Ladies: How would you respond to an exposer?

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For my girlfriend's 19th birthday, we went to a male strip club in town. After they closed the bar, we were walking back to our apt. A guy jumped down from an overhanging branch and landed behind us. He was naked.

My gf was scared but I just laughed at him.

I said "Do you think girls are going to be so desperate and horny coming out of Danny's that if you show them your cock, they will jump you?"

He looked a little dumbfounded, then answered "well, yeah"

I just laughed even harder, turned and caught up to my gf cause she was scared and ran ahead of me.
 

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My psychology teacher said the best reaction is to try not and react at all. Walk away. Don't threaten them, because although rare they may attack. Freaking out covers the jerk off material they are looking for as well.
 

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It goes to show you even woman who are open enough to be on a site like this would still be very unhappy about an unexpected flasher.
 

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We come on this site expecting to see cocks rob, when you're taking a nice walk or something the last thing you expect to see is some guy whipping it out, if you're alone what other reaction can a guy who does this expect it to get than fear?
 

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We come on this site expecting to see cocks rob, when you're taking a nice walk or something the last thing you expect to see is some guy whipping it out, if you're alone what other reaction can a guy who does this expect it to get than fear?


what she said.....

Unless I am at a nude beach or nude accepted place (where that is the norm) my first reaction is probably fear. I would probably walk on by and ignore or pretend I didn't see.....then get to a place where I could watch what he was doing.....make sure he isn't a pedifile.....if there are any kids around I would call the police. If there aren't any kids around and he really isn't bothering anyone......and I don't feel threatened.....I might go back and tell him where the closest nude beach or park is.

Some people think they have a right to be nude anywhere they want to be and that isn't so. At least here in the USA. I have friends who have lost their jobs, retirement.....they are labeled a sex offender and have to register as a sex offender because they do stupid stuff like this. They think they are fighting for our rights to be able to go to the grocery store nude.

They don't realize that for some women that have been abused......this brings back traumatic memories for them. And in their mind the flasher is someone that intends to harm them. Also there are some people that are just not into cocks..... so it shouldn't be forced upon them without their consent.

It is just a good way to offend someone and get thrown in jail.

It is amazing though that females can get away with more flashing wise.

It is because most guys won't call the police if they get flashed by a woman. There is a big double standard.
 

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My best friend and I were swimming in downtown Stockholm a few summers ago. The place we went to is partially wooded, but popular for sunning/swimming. We didn't have our swimsuits, so we went topless in our underwear. Topless women aren't exactly uncommon in parks/swimming areas in Sweden, and we'd done it many times before without issue, so we didn't think it would be a problem.

After some time in the water, we noticed a man sit down on the shoreline about 30 feet from our stuff. We decided to go back up and get dressed, because we had digital cameras and such there. While we were drying off, I glanced over at the guy, who had exposed himself and was watching us, masturbating.

Ok, not exactly pleased, so we decide to head off asap. Only, he decides to follow us on his bike, circling back and forth every few minutes. It was creepy, we called the police.

If he hadn't followed us, I still would have filed a report, but online after I got home, just so they'd be notified of a possible issue.