Ladies, is she a size queen?

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by harddog8, Nov 10, 2006.

  1. harddog8

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    Recently got my G/F a dildo and I surprised her with it while making love. We had been having intercourse for a while, and then I started going down on her again, and snuck some lube on it and slipped it in.

    I am decent size (from what I have been told, 7.5 X 5.5) but definitely not huge.

    I had sensed that she really likes size because of things she does while we make love...for instance alot of times she wants me to penetrate her without going down on her...I think she likes the tight feeling when she is not wet.

    At first she was kind of surprised...but then she loved it. She came really fast and hard.

    Here is the thing. The dildo is about 6.5 around and she didn't even blink or act like it hurt in the slightest. I would think that is pretty damn big. I have asked her if she would like it again some time and she said "I would take it all day every day".

    So I guess what I was wondering is if most women could handle this size no problem, or if my girl may be one of those "bigger is better" types... And not being huge myself I wonder about that???
     
  2. Lordpendragon

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    Harddog - you need to sort out your gender in your profile.

    In answer to your question - of course women vary - and then there are preferences for the range of fit which should take into account the muscle control of the woman - without naming names, there are ladies here who can grip a pencil and take a large fist. IMO women who can do this should be as proud of themselves as guys are because they have a big cock - probably more so.

    Don't have a problem if she can also enjoy a larger girth, so long as she can enjoy your's still and you her, which shouldn't be a problem at all given your measuremnts - go with having a great sex life - you're a lucky guy. :smile:
     
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    Yeah, I changed that gender thing!!!

    I am totally psyched by her errrr...uhhhh abilities?

    The amazing thing is she is still always tight! I just wonder if I have unleashed a monster? She has always been reserved before...
     
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    Like I said Harddog - go with it and enjoy the ride - nothing finer than a sexually liberated woman. :tongue:
     
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    Still curious anyone else's thoughts on this... Is her love of the "big-one" typical??

    Thanks!!!
     
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    And if she did really like big ones should that bother me?
     
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    Girls should always be tight. The only time they aren't is after childbirth.

    And it doesn't mean she is a size queen, she just likes big dildos is as much as you could assume. Perhaps she LIKES big cocks but I doubt she'd be exclusive and not accept anyone with an average sized cocks. My gf was ready to accept my having a 'cocktail sausage', but was pleasantly surprised when she found out I had a bigger breed of sausage lol. She likes it, but its not the be all and end all.

    She, like most girls cum from clitoral stimulation exclusively (well so far, I'm working on it)...she uses her rabbit thing on her clit, orgasms in two minutes. My ex bought one and said she came four times in five minutes.

    I think girls that can cum through penetration can cum faster though, and harder? I was with onen girl who could and she was cumming ever minute or so.
     
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    You should take it as a compliment that she is so comfortable and relaxed with you to handle a large girth with ease. That's usually the problem with most women, they need to be relaxed and feel good about what they are doing. A porn star can do that on command with sheer willpower, that is not normal. Be proud and ecstatic that she has let you in on her sensuality. Congratulations... and there are things you can do if you want some more girth... if you think that would help your ego to handle this better.
     
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    She likes what she likes. Why label it?

    She likes the toy.

    She likes you.

    All is well.
     
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    All is well!!!

    I have noticed the same thing Paul Vincent.

    Chicks that cum from penetration seem to be able to do it over and over... I think when they come from the clit only it can get so sensitive that any further stimulation is counterproductive.
     
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    I think the thing that surprised me is this... If I look at say...the durex penis size survey...
    Image:penis circum percentile.jpg - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
    Image:penis percentile.jpg - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

    I am still bigger than 90 & of the average population (don't make the grade around here ;))... but nowhere near the size of the dildo I used on her, and that she LOVED!!

    And I really am surprised that it was no problem.

    I guess the lesson I will take, and some of you have pointed out, she was really turned on and comfortable and able to take great pleasure from it, and so was I.... AND THAT ROCKS!!
     
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    Tripod,

    I would love to hear what you have to offer on gaining some girth???
     
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    would you still have this issue if you had bought her a dildo smaller than yourself and she enjoyed it, i guess not. its just a toy it does what it is designed to do, if she wasn't happy with you she would kick you out and set up house with the dildo. dont worry just enjoy using it knowing it makes her feel good.
     
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    From my somewhat limited experience, plus a lot of reading, I'd say she's a bit of a size queen if she's taking a 6.5" girth comfortably. If you read through enough posts on various threads here, you will find some reports of women who take a long time to get up to taking a girth like that, and some who seemingly never can without discomfort. Female size does vary, and while there's significant flexibility, even that seems limited in some cases.

    It's probably easier to add girth than length to a penis, if you're interested in looking into the possibilities of the workouts that can genuinely enhance penis size if you're willing to make the effort. I'd suggest checking out the forum:

    http://www.lpsg.org/making-it-bigger/

    And please, remain positive in spite of her enthusiasm for a larger object. If you read carefully through women's posts on this site, you'll find plenty of evidence that there is more that is important to them than mere measurements or the largest size.

    Good Luck,


    FF
     
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    I bought my wife an 8" dildo, a real nice silicon one. She threw it out and said it hurt and she got bladder infections from the deep penetration. I also have a 7" insertable vibrator and she doesn't like that.

    She actually orgasms mostly from the Hitachi Maginc Wand (clit orgasms) and my fingers on her g-spot.

    Every woman just likes what she likes. I'm kinda pissed because she hasn't copped to throwing the dildo away, but she says we should and she "can't find it".

    I bet she just threw it in the trash along with my Ted Nugent concert T-shirt.

    That was a $50 dildo!
     
  16. OmahaBeef

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    Women have a tendency to not really know what they want, even if they say that they know what they want. She liked the dildo of that size...THIS IS NOT UNCOMMON. (6.5 circumference is BIG...no doubt...far bigger than average).

    I believe that there is a bit of size queen in every woman...but to different degree's of course. Women want to be FILLED.

    I can't tell you how many women I have been with, who in pre-coital discussion emphasized the utter lack of importance of size. Then when we had sex they gushed over it considerably and once they felt at ease, the size of my cock was a discussion talked about time and time again.

    At 7x5.5...you have absolutely nothing to worry about my friend. You are both longer and thicker than the average guy. The only way that you two would have any relationship troubles is if she became a helpless and borderline demented size queen. But those are in the minority so you don't have much to worry about.

    ...OB
     
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    Want a woman's opinion? Well I'll give it to you.

    I myself like girth. No man has ever found my g-spot. I only orgasm from clitoral stimulation. That being said, the more girth the better.

    Less girth. I can grip hold of it, and I can orgasm with stimulation. More girth, I can't grip it so easily and it fills me up. If it's a new sensation for her, then yes. Her body is going to say "HOLY FUCK" and just get off quickly.

    It has nothing to do with your size not being enough. It was a new experience. Eventually, she'll grow used to it and the orgasms will be less intense from it. I'm guessing that was your major anxiety from it. Relax.

    She's still with you. She hasn't run off with the dildo.
     
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    You know, that was a really shitty thing to do---this is STILL a support group, and as much as a guys ego is tied to his cock, this was just plain mean. You don't know him at all, yet you are talking shit about him when he didn't do anything to you. Just to be cruel. You win my asshole of the day award:mad:
     
  20. Lordpendragon

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    I love you more each day hotpants :eek: :newangel:
     
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