Ladies, what do you think about a guy being cucked?

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  1. Jonari

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    Just needed to vent, wouldn't you ladies agree, they are the most pathetic individuals to walk this planet? I mean who in their right mind would be ok, with their wives having sex with other men and bow down to their services to pleasure their male counterparts in homosexual activities, which are screwing their wives? Why would men lower their confidence and self-ego by doing such a thing. I mean, they can't even have sex with other ladies, whereas the women can have her body like a vacuum and have all 3 holes filled up. On the other hand, men have to have their penises and in some weird contracting plastic device. Fucking get a divorce. I think I just have an hatred toward men that can't stand up for themselves.

    Last night, my friend's girlfriend asked me if I'd be willing to do the deed for her boyfriend, and he'd watch, cook us dinner, and we can repeat. Saying this right next to her boyfriend, who just looked at me as a deer in headlights I said no, out of respect for my friend, so she went around the party and started telling people I was gay and had a small penis. :confused:

    Btw, Merry Christmas ladies, hope you all had a good one.
     
  2. snoozan

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    i don't really understand the psychology of it for me and it's not something i'd get involved with. there are people who are very into it, though, and that's their choice. i can't say, though, that i don't question the health of the motivation to be involved in such a relationship.
     
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    Its just a fetish... swinging, group sex, 3 somes etc... i'm not married and i dont intend to anytime soon. I am however into that kind of porn. Having husbands swap their wives etc.. it just turns me on. Just the idea of someone else with your wife and you with theirs. If partners agrees with it wth... lol i dont know if i'll ever do it with my wife though. Like i said its just a fetish/fantacy. I'll never truely know till i get married.
     
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    I don't like the blatant cuckolding stuff, too S/M-ish for me. I don't like any kind of abusiveness, it turns me off. BUT... in a strictly fantasy realm, somehow it has the opposite effect on me to see imaginary portrayals of women finding bigger dicked men sexually superior and more desirable than their own more average or smaller partners. It accentuates/validates the whole mythology surrounding the power and attractiveness of the big cock.

    Stories or films or videos of a couple finding themselves in a playful, exploratory situation with a 2nd male, where the outside or "satellite" lover turns out to be hung huge compared to the primary boyfriend or husband, and the woman just can't help herself and goes gaga over the more hung dude, are the hottest of all to me. I don't like the smaller-dicked character to be in any way abused, verbally or emotionally. In fact, I prefer him to continue to be loved by the female character, but to see her separate sex from love and find the hung character's appeal so overwhelming that she not only can't stop herself from favoring him, but will see him again and again after the encounter. I like a win/win/win situation.

    In my ideal FANTASY scenario, the main male character is initially jealous and envious, but as the woman enthusiastically goes for it right in front of him, is suprised to find himself not only accepting of the situation, but totally unthreatened and helplessly but deliriously turned on by it. Eventually, he gets to get his bi ya-ya's off with the hung dude, primarily in the role of doing what every gay and bi man wants to do--suck the Big One. It is a liberating experience.

    This storyline's got everything a male who is both voyeuristic and accepts his bi side could want: vicarious enjoyment of the female's fun, vicarious enjoyment of the other male's fun, direct satisfaction from the female, and direct satisfaction from the male. Again, I emphasize, it's a fun FANTASY for me, not a reality, and I only like the very soft version, not any putting down of the main male character.

    I do think one reason a lot of men find this kind of fantasy enjoyable is because they want to get off on big dicks and yet have to somehow deal with processing the fact that they themselves are not big. I think men watching porn with hung actors either identify with the big dicked dudes and imagine themselves in their roles, or find that impossible or less desirable than imagining themselves somehow having access to the big dick through situations like the one described. Cuckolding is an extreme case.
     
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    I have the same fantasy as deviant...but fantasy only!
     
  6. rob_just_rob

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    For people who like this fantasy, it's usually just that - a fantasy, nothing more. For those who make the fantasy a reality... so long as it's consensual, nobody is getting hurt. No reason to harbour hate for those who are turned on by it.

    Obviously there are hundreds of millions of people who cheat on their spouses. I can't see this as being worse.
     
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    Some people enjoy this kind of humiliation; it often goes along with the "tiny-cock" mentality in which you accept and pursue a state of servitude and inferiority to your spouse rather than equality; those which do such things are oft confident in themselves in all other aspects of life and crave humility by this other person.
     
  8. espreggels

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    It's a fetish. By definition it defies rational explanation. I don't care for it myself either, but hey, it takes all kinds. As long as they're not hurting anyone, what's the harm?
     
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    If you don't like it.. then you don't have to do it.. does that make sense to you? Good... now don't be judgmental about something you clearly don't understand and stop be-rating people. Who are you to dictate what peoples fetishes are.
     
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    It's hard to tell with these threads, if the person posting is serious, or a cuckold themselves, and just looking for more humiliation.

    LoL

    Its funny, but true.
     
  11. Sirus38

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    I don't get why they like to be humiliated but as long as it isn't hurting anyone and everyone is consenting then we shouldn't judge and give them a hard time if we disagree with it. Instead maybe we should try and persuade them to see it through our eyes.
     
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    Ive become quite good friends with a cuckold via this site and there is nothing pathetic about him at all. He is a extremly respectful and intelligent guy who doesn't judge or insult anybody on what they do.

