LADIES: think about the guy who was best with his hands..and tell me what he did

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  1. kd88

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    My girlfriend said I was the best at sex shes ever been with. But she said a guy back in high school was amazing with his hands. I want to be the best shes had in all categories and most of all i want to be able to give her the most pleasure she's ever felt n all areas of sex. So please help... Thanks
     
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    its hard to explain, but someone who's hand expertly move on my body, inside and outside. Are both gentle and hard...it's a balance. A guy who makes me quiver by touching me. Someone who has big hands, bigger than my own, but can get his hand up inside me and reach my g-spot and/or fist me too. I love it when a guy uses his hands while eating my pussy too.
     
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    Ask her what he did or what she likes. Only she can say what will feel good to her.
     
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    A guy that knows how to work my g-spot with his fingers....without me having to guide him..awesome..

    But when I guide him and he catches on quickly that's great too :)

    I hate it when a guy just rubs along my clit with his fingers..and presses too hard or is too rough with it like they see in porn.

    Next the way he caresses my body with his hands and mouth. Alternating between rough and loving/gentle. There aren't many men good with their hands you know..it takes patience and ability to listen to a woman...and many don't have that..

    I find that guys who are really confident and are really into a woman's body, like they adore it or something have been the best at it.

    OP: Don't force yourself to be the best in this and that.. You are the one she's with now and if your actions on her body are full of love and passion..then who cares.

    I have had a guy who has been the best at kissing my neck..my GOD never met a man that will ever kiss me like that I believe..but that guy has never gotten my love either. So great memory..but that's all it is.

    I have also had a guy who was absolutely amazing eating me out.,..My goodness..triple A that man..I never thought i would be able to enjoy being eaten out like that before.. never met a man who was able to top that, but nevertheless have enjoyed the actions of the ones I cared for a lot. He wasn't too good at fucking though..

    So we can't all be the best at everything. I betcha even my gorgeous pornstar Manuel Ferrara (awesome that man)..has got his bad points.. I bet.. (atleast i hope so ;-) haha)..God he is so awesome that man..but I am digressing..

    Just do what you do with the love and passion inside of you..and that energy will make about everything you do awesome..listen and learn along the way..
     
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    communicate with her,have good sex
     
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    The man who was the best with his hands used them to touch my body before the clothes even came off. He deliberately did not touch my 'parts', but just caressed me in an awesome makeout session before anything happened.
     
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    Thanks for the responses. When I said best with his hands I meant, best with fingering.. I asked her and she said she couldn't remember exactly what he did but he played with her clit and fingered her at the same time. I asked for more detail but she said that's all she remembered. So I guess I'm asking for any specific techniques that you girls really enjoy.
     
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    Maybe you forget that most of us are laying on our belly or back and not really paying attention to where he puts his finger and so on unless it hurts..for me..I can only say I remember how it made me feel when it was done right....but that's different for every woman.

    Go on a pussy discovery with her and listen to what she likes..but don't make it too technical--that's such a turnoff..
     
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    Guys who adore women and their bodies tend to make the best lovers overall - at least in my experience. So adore her - every inch, every taste, every smell, sensation and sound.... when you really listen and adore - your hands will find their way.
     
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    I like everything about sex to be rough and hard. That's not going to work for everyone. In fact, I suspect it would work for very few women. So if you tried the techniques I enjoy, sure she might like it, but you might just end up with a mightily unimpressed girlfriend.

    Really truly, the best way to find what works for her, is to experiment with HER (as you've already asked her). Try using your hands and fingers in different ways, and watch how her body responds. If she responds particularly well to something in particular, up the ante a bit.
     
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    Is it a turn off to be experimented on?

    EmJay, what do you mean by "too technical?"
     
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    I have found that my thumb on her clit, my pointer finger aside, and my middle finger rubbing her G spot is the most dependable. Maybe not for all women but for most women.

    I read that the female human is the only mammal with an appendage devoted solely to sex, the clitoris.
     
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