Ladies, How Long Should Sex Last

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Ok, this is mostly for the ladies.
How long should the actual penetration portion of sex last.
Not including position flip but the actual pumping for you to reach an orgasm.
I know there are a lot of variables but let's say you love the person you're with (or at least like him), his penis size is perfect for you.
Just like the old age question "how many licks does it take to get to the center of a tootsie pop", "How many pumps does it take to get you to the promised land"
 
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This is Only for the ladies, as the rules state. Only women can answer here.

I don't need long, fifteen minutes and I'm almost guaranteed to have had more than a couple orgasms with him.

Sometimes I like a quickie, not often though... Sometimes we fuck for an hour or two at a time. We just keep fucking.

So, yeah. Just depends I guess.
 

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Perhaps I should clarify that the reason I'm asking is I'm trying to become a better lover. I'm fully aware of the size debate so hopefully I've taken that out of the equation.
I'm concentrating on being able to last longer in bed and as stated not using stall tactics or position switching or getting up to feed the dog haha.
So you've already had an orgasm or two from oral and loosened up and horny. What is your opinion on how long I should be able to keep pumping to satisfy my partner?
 

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Perhaps I should clarify that the reason I'm asking is I'm trying to become a better lover. I'm fully aware of the size debate so hopefully I've taken that out of the equation.
I'm concentrating on being able to last longer in bed and as stated not using stall tactics or position switching or getting up to feed the dog haha.
So you've already had an orgasm or two from oral and loosened up and horny. What is your opinion on how long I should be able to keep pumping to satisfy my partner?
I takes 1,247 pumps to get to her climax. No, I'm kidding.

I salute your intentions. You will have to fuck and find out. The end. Good news! It'll be fun!

My standard answer is I do not like quickies. I like a long, drawn out, very playful session. This will include intercourse that is not constant. But right now I have a partner with whom I prefer a quickie. It doesn't seem to matter how long or short foreplay is. I just want to get him inside me, and once I do I bust explosively within a minute or two. I feel badly because I know he wants it to take longer, or for me to have more orgasms. Nope. I always climax right away once he penetrates, and I only climax once. Cannot be helped. It's unique to how my body reacts to his. My other regular partner I lose all track of time when we get started. I only know it usually lasts for about two and a half movies, and the first round of penetration starts halfway into the first movie. Sometimes for as long as it takes Netflix to ask if we are still watching whatever series twice. I'm satisfied with both men.

I have had a partner with whom sometimes I went from closing the front door to post-coital shared ciggy in 15 minutes. Sometimes we rolled around for hours. It was always fun.


Do not try to turn sex into a solveable math problem. Math isn't as much fun as fucking. If you pay attention to how a body is reacting to yours, you will know if you need to be faster or slower to climax. Paying attention will teach you whether it matters at all when you ejaculate. Maybe she doesn't care, as long as you eat her out until she is done before and after. Who knows? She does. And her body Will tell you even if she will not.

You know who cannot answer? Me. Because I'm not fucking you. Go. Bang. Have fun.
 

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So you've already had an orgasm or two from oral and loosened up and horny. What is your opinion on how long I should be able to keep pumping to satisfy my partner?
I forgot to address this part. I do not habe multiple orgasms. I lose interest after I have an orgasm. If I just came from oral, something pretty fucking entertaining has to happen before I care how long we fuck. By all means get it in and be done before I'm bored to death. I am very good at pretending to still be excited, but my interest is waning fast. I am willing to run an entire show about getting him off. I want to satisfy the way I was satisfied. It will be quite some time before my excitement is real again. It could be over an hour before I can get to another orgasm. Reason number 643 why men need to get their tongues out of me when I say so. I would rather not have an orgasm during foreplay if we are not going to be fooling around for hours.
 

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I forgot to address this part. I do not habe multiple orgasms. I lose interest after I have an orgasm. If I just came from oral, something pretty fucking entertaining has to happen before I care how long we fuck. By all means get it in and be done before I'm bored to death. I am very good at pretending to still be excited, but my interest is waning fast. I am willing to run an entire show about getting him off. I want to satisfy the way I was satisfied. It will be quite some time before my excitement is real again. It could be over an hour before I can get to another orgasm. Reason number 643 why men need to get their tongues out of me when I say so. I would rather not have an orgasm during foreplay if we are not going to be fooling around for hours.
too funny. My wife is the exact opposite which is why I raised this question. We are in the lifestyle and I've seen her orgasm several times if everything is right but I cannot last long enough to get her a second one. My main problem is mental when I see/feel her bucking around underneath me I lose my f'ing concentration and it's "clean up on aisle 7". This is why I'm trying to increase my stamina so I can drive her nuts like some of our friends can.
One guy swears he can fuck all night until someone says "it's time" and then he blows. I believe him from what I've seen. He's amazing. His nick name is the energizer bunny.
Clearly he's not the guy for you though haha.
it's great though, everyone is different I'm just trying to get a good mid-point that I can start to train for.
Thank you for your honesty.
 
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I personally don't like to have an orgasm before penetration :eek:

I couldn't tell ya, because I'm not the one you're fucking. I don't mean to sound harsh, I just want to be honest.
Thank you, perhaps I should have said how long would you like your lover to able to go?
Honesty is never an issue.
 

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I don’t like oral, so that wouldn’t work for me. I’d get bored and want to turn on the tv! And I tend to cum pretty quickly from penetration, within a few minutes. 3 maybe? I don’t know, I never timed it. I might be done, or there might be more. I might be different now. Haven’t had sex postmenopause. It might take a little longer.

Everybody is different. I like having rounds of sex. Taking breaks and going at it again. Not really a marathon kind of gal. Yup. We’re all different.
 
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No receiving oral for me, thanks. Actual PiV, if the sex is good I don't need more than 10-15 minutes if I had to guess. Especially since I prefer my sex rough and fast.
 

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too funny. My wife is the exact opposite which is why I raised this question. We are in the lifestyle and I've seen her orgasm several times if everything is right but I cannot last long enough to get her a second one. My main problem is mental when I see/feel her bucking around underneath me I lose my f'ing concentration and it's "clean up on aisle 7". This is why I'm trying to increase my stamina so I can drive her nuts like some of our friends can.
One guy swears he can fuck all night until someone says "it's time" and then he blows. I believe him from what I've seen. He's amazing. His nick name is the energizer bunny.
Clearly he's not the guy for you though haha.
it's great though, everyone is different I'm just trying to get a good mid-point that I can start to train for.
Thank you for your honesty.
Fleshlight has a sleeve just for this type of training. If you are training for your wife, I'd advise asking or timing your wife. Sounds like you're having a great time together anyway. Awesome.
 

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Fleshlight has a sleeve just for this type of training. If you are training for your wife, I'd advise asking or timing your wife. Sounds like you're having a great time together anyway. Awesome.
It's definitely a great time but as most men will attest to...if some is good more would be better???
Yes I'm thinking of doing the fleshlight.