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Ladies, help me out. My wife was at a party with her best friend and a black guy with a huge dick showed his dick to both of them.(my wife told me this, said it was huge) He told the friend that he wants my wife to suck it(wife never told me this).However, she confide in the friend that, although the guy is an arsehole, she would love to give him a blow job. Just that, nothing else, and she thinks about it a lot. The friend told me this in confidence, so where do I go with this as I would like it to happen. Is it a fantasy she has no intention of carrying out? I'm confused, because my wife knows the friend tells me things she was supposed to keep secret. Any views?
 

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Ask your wife more questions based on what your wife has told you, not based on what the friend said. Tell your wife that you are surprised to find it arousing that this man exposed himself to her, and ask her more questions about how she felt about the experience. If it is a part of her she wants to share with you, and you appear open to it, she will share. If these are thoughts she wants to keep to herself, there is nothing you can do.
 

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Yeah you should ask your wife if you are really worried about it. First of all thats a crappy friend to tell you something your wife said in confidence BECAUSE first of all she could have just been making a statement, it doesn't mean shes going to do it. I have friends send me pic's of guys they are seeing (sometimes rather nude) and I say stuff like "man he's hot, I'd be all over that".... but would I really? NO! I'm just talking and to a friend at that. Someone I'm supposed to be able to trust not to go back and put thoughts into my guys head that would make him uncomfortable. Talk to your wife.
 
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Ladies, help me out. My wife was at a party with her best friend and a black guy with a huge dick showed his dick to both of them.(my wife told me this, said it was huge) He told the friend that he wants my wife to suck it(wife never told me this).However, she confide in the friend that, although the guy is an arsehole, she would love to give him a blow job. Just that, nothing else, and she thinks about it a lot. The friend told me this in confidence, so where do I go with this as I would like it to happen. Is it a fantasy she has no intention of carrying out? I'm confused, because my wife knows the friend tells me things she was supposed to keep secret. Any views?

You said that your wife would only like to give him a blow job, now from reading your other posts I don't see why it would be a problem as you have stated that this idea would be a turn on for you.

funnily enough I do have fantasies about my wife with a big dick, seen her ex in the gym showers once and he was huge! she did describe sex with him once, very much turned me on! and I do like being dominated by a big cock, gagging and being made to swallow his come.

I say discuss it with her, and be honest and genuine with your feelings about it, you never know, you might be able to explore your cuckold fantasy futher.
 

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Wait you want her to give him head? I just never understand these kind of things when it's someone's wife. I feel like there's a lot more guys willing to let their wives do these things than there are women willing to let their husband's have sex with another women.

I guess if you're okay with it, and actually get off on it then there's no problem. I just know I would be super jealous.
 

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You should do what all the other cuckold men do and that is go over to the guys house and come up with an elaborate plan to invite him over for dinner and then push the two of them together while you jack off in the corner like a loser.
 

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You should do what all the other cuckold men do and that is go over to the guys house and come up with an elaborate plan to invite him over for dinner and then push the two of them together while you jack off in the corner like a loser.
I'd fall out laughing, but I'm pretty sure that's what this guy is after...and that thought just creeps me out.
 

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You should do what all the other cuckold men do and that is go over to the guys house and come up with an elaborate plan to invite him over for dinner and then push the two of them together while you jack off in the corner like a loser.

lol fuckin hell, bit harsh.
 

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You should do what all the other cuckold men do and that is go over to the guys house and come up with an elaborate plan to invite him over for dinner and then push the two of them together while you jack off in the corner like a loser.

Are you trying to insult him genuinely or will that just get him more turned-on? lol.
 

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My husband says that nature has a special providence that watches over me because I can be somewhat naive and completely miss what's going on. That's kind of how I felt when I first read the first post. I mean, I don't know how I'd feel if I were the husband. But I know how I would feel if I were the wife and that's No Deal!

But when I read some of the other posts now I think I've been messed with.

So since he asked for help from us I guess we better huddle together and come up with an answer to his problem. I vote for Mme. Rouge's solution.
 

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OK, I had to come back to this. Just want to give him a blow job and nothing else? Maybe I'm wired differently, but I don't get it. I love oral sex and I love giving oral sex, but only because it gives my lover pleasure, and I like to make him happy. But he's my husband, and I love him a lot. I can't see where giving a complete stranger oral sex will give me any pleasure or satisfy a curiosity. I could just as soon give him a stick of gum and I could be just as happy. What am I missing?
 

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i don't think your missing anything. It sounds made up, because if his wife was really interested she would want it inside her, not in her mouth. Unless she is too scared to take it in her, but would love to play with it? Not sure if that would apply. It's amazing how this cuckold craze seems to be gaining so much popularity. Sounds more like a nightmare than a fantasy to me.
 

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i don't think your missing anything. It sounds made up, because if his wife was really interested she would want it inside her, not in her mouth. Unless she is too scared to take it in her, but would love to play with it? Not sure if that would apply. It's amazing how this cuckold craze seems to be gaining so much popularity. Sounds more like a nightmare than a fantasy to me.

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What he said.
 

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It sounds stupid cause it is. Its just another SPH loser looking for spank material. Hoping the ladies in here will chime in and tell him about how all they think about all day long is sucking another guys monster black cock.

Get a life man. These SPH guys are something else.
If a women saw a big dick she wanted to suck, she'd want the whole thing in her too. why would she want to get some guy off and leave her hangin.
My wife loves to suck dick....my dick....because she enjoys what it does to me.....not some random guy. Jeez.
These guys need jobs and quit sittin around all day watching porn. Thats where this shit comes from.
It also comes from the "Ron White inner gay" in all men. We all want to see porn where the little guy gets kicked in the floor and this guy with an elephant dick fucks a girl in half.
But thats porn.
Keep the extra dick away from my wife. Thats my pussy.

Ugh, everyday with these spank hounds.
This should be in fiction.
 

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i don't think your missing anything. It sounds made up, because if his wife was really interested she would want it inside her, not in her mouth. Unless she is too scared to take it in her, but would love to play with it? Not sure if that would apply. It's amazing how this cuckold craze seems to be gaining so much popularity. Sounds more like a nightmare than a fantasy to me.
When I see a pretty cock, the first thing I think is how badly I want to suck it. I don't think as much about actual sex, to be honest. I don't not want the sex, but I do think a lot about sucking dick.