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I am a guy with pale skin. I know there are tanning beds and what not but I'd rather not risk the chance of getting cancer. I have been told maybe try tanning creams but I heard they make your skin orange looking. So girls is pale skin on guys a turn off or turn on?
 

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perma tans from a bed are, in my opinion, ugly and tacky.

there's nothing sexy about the leathery skin & cancer you'll have twenty years on.
 

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I can find a pale man sexy. I once dated a redhead with milky white skin and I found him very sexy. Whatever age you are now, you will be very happy with yourself when you get to the upper ages of life and you have taken of yourself. When you become 50+, that in itself will be considered sexy.

If you're looking for different ways to sex yourself up, try building some muscle, that has lots of benefits and won't age you.
 

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Pale is not sexy to me. Can you cut grass for a couple of days and get a natural tan?

Have you not heard of malignant melanoma?

If a person with naturally pale skin wanders round in the sun with few clothes on skin damage will occur quite quickly.

The OP is very sensible not to do that.

He's far better off finding women who find him attractive than trying to change himself to suit those who don't.
 

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Have you not heard of malignant melanoma?

If a person with naturally pale skin wanders round in the sun with few clothes on skin damage will occur quite quickly.

The OP is very sensible not to do that.

He's far better off finding women who find him attractive than trying to change himself to suit those who don't.

Thanks, I usually burn up before getting a tan because my mom's side of the family is pretty fair skinned. I guess that is what happens by having a little bit of Irish in me haha.

ConstantComment I plan to start my workout routine once the weather gets nicer. I have spent this time losing the weight I wanted to lose. Now I wanna turn it into muscle.
 

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what attracts my attention most are men who smile and men with perfect manners.
i might look at handsome men but i'll look away as soon as they scowl, spit or are rude.
 

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I am very pale myself so how could I fault a man for it? Some of my pale relations are quite attractive as well. I haven't dated just one sort of complexion in my life either.

I have a secret yen for a ginger man but haven't yet met one who likes me back that way. My present loves are too wonderful just to dump because of appearance. Don't assume your partners are so shallow as to rate your appearance higher than your heart and mind.
 

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Hmmmmm, I am pretty pale and blonde myself and for some reason I am not attracted to guys that are as blonde and pale as me (I do have a thing for Latinos, hmmmmmm). You know the saying: Opposites attrract lol

Then again when I meet someone with a great personality, good manners and great sense of humor, I don't give a damn what he looks like. As long as he looks after himself, takes care of his body (at least a little) and treats me good, a guy could be black, white, green or purple, I wont care.

I find the way you think good though: Better to be pale than have leathery and wrinkly skin at 30 and/or skin cancer.
 

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Hmmmmm, I am pretty pale and blonde myself and for some reason I am not attracted to guys that are as blonde and pale as me (I do have a thing for Latinos, hmmmmmm). You know the saying: Opposites attrract lol

Then again when I meet someone with a great personality, good manners and great sense of humor, I don't give a damn what he looks like. As long as he looks after himself, takes care of his body (at least a little) and treats me good, a guy could be black, white, green or purple, I wont care.

I find the way you think good though: Better to be pale than have leathery and wrinkly skin at 30 and/or skin cancer.

Damn you women and Latinos haha. I don't have a problem with Latinos, I have quite a few friends that are Latino and am even interested in a Latino girl but my ex cheated one me with a Latino and I always seem to get cock blocked by them lol.

It's great to hear that skin color doesn't play a factor for you though.
 

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Damn you women and Latinos haha. I don't have a problem with Latinos, I have quite a few friends that are Latino and am even interested in a Latino girl but my ex cheated one me with a Latino and I always seem to get cock blocked by them lol.

It's great to hear that skin color doesn't play a factor for you though.

Poor guy......need some cheering up? :wink:
 

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i had a skin cancer scare once in my life...don't need one again. i celebrate my Nordic roots and remain pale!
 

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If a person with naturally pale skin wanders round in the sun with few clothes on skin damage will occur quite quickly.

putting an Irish guy on the beach is like putting a fork in the microwave...it's just sparks and a lot of pain.
 

