g spot?
clit?
nipples?
all three?
not at all?
kissing?
sitting on a bike?
i can only O via clit.
nipple stimulation speeds things.
i like vibes but fingers work ok too.
and i only orgasm solo.
you?
Clit, g-spot and anal, though sometimes anal needs some clit stim to push me over the edge. For years it was mainly clit and solo was easier (well, quicker) for no other reason than I didn't want whoever I with to think I was just wanking myself off and his/her presence was superfluous. Oral was sometimes an exception - but, though I always loved it, I couldn't always cum from it - or rather, it seems it often would have taken longer than the other person was prepared to give me. Making myself cum from clitoral stimulation is also quicker than having someone else do it because I know exactly when and how to change pressure, speed, etc. to make myself cum. I'm pretty sure guys feel the same way about hand-jobs.
A while back (10 years or so) I started playing with toys more and learned how to cum from penetration. I used to need to bring myself, have my partner bring me, near orgasm with clit stimulation and then I could finish with just penetration. As I've gotten more used to recognising the build up to a vaginal orgasm I don't need the clit stim any more.
These days I'm spoiled because my boyfriend has what appears to be the perfect shape and girth of cock for my cunt. That and he knows how to fuck me - not just how to fuck, but how to fuck
me. He pays attention to what makes me gasp and does it again and again. I orgasm very easily from sex with him.
Anal is a great orgasm - I can't explain it to anyone who hasn't had it anymore than I can adequately explain an ecstasy rush to someone who hasn't dropped one. The best I can do is say it's like a vaginal orgasm but deeper and less localised - almost like a full body orgasm.
Nipples? Orgasm? Never. I like having my nipples stimulated but I don't believe I could orgasm from that alone.
I couldn't say which is my favourite orgasm because all three are so different and I love them all - I will say that all three together is fucking amazing. It doesn't happen very often but when it does, oh boy!
Clit. Vibes are cool, but can numb the area after awhile, so I prefer fingers. A little anal stimulation doesn't hurt. I have had several instances where I have cum w/out touching myself at all.... images, both visual & mental have done it for me. That's always fascinating.
I can get very, very near orgasm with thought alone - but I need a little physical contact (clit's easiest) to actually orgasm. It takes 10 to 30 minutes of really concentrating on a fantasy to get me there. Not watching porn nor reading erotica but my own invented fantasy.
well if you dont mind, i'd like to ask the ladies what kind of clit stimulation you prefer? fingers tongue? soft hard? i wonder if we're all so different that when a guy learns how to do it to a girl does he just do it like that to us all?
xx
That would depend a great deal on the guy - yes, I've been with some guys who say stuff like 'This will make you cum!" and then do something that I can tell is never going to make me cum - that's frustrating. I think girls probably do that to guys too though. Which is silly - everyone is different, we all have different triggers and responses - the best lover is the person who concentrates on reading the responses of their partner as they happen.
To answer your first question - I like soft pressure building to hard, but not too hard - but then sometimes soft pressure all the way through leads to a slower, deeper, dizzying orgasm. From myself, I like fingers on clit, not toys - from him, I love his tongue and lips on my clit. And if he has a little stubble and that happens to gently graze my clit, well that's almost too good to bear.
Mmmm, orgasms :smile:
