Perhaps I should clarify that the reason I'm asking is I'm trying to become a better lover. I'm fully aware of the size debate so hopefully I've taken that out of the equation.
I'm concentrating on being able to last longer in bed and as stated not using stall tactics or position switching or getting up to feed the dog haha.
So you've already had an orgasm or two from oral and loosened up and horny. What is your opinion on how long I should be able to keep pumping to satisfy my partner?
I takes 1,247 pumps to get to her climax. No, I'm kidding.
I salute your intentions. You will have to fuck and find out. The end. Good news! It'll be fun!
My standard answer is I do not like quickies. I like a long, drawn out, very playful session. This will include intercourse that is not constant. But right now I have a partner with whom I prefer a quickie. It doesn't seem to matter how long or short foreplay is. I just want to get him inside me, and once I do I bust explosively within a minute or two. I feel badly because I know he wants it to take longer, or for me to have more orgasms. Nope. I always climax right away once he penetrates, and I only climax once. Cannot be helped. It's unique to how my body reacts to his. My other regular partner I lose all track of time when we get started. I only know it usually lasts for about two and a half movies, and the first round of penetration starts halfway into the first movie. Sometimes for as long as it takes Netflix to ask if we are still watching whatever series twice. I'm satisfied with both men.
I have had a partner with whom sometimes I went from closing the front door to post-coital shared ciggy in 15 minutes. Sometimes we rolled around for hours. It was always fun.
Do not try to turn sex into a solveable math problem. Math isn't as much fun as fucking. If you pay attention to how a body is reacting to yours, you will know if you need to be faster or slower to climax. Paying attention will teach you whether it matters at all when you ejaculate. Maybe she doesn't care, as long as you eat her out until she is done before and after. Who knows? She does. And her body Will tell you even if she will not.
You know who cannot answer? Me. Because I'm not fucking you. Go. Bang. Have fun.