Ladies meassuring big cocks.

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  1. B_bigOO

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    My last and my current boyfriend have a big cock. I tried to meassure them once, but they rejected the idea. I only tried to have a funny moment, just that.

    Could someone explain to me why this happens?
     
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    bigOO-

    It's a very touchy subject for some of us, so unless some guy wants you to do it, I'd avoid even talking about it to protect the relationship. Part of it with me, is that I often fear that most people are easily sucked in to all these ridiculous numbers that are thrown around these days. If a girl talks about "inches" and "measuring dicks" and all that, I'd automatically figure she's absorbed lots of that crap and probably has a skewed perception of what the actual size of a big dick is, and won't be impressed by anything below those insane exaggerated sizes. I'm not even sure that trying to teach some people about it does much good when you're battling fantasy.

    On the other hand, I have a lot of respect for the guys that are comfortable enough to be turned on by that, even when they know that an accurate measurement isn't going to land them in porn inches. More power to you! Wish I was more like that.

    Just be careful with it. :wink:

    Crunch
     
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    I quite like women asking to and measuring it, it can be pretty hot, although it's not something all guys are turned on by. It can offend some guys. You have to be pretty dam big and pretty secure in yourself to enjoy it.
     
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    The biggest issue, as mentioned above, is there is a lot of confusion on what a big Dick is. a lot of times, girls misjudge size, or believe their guy's word on inches. It varies. In reality penis 8 inches long is very big. But most people here estimates like, "omg, my boyfriend's Dick is over 10 inches"

    I had a weird situation with my wife thinking I was 5 inches (after over 5 years of marriage) until recently where she measured me and was pleasantly surprised i was 7 inches in length. She has been more vocal about my size since then, and sex life has been Wilder.

    Check my thread:

    http://www.lpsg.org/282059-wife-thought-i-was-smaller.html
     
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    Never happened to me but I d have been glad if it did
     
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    I've never minded any girls measuring my cock. It always leads to more fun. :)
     
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    My ex wife liked to measure once in awhile as part of foreplay. I've had several women measure me. I've never said no. I think it's great that they are interested and it usually leads to a pretty positive result.
     
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    Yeah I think a lot of guys are just insecure about it. The other day I asked my bf if he's ever measured his cock...he said no. Not sure if I believe that or not, but I think he was just insecure and didn't want to say actually what measurements it was. Personally, I only wanted to know out of curiosity...I love his cock and he knows it lol.
     
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    I think...if a girl/guy asks, when you drop your pants and before anything happens, it's offensive. NOW after the fact...and you know they were/are into you and pleased by what happened...then yah..that's a bit more flattering. Personally, I think that if you're into the guy...the ruler shouldn't come out at all. You should just know...hey I like it...what they do with it is GREAT and I don't care how big they are...just care that they know what to do with it to make me satisfied.
     
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    BigOO, I have had the same experiences as you with my husband. He refused to be measured, and I really couldn't figure out why. But I seriously wanted to know. I think he was afraid of being labeled a freak. I finally did measure him, though, because I claimed he was a foot long, and he denied it. So I said more? And he said no. Well, I kept on bugging him until he relented. And no, I'm not saying what it was.
     
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    RTG- As I mentioned above though, it's not so much being insecure about where they actually stand in the real world. It's knowing that the average person is being fed this really unrealistic perception of what size different dicks really are. I know (and am actually a bit ashamed of) how much I've learned about true penis sizes lately. I've learned the approximate sizes of many (porn) people who are considered to be huge and am not as easily fooled by certain forms of measurement cheating and deceptive photography as I once was. I would probably have no problem having someone I was with know my exact size if they were on that same level, though I'm not sure I would be into having a girlfriend who was that obsessed with other people's dicks. :wink:

    Also, as mentioned, having a girl bring up "dick measuring" and such would lead me to believe even more that she may have already been brainwashed by some of those ridiculous Brandi Belle type images and stupid dick rumours. It would be sort of a no win. Trying to school "regular people" on these things or point out some of the bullcrap to them always just makes me feel like some "small" guy with penis envy trying to knock down all the "real" big guys, even when what you're pointing out is more or less true and should have been obvious to them.

    From the stuff I noticed, I think it's more of the later. I've read of plenty of regular-sized guys who were really turned on by it somehow (again, they have my respect).

    Crunch
     
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    Hah, are you implying that I'm obsessed with other people's dicks? I don't cam or pm guys on here or talk to guys about 'their dicks'. As I said, I love my bfs dick and tell him that all the time...I actually think I am obsessed with his dick.

    The only reason I asked him if he's measured it is cos of how I've seen how obsessed guys are with it on here. And I told him that. Though I did not mention the name of the site lol.
     
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    No, I just meant that in order to know some of the same stuff I've learned about true penis sizes, someone would have to have spent a good deal of time on it. It wasn't aimed at you.

    Crunch
     
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    Yeah, I think for the most part guys are insecure about it. But I would seriously doubt any man who says they have never measured their penis. I measured my penis in sixth grade, a girl in my class said she heard the average penis for an adult is six inches.....I went home that day and measured. Then many times over the years as I grew. Not impossible, but highly unlikely. According to my girl, she thinks I never measured before, just culture of sexual taboos.
     
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    you keep bragging about hubby but he's not a foolong..lol
     
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    wife has measured me a few times over the years. once she was going to a girl party, and all the gals were to bring their SO measurements. I or she won the contest. then a few yrs later, when the internet got going she measured me again to see where I fit in with an online penis survey size chart, and this was done at a girl's party. I or she won again.

    we used to run into this neighborhood couple once in awhile having a cocktail or two at a local bar. this guy's wife was interested in the male anatomy after a few drinks, and she asked my wife if she had ever measured me, her husband adamantly refused she said. in fact, he got quite vocal about it in the bar. I was kicking back, listening to this. my wife told her yes she had measured me, the gal looked at her and looked at me, waiting for one of us to continue, when we didn't and after an awkward pause, the gal says to my wife, "so he's got a big dick, huh?". my wife said "yes" and said nothing further. then the gal asked how big and my wife told her that was personal. the gal got a little upset.

    a couple yrs later, this couple's son and my youngest played together, and she made the comment one day that she wanted another child but her husband would hardly touch her. then another time she told me she was going to a convention, some ladies thing, in big city, and she was going get drunk and find a big cock guy and fuck him. still another time, our boys were going to camp out in their back yard. her husband was gone. she called over and needed help with the tent. we finally got the tent up, and were inside, and she grabbed my forearm, and asked me to fuck her right there and then. "I want another child, and I want a big cock. please XXX, fuck me." anyway, that didn't happen
     
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    wish you'd keep bugging me lol
     
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    I've been measured numerous times. It usually stems from some discussion with friends. I guess i don't look like the kind of guy who would be well endowed because nobody ever believes I'm over 8.

    I think the best experience was during a game of truth or dare.


    Inalso met a girl who kept a log of all the guys she'd seen.
     
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    i wish my gf would ask to measure me infront of a housefull of her closest friends..lol It's actually a fantasy of mine...:biggrin1:
     
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    There's a book called "Penis Pokey" that you can leave on the coffee table next time they visit.
     
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