Pale is not sexy to me. Can you cut grass for a couple of days and get a natural tan?
Have you not heard of malignant melanoma?
If a person with naturally pale skin wanders round in the sun with few clothes on skin damage will occur quite quickly.
The OP is very sensible not to do that.
He's far better off finding women who find him attractive than trying to change himself to suit those who don't.
Hmmmmm, I am pretty pale and blonde myself and for some reason I am not attracted to guys that are as blonde and pale as me (I do have a thing for Latinos, hmmmmmm). You know the saying: Opposites attrract lol
Then again when I meet someone with a great personality, good manners and great sense of humor, I don't give a damn what he looks like. As long as he looks after himself, takes care of his body (at least a little) and treats me good, a guy could be black, white, green or purple, I wont care.
I find the way you think good though: Better to be pale than have leathery and wrinkly skin at 30 and/or skin cancer.
Damn you women and Latinos haha. I don't have a problem with Latinos, I have quite a few friends that are Latino and am even interested in a Latino girl but my ex cheated one me with a Latino and I always seem to get cock blocked by them lol.
It's great to hear that skin color doesn't play a factor for you though.
If a person with naturally pale skin wanders round in the sun with few clothes on skin damage will occur quite quickly.