    If you dont like the idea of being a cuckold for your friend that is your choice but it doesn't give you the right to generalize and judge others based on what they do harmlessly within their own houses and bedrooms
     
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    i don't get it either.
     
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    Suggestion: consider thinking of a variation of cuckolding, where instead of humiliation, the main male character is average or somewhat above average in endowment, very successful in his business and personal lives, etc. In fact, he feels very confident and secure and would never stoop to being humiliated in any way. He's an athlete, an internationally acclaimed artist, in the top tax bracket, etc. etc. etc. Yet he is amazed, wowed, and even turned on by the sight of a ten-inch cock. He has a huge ego in every way but then...WHAM! The giant penis reminds him of the fact that he is not the biggest, best, etc. in EVERY department.

    This describes ME in my early 20s. When I finally had to face the fact that there was a quality I could not achieve, that you had to be born with, it really fucked with my mind! But it was essentially good for me, it brought me back to earth. How did I deal with it? When an ex-gf who had dumped me a year earlier came back and told me about a bf she had been with in the interim who "shocked" her when she saw how hugely thick his cock was, something inside me said, "If you can't beat 'em, enjoy 'em." The scene of her having sex with him and enjoying it in ways I couldn't provide simply sent me into a state of ecstatic multiple orgasms when I went up to bed and jacked off about five times in a row. It made for an incredibly surprising "story."

    By doing this, I essentially gained a victory over the big dick. It was now mine to enjoy as I liked. It no longer posed a threat. On some level, I suspect the cuckolded male feels the same way. Outwardly he is putting on an act of submission and humiliation. Internally he is getting to experience the power and thrill of the big cock in a modified form of heterosexuality or bisexuality...

    Years later, when I ran across a couple of pornographic short stories with a slightly cuckoldish theme, I was amazed at how hot they struck me. They seemed so fantastic, literally. I mean, so fantasy-like. The ex-boyfriend drops in one night on an unexpecting couple who have been married for 10 years and as they visit, the ex suddenly explains to the husband that he just thought he would come by and have sex with her again, and show him how turned on she always got by his 13-inch cock... Much to the hubbie's surprise, the wife drops to her knees and obliges the old bf, completely bowled over by the irresistable sight of his huge penis. It's preposterous, yet it transports me into a completely unreal alternative reality which is great fun, a mental excursion into escapism that can't compare to any more reasonable or realistic scene, and affirms the power of the myth of the supremity of the big cock.

    Of course, if some guy actually showed up here and did that, I can't imagine not asking him to leave immediately! Maybe at an earlier age, under the influence of marijuana, I might have entertained the thought... but even then, I had trouble being that "liberated."
     
  15. IntoxicatingToxin

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    Let me start by saying that I have no idea how the term "cuckold" even came to mean what it means today. It's original meaning didn't really have anything to do with that. Let me also say that cuckolding, in todays definition, is just married men whose wives have sex with other men. It has nothing to do with S/M, SPH, or any kind of humiliation, really. That's a whole different ballgame. I, personally, couldn't be with another man while married. I don't see what is arousing about it, but if they like it and it works for them, then so be it. Who am I to give a shit? If a man gets turned on by watching his wife fuck another man, then he's not exactly a man who "can't stand up for himself". He's obviously doing what he likes. Now, if his wife is just a bitch and is cheating on him and telling him all about it, then yes, he's a dumbass for staying. But that's not the same thing.
     
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    I think the whole phenomenon is fascinating. I hate to just write it off and not try to understand it. To me, the fun part, and highly appropriate for this website focusing on large penis support, is analyzing and appreciating what some of the underlying implications are. It's ironic that you have that great quote from Hitler about people not thinking, and then say it has nothing to do with all these things that it definitely DOES have something to do with.

    I love to turn the ideas surrounding this over and over in my head and gain a deeper understanding of it. Just think about how well these practices and behaviors highlight and underscore and intensify and add to the fun of recognizing the differences between the experiences of men who are well-hung and those who are average or small, as well as the experiences of the women who are conscious of cock size and like to play out various interactive scenarios that emphasize it.
     
  17. Not_Punny

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    My s/o is significantly above average in size. He is successful in business and very good looking. He is also quite adventurous about sex, and one thing he likes is "live porn." (And NO, it's not a cuckold situation at all. MFMs and voyeur sex aren't necessarily cuckold-oriented.)

    I'm more of a "real girl" in that I need to be mentally/emotionally engaged to have sex. I also prefer one on one sex. Therefore, we don't do "live porn" very often.

    Anyway, long story made long, one of his fantasies is to see me struggle with a really, really big one...

    But I honestly don't think I could manage it. :eek:
     
  18. Sirus38

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    What Hotmilfs husband fantasies about sounds Hot! well as long as everyone enjoys of course
     
  19. Principessa

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    It's not my thing I would never willingly be a part of a cuckold situation. I have little to no respect for the men and women who enjoy it.

    I agree.

    LOL Why on earth would I want to waste my time doing that? Next thing you know you'll be telling gays to help us straights see the error of our ways. :tongue::rolleyes::confused:
     
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    Thank you, Lee_M!
    As Lee has so eloquently said,you don't have to do it,but you don't have the right to generalize about anyone else's likes,dislikes or behavior.
    It certainly doesn't make these guys, any less of a man.
    cigarbabe:saevil:
     
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