Ladies only please. A question on anal sex

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  1. skip22h

    skip22h Active Member

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    Ladies, what position/s, if any, gives you least amount of pain and thus, hopefully, most amount of pleasure when having anal sex?

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    i. I'm all for that 'ask a woman' sub-forum

    ii. I did try and do a search for any similar questions but couldnt find anything. If it is a repeat question, I apologise.
     
  2. irox19

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    If I'm going to do anal, I prefer it doggystyle...and standing. On all fours works as well.
     
  3. SoSoPretty

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    I agree with irox19...
     
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    I like to be flat on my abdomen. It forces two things to happen: The cock is forced to remain shallow unless I push my backside up to receive more, and the head is guided to where I am most sensitive, anally.
     
  5. ManlyBanisters

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    Anal doesn't hurt me, I wouldn't do it if it did - all positions are good.
     
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    Actually, I have a subset question here - can you describe what the pleasure is that you get from anal, & how intense it can be, & how it can all go wrong - please!

    I've only known a few women who genuinely loved it, & recently, well, no one has:frown1:. There's certainly no problem with arousal, so is it just a fear thing - because I swear I'm ever so gentle:wink:.
     
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    I prefer doggy, at least to begin with. It helps me relax more and leaves me more open (that sounded kinda icky :redface:). My FB usually lets me control things until I get comfortable.


    Maybe they just don't like anal.
     
  8. dolfette

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    it's that some of us just don't dig anal.
    it feels like repeatedly shitting backwards.
    it is the least erotic sensation to me.

    also, ew!
    i have a perfectly good vagina next door.
    it makes you smell like vag instead of arsehole.
    then i might actually want to to lick you clean.
     
  9. thehighheelsgirl

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    If the guy is hung I find it pretty fun to be on top with anal, otherwise def doggy but he better wait until I'm broken in before fucking me hard back there.
     
  10. EllieP

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    I like when I'm laying on my left side, with my right knee positioned just above my waist, and my right arm behind me so I can reach back there. Then I like him in the next room doing whatever he wants, eating chips, watching TV or playing with himself.

    This girl does not do anal.
     
  11. Opalite

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    Pain is rare. But I usually find that it's easiest either standing (usually on a step, to make up for hight difference) or doggy.
     
  12. The Dragon

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    I prefer doggie and for him to be still until I adjust. I push myself back onto him as I breathe out and push out (like I'm doing a poop).
    Coordinating all three - pushing myself back, breathing out and pushing out really really helps.
    Once I've adjusted then he can start thrusting.
    If he doesn't immediately respond to the feed back I'm giving him like...slower or STOP then we are never having anal again and no amount of "sorry" is going to change my mind.
     
  13. Jillang

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    It's definitely not my thing but it's good to hear a guy ask a question about making things better for your partner. I hope you got the answers you were looking for.
     
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