Seems that the ladies here get a bit tired of the "am I big threads".
Especially when posted on the "womens issues" section. That's all, they are really very nice. Oh, and, by the way, you look perfectly fine!
Like he said, try being nice, polite, and cool about everything.
If they like you, they will check out your pics and you will get your comments.
Otherwise, if you are an ass (not saying that you are, I don't know you), then they won't rate you at all or they will but they will just say what you want to hear and not the truth.