Ladies, tell me your opinion on shaft hair.

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  1. erqwa

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    I've heard girls say they can't stand it, I've heard others say it provides a strange but welcome contrast to the pure pleasure.

    What do you think?
     
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    Shave it or keep it trimmed.....or enjoy masturbation, cuz you wouldn't be getting any blow jobs :)
     
  3. erqwa

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    Most of them aren't worth the time they take, really. But, I mean vaginally. How does it feel?
     
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    a blow job from me is totally worth it!!

    to the OP - i have no clue. my boyfriend is a very groomed young person. how much hair are you talking about? full bush more than a quarter up the length? hair seems like it would be more irritating than interesting, for both people. you would lose so much skin on skin contact.

    if you use them, don't condoms roll back and pull the hair?

    personal preference: shaved balls. trimmed pubes treasure trail intact. no hair on the shaft. i keep me nice and neat, my boy should put in some effort. at the very least tame the stragglers.

    ML
     
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    I find it somewhat visually distracting, which is funny because I'm hairy as heck myself and generally like my guys completely natural - chest, belly, balls, pubes, etc. intact. For whatever reason, shaft hair is less than ideal for me - but on the right guy, I'm sure I could find it sexy, and I certainly wouldn't ask someone to shave unless they wanted to. That said, I've found it on a minority of the guys that I've been naked with. How common is it?
     
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    I don't mean like far up the shaft. Just closer to the base.
     
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    Eeeeww, gross! :yuck: There should be no hair on the shaft. Do what you have to do to get rid of it. :cool:
     
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    so we're not talking a chia-pet fro, just some mild fringing at the base? i would still prefer cleaned up and manicured. if i was attracted to the guy i wouldn't girl out over a little bit of odd hair. i would leave hinting lil post it notes on a razor in the shower.

    still have the question about condoms, doesn't roll down hurt?

    ML
     
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    Not for me, I can't speak for everyone though.
     
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    Why do people ask this kind of question and provide no pics? It's just not fair and makes the advice all speculation and personal preference.

    That said, Trimmed is best. I don't like a full bush if it goes up the shaft, but a bit on the shaft at the base is fine. Totally shaved is sexy to look at but i actually like the feel of hair down there. at least a little. I think it holds in the moisture and makes the ride smoother
     
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    Shaft hair? Do. NOT. Want. No thanks. If your penis is huge, and the hairy part isn't going to get inside me, keep the hair, I don't find it unattractive. I don' want to feel it though. I also do not want to feel any stubble.
     
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    I'd rather feel hair than stubble, which is part of why I think trimming is better than shaving. With shaving there is often stubble which is downright unpleasant. With trimming the hair is a little longer and doesn't poke. But, in general I don't mind a little hair down there.
     
  13. No_Strings

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    Hair grows about a inch up the base of my shaft. I don't shave it, but choose to pluck them instead. Eliminates stubble and they take much longer to grow back, though it is somewhat of a constant process. (At this point, the act of 'purging' myself by plucking these hairs has become almost therapeutic.)
    Though, my frenulum is fairly tight, so when I'm erect the underside my shaft at the base is basically scrotal skin and hairs are found further up - hard to explain without showing it.


    I've never had any complaints about it, but this thread makes me feel like a leper.
     
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    Remove is and keep the rest of the hair trimmed back.
     
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    I don't like shaft hair, I like to floss my teeth, but not during a blow job.
     
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    Lmao, I have braces and hair is impossible to get out from teeth then brackets.
     
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    :D Deep, hmm? ;)
     
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    Never been a problem for me, but I do prefer "bushes" to be trimmed and tamed. I'm shaved/waxed everywhere (no, I do NOT look like a "little girl"), but I prefer men to have hair.

    My advice is this: Don't agonize over it. Go with the flow of whoever you're with because everyone is different. :wink:
     
  19. javyn

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    I trim it because when it gets too long it tickels my balls while I'm sitting down.
     
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    Absolutely, that's what led to my keeping my cock and balls smooth. I spent most of my adult life married and neither of my wives complained about the hair. But I'd always make sure, with tongue and fingers, that they were plenty wet before penetration and my genital hairs are relatively fine. But after my 2nd (and last!) divorce I started using condoms and some level of trimming/shaving became a necessity.
    I had to go way back in my archives to find one but here it is for you, Honey.
     

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