LADIES ONLY: what proportion of men are good at eating pussy?

[Ganieda]

I voted 1/4, but I truly meant 1/8 or 1/16.

Maybe we should go gay. We could find chicks with huge strap ons and post on a support forum for Large Strap-On Penises.

 

[latinluva]

How do you know whena man has ate pussy real good...the towel underneath is drenched, she chewed the hell out of your pillow, and at least an hour has passed by. Ans most definitely she orgasmed at least three times. I would say that is a good measuring stick for oral sex. I've done it just for my pleasure without reciprication. But then again I love to suck dick also.....I guess some of us sre just givers. I don't really enjoy receiving that much, I don't have any control over the person.

 

[rob_just_rob]

I voted nosey. Most of my partners couldn't resist a little nose action during oral sex.

 

[dolfette]

I voted 1/4, but I truly meant 1/8 or 1/16.

Maybe we should go gay. We could find chicks with huge strap ons and post on a support forum for Large Strap-On Penises.

i'm up for it!

 

[Opalite]

How do you know whena man has ate pussy real good...the towel underneath is drenched, she chewed the hell out of your pillow, and at least an hour has passed by. Ans most definitely she orgasmed at least three times. I would say that is a good measuring stick for oral sex. I've done it just for my pleasure without reciprication. But then again I love to suck dick also.....I guess some of us sre just givers. I don't really enjoy receiving that much, I don't have any control over the person.

Sorry, but no. An hour of bad oral sex, doesn't change the fact that it's bad oral. You'd be suprised at how well most females can fake orgasms, pillow biting and all. There are ways to tell if a lady is enjoying herself or having an orgasm - you've missed every single one of those.

Again, men can't eat pussy. If anything, maybe 1 in a 100 men aren't awefull, 1 in a 1000000 might just be good. I'd say it's not worth the bother.

 

[ManlyBanisters]

Again, men can't eat pussy.

You can't generalise like that.

If anything, maybe 1 in a 100 men aren't awefull, 1 in a 1000000 might just be good. I'd say it's not worth the bother.

Have you had a 100 men? More power to you if you have but you can't extrapolate '1 in a 100 aren't awful' from a sample group of 10 or so (for example). Maybe you've just been unlucky.

I haven't had a 100 guys, but of those I have had more than 1 of them wasn't awful - Oh nos! Maybe I've had your share I'm sooooo sorry!! Oh, wait - no I'm not! :wink:

 

[rob_just_rob]

*shrugs* "Good at eating pussy" is clearly in the eye of the beholder. A heterosexual woman who really enjoys oral sex and/or orgasms fairly easily, is more likely to rate male cunnilingus skills higher than would a woman who dislikes or is indifferent to oral sex and/or doesn't readily reach orgasm.

This is somewhat analogous to the way gay men insist that they are better at sucking cocks than women are. A straight* male isn't going to prefer a blow job from a man to a blow job from a woman, no matter how skilled the man is.





* really, don't go there.

 

[HotRod65]

The more I read, the more I understand why so many straight men want a man to suck their cocks. My limited experience is that not many women are any good at it. By the same token, it's now glaringly obvious that very few women are satisfied with the way men eat pussy. The answer seems to be to let the ladies admit that they can probably do it for each other much, much better, so why not go for it, just to help each other out, in a sisterly way, when it's needed. This is what the guys seem to be doing now.
I just parted company with my lady of 18 years, and it's such a relief to no longer be told what to do, and instructed, and directed in everything, including the art of pussy eating which I am obviously hopeless at. Maybe we men are so used to being told what to do and how to do it in our daily lives, that it's a big turn-off when you're trying to give pleasure to your partner. It certainly put me off.
Now as a failed pussy-eater, I'd really like to see if I'd be better at giving pleasure as a cock sucker because I think I've got the qualifications to be able to do it well.

 

[Patchos]

*shrugs* "Good at eating pussy" is clearly in the eye of the beholder. A heterosexual woman who really enjoys oral sex and/or orgasms fairly easily, is more likely to rate male cunnilingus skills higher than would a woman who dislikes or is indifferent to oral sex and/or doesn't readily reach orgasm.
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The question wasn't "Do you enjoy oral sex?". I don't orgasm nor get any near as much pleasure out of oral than say a woman who does orgasm. But, I still love that a guy wants to go down there and it does feel bloody fantastic. So I can still rate what proportion of men are good at eating pussy.

Most men just don't have a fucking clue which parts to lick/suck/finger, etc.

 

[rob_just_rob]

The question wasn't "Do you enjoy oral sex?". I don't orgasm nor get any near as much pleasure out of oral than say a woman who does orgasm. But, I still love that a guy wants to go down there and it does feel bloody fantastic. So I can still rate what proportion of men are good at eating pussy.

