hello, i just wanted to get the ladies' opinions' with regards to my specific styles of cunnilingus, and just what exactly women prefer in terms of types of stimulation...
generally, and i am just referring to clitoral and g-spot simulation....
with regards to clitoral licking, there are really only 4 possible ways to go... vertically, horizontally, or circular clockwise and circular counter clockwise
I have yet to meet a woman who preferred the horizontal licking to the other three, but it seems that a great deal of the stimulation has to with a similar style to the way in which the woman stimulates the clitoris when she masturbates manually...
some woman rub it "vertically (up and down) and some go for the circular clockwise or circular counterclockwise...
1. so my first question, ladies, is what is your preference in that regards of those three choices of how to be licked, and does that parallel the way in which you stimulate the clitoris during masturbation...
2. much is made of finding the G-spot, and I love to think I am pretty good at locating it almost immediately because of good mapping and directional sense :wink:
most women tend to respond very well to the "come here" motion with the index or middle finger, (or both)
so question 2 is, do you prefer the "come here" motion, or is there another more secretive motion that I do not know about that you can inform me of.
there is a very particular motion that always seems to work instantaneously on women that is done by Shane Diesel in virtually all his videos, but i cannot make out what it is he is doing exactly. it is clear he is manually hitting the g spot, but he is using more of a full up/down motion, with his finger going from the bottom to the top as opposed to the "come here".
is anyone familiar with this, and can you say if it is possibly/probably a diffferent finger motion or if it is just the outward style that looks different... (i will try to find a Shane Diesel video to post of it)
3. I have developed (like any good artist) my own little trick which I find works amazingly well...I am sure others do it and if you don;t should try it...ladies you can suggest it to your man (or woman) ...I love to call it "the buzzer"
it is sort of a higher developed version of just vibrating your lower lip, to simulate a vibrator on the clit...however, you cannot get much speed and vibration the conventional way by just vibrating the lower lip, not to mention you cannot get your tongue past your lips to actually perform.
so here is my technique....pucker your lips as if you were going to give a kiss, then stick your tongue out, not too far past the edge of the lips. then, simply exhale very strongly the way you would do if you were child and when you'd try to stick your tongue out at someone and blow a raspberry...(the kind that makes a long sound like a spitting motorboat), now, if you can get by the silliness of the constant sound that you are making and your mate does not start laughing hysterically, simply place your mouth directly on the clitoris, and while making your ridiculous sounding but very effective motorboat vibrating lips and tongue, place the tongue directly on the clitoris, with the lips pursed to form a small "O" around the clitoris, then, and here is the tricky part, it helps to learn circular breathing which can be practiced and will keep up a constant supply of air so as not to break the vibration sensation...then, while doing the vibration, move the lips/tongue vibrator combo in either the vertical, or circular clockwise or counter clockwise motion, varrying speeds of the licking and the intensity of the vibration obviously as her reactions dictate.
seems to really drive them wild, and when you factor in the "come here" motion on the G-spot at the same time, they go a bit crazy, which is always pretty cool
:smile: :biggrin1: :smile:
I asked just about every girl I have performed on how she compared it to an actual vibrator in terms of stimulation, they said that (funny sound aside) the vibrating at its peak intensity compares very favorably to about the mid setting on a vibrator, but what made the difference was that instead of the plastic of a vibrator, there is a soft wet tongue and lips providing the stimulation, which really ratchets up the sensation more then a plastic vibrator, and feels similar to the clit stimulating-"ears" on the "Rampant Rabbit" vibrator.
give it a try...it takes practice but is well worth it...lots of giggling and laughing by the gal afterwards, which is always nice.
ladies thoughts on the "buzzer" and advice on my questions?
thanks!
generally, and i am just referring to clitoral and g-spot simulation....
with regards to clitoral licking, there are really only 4 possible ways to go... vertically, horizontally, or circular clockwise and circular counter clockwise
I have yet to meet a woman who preferred the horizontal licking to the other three, but it seems that a great deal of the stimulation has to with a similar style to the way in which the woman stimulates the clitoris when she masturbates manually...
some woman rub it "vertically (up and down) and some go for the circular clockwise or circular counterclockwise...
1. so my first question, ladies, is what is your preference in that regards of those three choices of how to be licked, and does that parallel the way in which you stimulate the clitoris during masturbation...
2. much is made of finding the G-spot, and I love to think I am pretty good at locating it almost immediately because of good mapping and directional sense :wink:
most women tend to respond very well to the "come here" motion with the index or middle finger, (or both)
so question 2 is, do you prefer the "come here" motion, or is there another more secretive motion that I do not know about that you can inform me of.
there is a very particular motion that always seems to work instantaneously on women that is done by Shane Diesel in virtually all his videos, but i cannot make out what it is he is doing exactly. it is clear he is manually hitting the g spot, but he is using more of a full up/down motion, with his finger going from the bottom to the top as opposed to the "come here".
is anyone familiar with this, and can you say if it is possibly/probably a diffferent finger motion or if it is just the outward style that looks different... (i will try to find a Shane Diesel video to post of it)
3. I have developed (like any good artist) my own little trick which I find works amazingly well...I am sure others do it and if you don;t should try it...ladies you can suggest it to your man (or woman) ...I love to call it "the buzzer"
it is sort of a higher developed version of just vibrating your lower lip, to simulate a vibrator on the clit...however, you cannot get much speed and vibration the conventional way by just vibrating the lower lip, not to mention you cannot get your tongue past your lips to actually perform.
so here is my technique....pucker your lips as if you were going to give a kiss, then stick your tongue out, not too far past the edge of the lips. then, simply exhale very strongly the way you would do if you were child and when you'd try to stick your tongue out at someone and blow a raspberry...(the kind that makes a long sound like a spitting motorboat), now, if you can get by the silliness of the constant sound that you are making and your mate does not start laughing hysterically, simply place your mouth directly on the clitoris, and while making your ridiculous sounding but very effective motorboat vibrating lips and tongue, place the tongue directly on the clitoris, with the lips pursed to form a small "O" around the clitoris, then, and here is the tricky part, it helps to learn circular breathing which can be practiced and will keep up a constant supply of air so as not to break the vibration sensation...then, while doing the vibration, move the lips/tongue vibrator combo in either the vertical, or circular clockwise or counter clockwise motion, varrying speeds of the licking and the intensity of the vibration obviously as her reactions dictate.
seems to really drive them wild, and when you factor in the "come here" motion on the G-spot at the same time, they go a bit crazy, which is always pretty cool
:smile: :biggrin1: :smile:
I asked just about every girl I have performed on how she compared it to an actual vibrator in terms of stimulation, they said that (funny sound aside) the vibrating at its peak intensity compares very favorably to about the mid setting on a vibrator, but what made the difference was that instead of the plastic of a vibrator, there is a soft wet tongue and lips providing the stimulation, which really ratchets up the sensation more then a plastic vibrator, and feels similar to the clit stimulating-"ears" on the "Rampant Rabbit" vibrator.
give it a try...it takes practice but is well worth it...lots of giggling and laughing by the gal afterwards, which is always nice.
ladies thoughts on the "buzzer" and advice on my questions?
thanks!