I know you're kidding, WildHoney! :smile:
And I'm not trying to be confrontational, either (I hope I didn't come across this way).
I know that I am rare among males, in that I can have plenty of orgasms without dropping below the plateau level, and from stimulation in most any part of my body. But I firmly believe that ANY male can acheive this.
There are plenty of females who can't orgasm, for whatever reason. On the flip side, there are plenty who are multi-orgasmic. Men are in a similar situation, although there are probably less men than women who can't orgasm at all, and very few men who can have multiple orgasms. But we should not commit the naturalistic fallacy, that is, to derive the way things should be from the way they are (OK, no more philosophical terms, I promise!).
You are right, it is definately harder for males to learn how to have multiples! But that doesn't mean that we have less of a capacity to have them. Once learned, it's effortless. I can have one whenever I want, sometimes just by thinking about it (Oh, and the method I use is not holding the PC muscle at the moment of orgasm...but something called the Key Sound coupled with tantra). Many societal contraints and personal habits force males into an 'ejaculation paradigm', but we don't have to stay there.
I like to think of men and women as equal partners in sexuality. If one partner is viewed as inherently superior, the dreaded spark of jealousy will likely be ignited in the other partner. It may not manifest immediately, but it can grow slowly in the individual as a form of inadequacy. Obviously relationships can suffer from this, and many do. The best outlook is one of equality...even if one partner is 'sexually superior' at the moment, if we view both partners as having equal capacity then they can grow and mature together into one being!
