fretch: I really want to know what the women think. I'm sure I'm not alone about this. Well, where do I start? I'm about 6 1/2" hard and about 5 1/2" circumference, so I'm right there in the middle of the so-called average. I do wish I was not such a "grower" because it does make me self conscious when completely soft. The thing is, I've got a great physique, I'm 6'1", 210 lbs, and I have been told my whole life that I'm very handsome. Also, I'm successful, educated, sensitive, and I've had some amazingly beautiful girlfriends. My average size has never really cost me any women that I wanted to pursue. If women talk a lot about how much they love big cocks, I lose interest. The fact that a woman talks that way in a social setting means she's no lady in my book anyway. Sure, I wish I had one or two more inches, but I really wouldn't want more than that. I have never been with a woman who wasn't very satisfied sexually. I've been with very few women who seemed like they could use a little more cock, but it never detracted from the complete experience sexually. I have been with several women who had never had any orgasms before me, and I've been with women who had never had orgasm during intercourse before me. In all cases I got the job done, and had a big impact on their lives. I'm confident that I am a very gifted lover, and that it doesn't have very much to do with the size of my cock. Although, if I were under-endowed it might have been different for me. Yeah, I'll bet it would have. Many women have told me that I am "perfect" in size and shape, and that larger cocks are more trouble than they're worth. At times (in certain sexual positions) I have been able to feel a woman's cervix with the tip of my cock, and I knew they didn't want me to go any deeper. So what good would two more inches have done? Many times, no, most times when a women is giving me head, there is no way in hell they want to take all of me down their throat, so what good would a huge one be in those moments? So what can the women on this site (and the men I suppose) say about this in the way of feedback?