Most men just don't have a fucking clue which parts to lick/suck/finger, etc.

I probably didn't phrase that well. What I meant was that if a woman has a hard time reaching orgasm from oral sex OR doesn't enjoy oral sex, it might be because her partner(s) isn't(aren't) doing a good job, or because she just has a hard time cumming from oral sex, period. A particular guy might get an 'average/poor' rating from such a woman, and a 'good/great' rating from a woman who enjoys oral sex a lot OR climaxes more readily.

YMMV, of course. The point was that sexual skill is a subjective thing.

 

[pussnboots]

Okay, here's a hint if a woman loves it and orgasms: she starts to shake, quake and moan like a mad woman! She's wet. She tightens her thighs. She starts to laugh and almost cry after wards....and is like a puddle...

okay, and for those guys that seemed so into this subject, what if a woman were to give you head, then you give oral in turn....Would that make you better at giving oral? Maybe you're in a rush to cum?

And my guess is, if you love to give oral, then you are good at it...just my own guess though. And if a woman is pulling you up, well after an orgasm or three, its pretty sensitive down there....

 

[bgr_thn_avrg]

Um...well I don't give head, but I imagine it's easier to do well than eating a pussy. And I admit that I'm not sure I'm good at eating out. What would help? If more women were more interested in giving a little more information. And I DO NOT mean the kind of information that women love to give that is more like riddles and clues with indirect phrases. I mean talk to a guy in a way that he will understand! When you say,"Hmm it's a little cool" and really mean that you want him to get closer and hold you, rather than give you his coat, because then you would feel bad that he is cold now and it's your fault because you took his coat away, but are flatered at the offer. He absolutely is not built to think that way. So don't use the same tactics when he's lovin up on your lips. He's just trying to do anything he thinks might feel good, and doesn't have the capability to do that and solve the riddle of the sphinx at the same time. I've had women do things like jerk their hips back, or move a certain way, or tense more when they don't like something, but not actually say something until it comes to "stop doing that already! shit, it doesn't feel good!" Well I'm sorry, but tensing and jerking can also be good signs! I'm afraid it would have been easier and more pleasurable to just say that to begin with. Women are different from each other as well. It seems a lot more different than men when it comes to getting head. Some like fingering but not always, or don't like to be licked directly on the clit while others crave it, or have roaming pleasure areas, sometimes it's lingering somewhere to the right, or maybe it will decide to head for higher pasture in the middle of things. And so many women think that just little "clues" based on their own understanding of their bodies are always enough to get it through to us! Like a guy is automatically good at all women if he is good with one, and a total fucking idiot if he doesn't know the magical phrase that gets every woman off. If you go through several sessions and are still not getting just what you want, and think it's because he just doesn't have the ability, then most likely you aren't doing your part. If a girl is giving me bad head, or I want something, I don't expect it just happen with divine intervention. I say something until I get what I want. If I just grab my cock and jerk it instead, then the point of her going down on me is going to be lost. It's about me getting good head, and her having the satisfaction of giving it to me. That's the point isn't it? And the vast majority of men do not know at all how it feels to you down there! I know I don't have a clue how it feel to have my labia rubbed, or my clit flicked, or my vagina fingered! Oh yeah, I don't have any of them! I don't think I even have an analog for comparison! I hate to tell you this ladies, but some women who are getting more good head? It's not only the people they are getting it from! If you want to be successfull at your workplace, you take initiative and tell people what you want and expect from them. If you're good at your job, you will find the places to reconcile between others and yourself and become a strong, effective team. You may find that the guy you thought was an idiot who didn't know how to do his job, really has some great ideas, and you just need to bridge the communication gap to reach your full potential. So maybe instead of talking down all the guys, you can work on your own skills and help build winning relationship between his mouth and your pussy! GO TEAM CUNILINGUS!

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Patchos is so right, many guys just have no idea what they are doing. They arent aware of anatomy. All clitoris' are built virtually the same way, just like penises. Some women are more sensitive than others obviously but there is a technique i would call COMMON SENSE TECHNIQUE that incorporates- pressure, speed and consistency by taking her cues or her verbal suggestions.

If shes grabbing your head and grinding into your face- shes liking it.

Most men would consider the same type of blow job to be a good one if shes using her mouth and her hands and working it nicely. Same goes for oral sex for women, but it takes the guy with the extra hand/mouth stamina to push us over the edge into orgasm to truly consider you a good oral sexer.

Vibrators are all virtually the same, they vibrate and stimulate the clitoris, as the masturbation progresses the speed of her rubbing increases. It's not rocket science.

