they just have to be under my complete control.

I don't want my face on some porn site for the rest of my life.

 

[yelims]

TinyPrincess,

Is that you in the avatar?

 

[D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah]

start with the dirty texts and phone sex, casual mention how you'd love to "see that" and see if she texts you a pic. If she does then you know its on, but i wouldn't make subtle hints rather then ask

 

[D_Dolly Pharton]

Dirty texts and pics are fun when you're dating or in a relationship. I've only taken pics with one long term bf and video once but he let me approve the pics he kept... I'm picky like that lol I was weird about the video after I broke up with him and would probably never do it again til I was like marrried but it was on his phone and we are still friends I trust him when he says he didnt show anyone and his phone brokew anyway so no worries lol But if a guy I was dating only a few weeks asked me to make a video or take pics I would not be cool with that. I hate being asked for that stuff. If I want to take pics of myself and video and send em to u I will... don't ask for em it gets annoying. To me any way

 

[kc2007]

Ok, well...I'm not really into the text or phone dirty talk thing, but i guess it could be a good idea to test the waters. however, she might be like me where the dirty messages and talk don't do it for her, while photos or vids do??
I don't know, I guess I'll just wait it out, but its tough because I really want to take photos with this particular woman and who knows how long we'll be dating. I'd like it to last, but I cant quite read her long term goals.
So let me put it another way. I assume at least 1 of the reasons you ladies come to this site is to look at guys cocks. If a guy was to send you a pic of his cock after dating only a short time, would you be turned on or off. I mean if you like cocks on this site, would that somehow be different? I think we can all be a bit hypocritical at times, because on here we can sort-of "hide" behind our fantasies...sorry to ramble but in the end I guess sometimes you just have to take a chance and see the happens. I've known women in the past who wouldn't mind at all and others who would think total pervert.

 

[TinyPrincess]

TinyPrincess,

Is that you in the avatar?

Why, are you stalking me???

Point taken - now even my avatar should be safe.

 

[The Dragon]

I wouldn't cam or have taped sex sessions.
Why?
Because too many of my friends have been in the situation were they have with a boyfriend, it has turned sour and the Ex has posted the video on some porn site to get back at them.
Don't do it.
And more fool you if you do.

 

[yelims]

Why, are you stalking me???

No, even though I'm from Stalkholm. But I'd like to be stalking you. (English noun "stalk" = Danish noun "stilk." So if you could use "stilk" as a verb, it would be like English nouns made into participial slang, like screwing, dicking, drilling, boning, poling.

 

[D_Dolly Pharton]

Ok, well...I'm not really into the text or phone dirty talk thing, but i guess it could be a good idea to test the waters. however, she might be like me where the dirty messages and talk don't do it for her, while photos or vids do??
I don't know, I guess I'll just wait it out, but its tough because I really want to take photos with this particular woman and who knows how long we'll be dating. I'd like it to last, but I cant quite read her long term goals.
So let me put it another way. I assume at least 1 of the reasons you ladies come to this site is to look at guys cocks. If a guy was to send you a pic of his cock after dating only a short time, would you be turned on or off. I mean if you like cocks on this site, would that somehow be different? I think we can all be a bit hypocritical at times, because on here we can sort-of "hide" behind our fantasies...sorry to ramble but in the end I guess sometimes you just have to take a chance and see the happens. I've known women in the past who wouldn't mind at all and others who would think total pervert.

I wouldn't mid a cock pic from someone I'm seeing after a few dates or few weeks Not perverted at all! I wanna see the goods before I like see em in person you know .... like a preview before the movie starts

 

[TinyPrincess]

No, even though I'm from Stalkholm. But I'd like to be stalking you.

Stockholm - muligvis beboet område, som de siger i Skåne. :biggrin1:

 

[yelims]

I saw this sign in Denmark:

Sverige ud ur Skåne.

 

[TinyPrincess]

I saw this sign in Denmark:

Sverige ud ur Skåne.

Well, Skåne is Danish territory, it's just ruled from Stockholm ;-)