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Everyone has their own tastes. In general, however, pale tends to be a big turn-off for women since I more than likely means the man doesn't get out a lot. Naturally tanned men are usually more adventurous... and fake tans are just screaming for attention.

Personally, I won't even make eye contact with women if they have an obviously fake tan or are wearing more than just a touch of makeup. Both are huge turn-offs for me.
 

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It's not that I don't get out enough though. I can sit out in the sun all day and will burn up before getting a good tan. I guess I will just have to find a girl that likes pale skin.
 

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Personally I love my men pale. For a white girl living in barren frozen wasteland of central Canada, I'm rather dark skinned even in winter, and I actually love the look of my body next to a pale one. I find it incredibly visually stimulating ;)
 
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oh god, please avoid the tanning beds!!! :shock: there's nothing less attractive than an orangey leathery complexion composed of skin cancer. you don't wanna look like one of those douchebags from jersey shore, do you?! :eek: i'd much rather be with an all natural pale guy (like my BF) than a leathery crusty overcooked piece of toast.

and as for being pale, there's nothing wrong with it. like i said earlier my BF happens to be super pale too and i think he looks great. he's got the whitest ass i've ever seen, and it's a mighty fine ass too :biggrin:

i think as long as you don't look like a weird nocturnal creature that's never gone out into sun, like gollum from lord of the rings, i'm sure you will be fine, paleness and all :wink:
 
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I am a guy with pale skin. I know there are tanning beds and what not but I'd rather not risk the chance of getting cancer. I have been told maybe try tanning creams but I heard they make your skin orange looking. So girls is pale skin on guys a turn off or turn on?

Decent fake tans don't look orange.

I prefer guys to be olive skinned but it depends on the guy himself.If he is very good looking i wouldnt care if his skin was striped :wink:
 

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I prefer my men with some color to them but I would never reject a man just because he's pale. Just like I wouldn't reject a man because his eyes are green and not brown or he has blonde hair and not brown. People are who they are and should be loved as such. If someone doesn't value you your physical appearance and can't look beyond that to what's inside and what is really important then they simply aren't good enough for you.
 

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oh god, please avoid the tanning beds!!! :shock: there's nothing less attractive than an orangey leathery complexion composed of skin cancer. you don't wanna look like one of those douchebags from jersey shore, do you?! :eek: i'd much rather be with an all natural pale guy (like my BF) than a leathery crusty overcooked piece of toast.

and as for being pale, there's nothing wrong with it. like i said earlier my BF happens to be super pale too and i think he looks great. he's got the whitest ass i've ever seen, and it's a mighty fine ass too :biggrin:

i think as long as you don't look like a weird nocturnal creature that's never gone out into sun, like gollum from lord of the rings, i'm sure you will be fine, paleness and all :wink:

Lol, well because I have alopecia someone has called me gollum before, I even got the powder reference but I try not to let it get me down.

AlteredEgo, I have bad luck with women I guess. I've only ever been in one relationship, I'm still a virgin and I seem to only be in the friend zone for a lot of women. Often, I get feelings for girls and it seems to be one sided.
 

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This topic reminds me of Wally Pleasant's song Man With a Tan...

Anyway pale or tan makes no difference to me as long as it's not a fake tan. I don't like the way they look.

I guess I tend to date pale people. Thinking back, the majority of the people I've been involved with have been pale. I myself have legs the color of fish underbellies. I'd have made a great goth girl in high school. I might even glow in the dark.

I'm sorry you've not had good luck with girls and wish you the best of luck in the future.
 
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Funny I never thought of skin color one way or another as a dating criteria. I prefer darker haired men over blonds for some reason I can't explain but I've never really taken note of skin color. I've dated very a pale guy with an Irish background to a very dark skinned African American. Sexy on both ends of the spectrum IMHO.
 

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Pale for me, it looks healthier. Someone pale hasn't been spending all his free time trying to convert his skin to dry old leather .