Also, if you watch any videos of women actually orgasming from oral sex, the guys arent doing entirely different things on each woman. If shes going to orgasm from oral sex, just watch 5 or 6 oral sex orgasm videos (moreso amateur home porn stuff) and then you'll see what works for most.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Um...well I don't give head, but I imagine it's easier to do well than eating a pussy. And I admit that I'm not sure I'm good at eating out. What would help? If more women were more interested in giving a little more information. And I DO NOT mean the kind of information that women love to give that is more like riddles and clues with indirect phrases. I mean talk to a guy in a way that he will understand!

When you say,"Hmm it's a little cool" and really mean that you want him to get closer and hold you, rather than give you his coat, because then you would feel bad that he is cold now and it's your fault because you took his coat away, but are flatered at the offer. He absolutely is not built to think that way.

So don't use the same tactics when he's lovin up on your lips. He's just trying to do anything he thinks might feel good, and doesn't have the capability to do that and solve the riddle of the sphinx at the same time. I've had women do things like jerk their hips back, or move a certain way, or tense more when they don't like something, but not actually say something until it comes to "stop doing that already! shit, it doesn't feel good!"

Well I'm sorry, but tensing and jerking can also be good signs! I'm afraid it would have been easier and more pleasurable to just say that to begin with. Women are different from each other as well. It seems a lot more different than men when it comes to getting head.

Some like fingering but not always, or don't like to be licked directly on the clit while others crave it, or have roaming pleasure areas, sometimes it's lingering somewhere to the right, or maybe it will decide to head for higher pasture in the middle of things. And so many women think that just little "clues" based on their own understanding of their bodies are always enough to get it through to us!

Like a guy is automatically good at all women if he is good with one, and a total fucking idiot if he doesn't know the magical phrase that gets every woman off. If you go through several sessions and are still not getting just what you want, and think it's because he just doesn't have the ability, then most likely you aren't doing your part. If a girl is giving me bad head, or I want something, I don't expect it just happen with divine intervention. I say something until I get what I want.

If I just grab my cock and jerk it instead, then the point of her going down on me is going to be lost. It's about me getting good head, and her having the satisfaction of giving it to me. That's the point isn't it? And the vast majority of men do not know at all how it feels to you down there! I know I don't have a clue how it feel to have my labia rubbed, or my clit flicked, or my vagina fingered! Oh yeah, I don't have any of them! I don't think I even have an analog for comparison!


I hate to tell you this ladies, but some women who are getting more good head? It's not only the people they are getting it from! If you want to be successfull at your workplace, you take initiative and tell people what you want and expect from them. If you're good at your job, you will find the places to reconcile between others and yourself and become a strong, effective team.

You may find that the guy you thought was an idiot who didn't know how to do his job, really has some great ideas, and you just need to bridge the communication gap to reach your full potential. So maybe instead of talking down all the guys, you can work on your own skills and help build winning relationship between his mouth and your pussy! GO TEAM CUNILINGUS!

YAY FOR PARAGRAPHS!!!! Maybe NOW someone can read what the hell you wrote.

 

[ManlyBanisters]

WALLOFTEXTWITHNOPARAGRAPHS!!!!

I ain't reading it. :no:

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

WALLOFTEXTWITHNOPARAGRAPHS!!!!

I ain't reading it. :no:

I know, i couldnt read it either. Poor guy spent im sure a good amount of time writing it. I tried to help by quoting it and throwing in paragraph breaks. I bet many guys will have no problem reading it, as they seem to be the no-paragraph offenders most of the time.

 

[bgr_thn_avrg]

YAY! Is it just me or is this post a little bit about arguing? And if you have a problem with the fact that I wrote a bunch of damn shit on my post, then exert the minimal amount of effort it takes to scroll past it! I'm just saying instead of people getting all negative and pissy about things, they do have the ability to do something about it. And thank you for editing it miss mantis! I'm glad we are both interested in getting these points across!

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

It has nothing to do with preference, it has to do with how the human brain recognizes letters, sentences, paragraphs when reading quickly. It makes fast readers frustrated and thus not read something written in all caps or with no paragraphs.

Our eyes recognize patterns when reading, especially so when reading 10-12 point font. So it gives me a migraine to have to sort through a 1000 word essay with no breaking points. I also forget where one sentence ends and begins, where one point is made to the next and most importantly you dont worry about reading the same sentence 2 or 3 times.

Many of us write a bunch of shit in our posts, i have 5,725 posts worth of a bunch of shit, but people wouldnt read it if i had it in one long box of words. You want people to read what you have to say. Its up to you if you want to make that easier and get some replies to the content.

 

[bgr_thn_avrg]

Like I said, thanks for the edit.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

I would also like to add, what qualifies as good oral sex? I think my husband can give me good oral for a few minutes without needing to orgasm and it would still be good compared to bad oral sex.

For some, good=orgasm every time.

Great oral sex is atleast 3 orgasms, once i get past the first orgasm the rest are a breeze and only take seconds to get to.