Ladies...question on dating and bjs

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by D_Johnny Schlepp, Feb 8, 2011.

  1. D_Johnny Schlepp

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    I was talking to a friend today and he was asking me how long it took for my previous gf to give me a blowjob. Well I asked him the same too. I got a bj after only date 2 when we came back to my pad. She didn't want to let me fuck her, I guess she didn't want me to think she was a ho. .y bud said that it took him like 2 months.

    .Y question is when do you ladies usually give a man you are dating a blowjob? - am pretty sure this may vary with different ages of women, but this is something I am rather curious about.
     
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    Once we start having sex, the bjs begin. For me - oral sex is a part of sex and not a separate issue.
     
  3. Daisy

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    There is no waiting period. It is what it is
     
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    Same here.
     
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    What seaside said ^
     
  6. molotovmuffin

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    What LeFemme and seaside said.
     
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    what mm, LaFemme and seaside said as well. BJs are sex. IF we decide to have sex with one another, it could be the first thing we do or it could be the last, or it could never happen if you don't keep your tools clean.
     
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    I'd probably give a BJ first -just cause it's fun for me - course I'd like it to lead to fucking. How long before it happens completely depends on how hot and sexy the guy is :wink:
     
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    It does vary

    but 2 months is way too long unless it is like the 2nd or third date.

    Please inform your friend that
     
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    What they all said :smile:
     
  11. D_Johnny Schlepp

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    @Pitbull

    His girl, whom he is still with felt the same way as most woman have stated on here. It is considered sex and may or may not happen before actual coitus.

    I was under the impression, and still am to an extent, that some women (18-25) usually see giving a blowjob as normal as kissing a man. But I know that on this site there is a lot of opportunity to hear from women from different ages and backgrounds, so that is the reason I posed the question. I am starting to think all girls (18-25) are hoes, because they are so quick to suck on a dick. At least in my city.
     
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    Same here
     
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