Ladies prep for the thick ones

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Ladies do you have favorite tools to help stretch out your tight pussy's for the real thick ones, or do you just go for it and use alot of forplay, lube and the REAL THING?
 

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Ladies do you have favorite tools to help stretch out your tight pussy's for the real thick ones, or do you just go for it and use alot of forplay, lube and the REAL THING?

My husband is 7.5" around in the middle. I have to have lots of forplay and some KY. After that, it's usually not a problem. It always hurts a bit going in, but...it'a GOOD HURT! lol!
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My wife now has a series of increasing diameter dildos for dilating her vagina so that she will be able to acommodate my girth. I am making acrylic dildos to fill in the "gaps" in diameter as she has trouble with each 1/8" increase in diameter. I am still working on the style, taper, etc. and we will see if 1/16" increases in diameter will work for her.
 

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haha, the look on a girl's face when she realizes it's a little bigger than she'd be 100% comfortable with is always priceless.

Baby I've had ALOT of sex, and I have yet to see one that scared me yet!! My face would probably look like that of a hungry tigeress, 100% comfortable with her prey.


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My wife now has a series of increasing diameter dildos for dilating her vagina so that she will be able to acommodate my girth.

How big are you? Any pics?

6.5" long x 6.25" girth, uncut. No pics. Seems weird to take pictures? Never one to show off, married, etc.

There are men with larger girths and women who don't have problems taking larger girths but we have had this problem for the 32+ years we have been together, we just didn't realize that girth was the issue, painful intercourse was attributed to other issues and thus a combination of circumstances meant that we didn't try to engage in penetrative sex very often, once or twice in a year or two years, which didn't help. She is still dealing with the problem of the expectation of pain, even when she has total control of dildo size and penetration strokes. She can get frustrated that it is taking so long and being anxious, sometimes tries too hard, dilating to the point that she gets sore and then she gets discouraged because she has to start over again, she tightens up pretty quickly. Patience. persistence, learning that it is possible to enjoy sex/lovemaking, learning to relax, acceptance of the role and need for foreplay and that it is OK to be sexual.

The odd thing, to us, in terms of penetrative sex is that when she started dilating her vagina a year and a half ago she also started to dilate her ass. She kept that secret until one morning she came to bed and asked if I wanted to try having anal sex with her, I didn't say no! She can take me in her ass if we take a bit of time, lots of lube and slow, shallow thrusts to start with, when she is completely relaxed I can pump into her for a half hour with slow or fast deep thrusts which she enjoys, she uses a vibrator on her clit and orgasms that way. I finally got to express to her a couple of nights ago that maybe her anal sex experience might help her understand how vaginal sex can be possible, I think she understood what I meant by that statement and didn't take offense.
 

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My wife has some problem with intial penetration also, we have purchased her a vibe thats about my size and use that to get her warmed up sometime.:cool:

I am 8 1/2" x 6", not that much girth but have a large head, and we have found lube to be a necessity upon entry and sometime during sex. She is able to take almost all of my length, but she gets sore and swells from the stretching, which sometimes makes a second round almost impossible.

She says the stretch is a good feeling and she don't mind a little soreness the next day, It reminds her of the sex. It turns me on when she tells me that!:wink:

Just my 2 cents, J