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  1. dolfette

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    if you wanted to educate a young guy in the arts of love, so that the first time he's let lose on a girl he rocks her world instead of pissing her off, what would you recommend?

    books, DVDs, websites, anything.

    what would be the best study material to help him?
    the stuff that really works from the female point of view?

    share your knowledge, for the good of our sisters!
     
  2. hsarge

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    The best thing that can happen to a young man is a patient instructive older woman. in fact it should be a requirement.
     
  3. dolfette

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    :rolleyes:
    and also :rolleyes:
     
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    i agree with this. when i was around 18 i had sex with a "mature" woman. she was very patient and helped calm my nerves. i was all worked up haha
     
  5. dolfette

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    i wasn't asking for you wankers' happy shag memories.
    i was asking the ladies if they know any good guides.
     
  6. ManlyBanisters

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    Can I assume this for someone you aren't going to shag yourself?
     
  7. dolfette

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    me? have sex?
    perish the thought!

    no, this is not for personal use.
     
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    Assuming he is looking to have sex with a woman, I would recommend reading this. Especially the "About Orgasms" part for starters. While everything written may not pertain to every woman it would give him a better understanding of some of us.

    Female Orgasm | SexInfo101.com

    Remember women in porn are paid to have sex, main stream porn in my opinion isn't filmed for the pleasure of the participants, but the viewers. So it's about as informative as saying tab A fits into slot B and now everyone's happy.
     
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    befriend a lesbian. :smile:
     
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    I vote for Nina Heartly's (spl?) "How to eat Pussy".

    You can down load this highly instructional, awesome "How to" clip from any free porn site...Redtube, Porn Hub..etc....

    Seriously I've yet to met a man (of any age ) who didn't learn something from watching it and for a young guy it would be fantastic for him to get this technique right early in his sexual life.
     
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    lol... and how a young guy like me look out for women like this who would be willing to teach me how to pleasure her to the fullest? ;)

    I'll be keeping an eye on this thread for sure.

    Laidey, thanks for the share! It seems really informative, but I had to google some of the terms to try and understand what they were trying to describe, but overall it seems pretty in-depth.

    Dragonfly, sorry I didn't see your post. I'll really have to look into that, it's something that I think will reinforce what Laidey's link suggests.
     
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    Cougar bar?
     
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    I saw a video by Nina Hartley. It was quite honest and open. In it she said that in her personal life, she prefers an average size penis and not over 7". if she was going to be sore, she wanted to be paid, I guess. She explained that even a thin penis can cause pleasure if the man uses the proper 'attack angles' in order to cause friction. She talked about coming down more vertically in missionary in order to involve the clit hood. She did the same for other positions. She definitely was not a'porn star' in her comments. Rather she acted like a friend giving advice. She came across as quite a nice person
     
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    Oh, if there are more by her than I'll definitely have to look up her videos. I would like to certain accomodate techniques to make up for size!
     
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    All of Nina Hartley's guides are awesome. I haven't seen them all, but what I've seen and what I've skimmed through are all good.

    Same goes with Tristan Taormino's guides. Top noth, not clinical, graphic, honest.

    Oh, and last but not least, all my backposts. I know, I know, I'm the humblest person I know!

    Or do what I did and marry a lesbian. :biggrin1:
     
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    This is an awesome video, I remember watching it thrice or so, intently, a few years back. Highly recommended!
     
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    Does any one know if there are downloads of her videos, or will I just have to stream it? I want to take a look at the videos at my own leisure, but my laptop loads streaming videos very slowly and by the time I can watch the video without waiting for it to buffer, practically all my free time will be used up... No exaggeration. :p
     
  18. dolfette

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    i think realplayer has thing to let you download.
    every vid clip i watch i get a realplayer box asking if i want to.
     
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    I need a premium account to download videos on that site :frown1: Thank you for the direct link, though!

    dolfette, I used to have realplayer and I remember seeing that option on videos, but I could never get it to work. I've gotten rid of it a couple years ago, though, so it might have been updated or something.
     
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