Ladies, What Makes You Adventurous Lovers?

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  1. B_HallWildcat

    B_HallWildcat New Member

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    So in my quest to try to understand women better here is another question for you ladies to hopefully help me out. My lady is a bit unpredictable, at times we have the most passionate and adventurous sex, in some crazy places, and other times she isn't even willing to kiss me in public because she feels like everyone's watching. The hard part is that this attitude can change at the drop of a hat. She's not bipolar or anything, but it's just hard for me to follow sometimes, or know what to expect.

    Sometimes we'll be in a situation where I may think, "Oh I should make a move right here and now" and she's giving me the right signs, but then all of a sudden, she does a complete 180 on me. i dunno, its hard to predict. She can be one of the sexiest most adventurous lovers around, (she once gave me head on a southwest airlines flight, not even in the bathroom, but in my seat!)

    Is this my problem, could it just be that I'm not sensitive enough to her needs or whatever. I understand that she's obviously not always going to want to be adventurous, but its just so hard to predict, and her mood can just change so fast. I'm a bit lost here, and I'd love some input from you smart women. Thanks!
     
  2. OPPinSLC

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    Sorry, I'm not a woman, but I'm in a similar situation myself. My girlfriend (we've been together for couple of years) is a bit like yours. The only advise I can give you is to hang on and enjoy the ride. Don't try to understand it, just live it and love it.
     
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    who can say about one person why they do or dont do anything?

    I love public stuff, I pretty much will suck a guy off anywhere despite disapproval from passers by or bystanders or captive audience. Usually in situations where thre is some reluctance it's coming from the bloke himsef not me cos he thinks there are 'too many people around' or 'we might get in trouble' I have freaked many a bloke out by sucking him off in public places tho I have never done it on a flight because I have never travelled with a bf and the old porn situation of being stuck next to a guy and such stuff happening never happens to me. I am not sure how people react on planes if they see it happening.

    I do it in lots of other places and have had ever reaction from anger to wow to guys asking if they can have some too. All depends who's passing by, I have no limits myself but guys get real nervy.

    I also sometimes am not in the mood but push myself but I havent meta man who wants it when i dont want to do it you best bet is to simply ASK her and talk bout it
     
  4. wldhoney

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    More than likely it's hormonal. Much depends on where a woman is during her ovulation cycle thru out the month and how she is reacting thru the different hormones that are always going thru her body at any given time.

    It's kind of like the "I don't want to talk about it!". Five minutes later...."We never talk about it!". :rolleyes:

    Some women are more sensitive to the hormones. I tend to be pretty easy going, but about every third month I am going crazy like a bunny ALL month. We get impulses to grab you, touch you, kiss you. Then common sense kicks in and we realize people can SEE us. (Which has it's exciting moments....:biggrin1:)

    I find that getting a good spanking will usually straighten me out fairly quickly....:eek::tongue: (I do NOT suggest you go home and try this on your woman.....that's just me!)
     
  5. Principessa

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    wldhoney, we have way too much in common I am the same way.:tongue:
     
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    ready made fucking horny TK
     
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    Hahaha come on down.
     
  9. Love-it

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    Wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, I bet you're still ready, willing and able, but my poor eye lid is getting tired!
     
  10. wldhoney

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    Laugh.....Yes! We are naught girls!!! :biggrin1:

    I'm a bunny right around the time I ovulate until about a week before my period. Then the every 3 months or so thing, I swear it's the whole month and I can NOT get enough. That has started up and become stronger as I have entered my thirties. Yeesh. I'm getting nervous that it will keep getting worse. :rolleyes:
     
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    **gasses up car, grabs rubbers, & hightails it for Canada!**
    To hell with the border- I'm barreling through to imbibe on that horny mixture there, TK!
     
  12. D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah

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    I guess the profound difference is that men see sex as a way of forgetting about problems and dramas where as us women usually need to get rid of the problems and dramas before our mind is clear enough to have/enjoy sex. Id say thats whats happening with your lady, one time her mind is clear the next she is thinking of 1000 things yet she is still going through the same physical motions, and thats what your seeing which isnt your fault but very confusing for you. Us women just let to many outside things influence our hormones and sex drive, its when our minds are clear that we let go.

    My personal favourite is a hand job or blow job in the back of a taxi
     
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    I'm waiting...
     
  14. TheRob

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    if it does call me lol
    (or PM me I should say)
     
  15. The Dragon

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    Oh the bliss of being bent over his knee, two fingers inside me, and my bottom being spanked so hard it glows like a stop light!!!!!!
    Sigh!!!!!
    Yes!! YYEESSSSS!! I've bee a verrrryyyy bad girl!!!!
    Dragonfly!!!
     
  16. khaun

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    i have long since given up trying to figure it out. Just go with it. The second any guy figures out this question and others like it, it will be all over the news and at your local bookstore.
     
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