I'll try to make this brief but factual. a young lady I know and like, recently got a boob job. she did not go the big boob route, they fit her height, body build etc. altho I have not seen them au natural, it appears the surgery was well done. before she had this done, I would pick up on lit bits of info in little things she would say that made me conclude she was sensitive about her small breast size. she would make self deprecrating remarks. anyway, she has the surgery & heals up fine, and I heard her say she was worried about making the payments on the new "twins". a few weeks go by, and suddenly she is dating a young man she knew before the surgery, but they never dated before the surgery. then a friend tells me, that the young man paid for the boob job. now they are seeing each other, and I'm sure they are intimate. that's reallly none of my business. my question is do you think she gained any self esteem? or did she give "it" away since the guy laid out the cash for her boob job. in crassier terms, did she in a way "pro" herself to get her new boobs paid for?