Ladies, what should we (men) do when your orgasm starts?

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If it ain't broke don't fix it
if she's already having any orgasm when y'all are making love why would you do anything different during the orgasm
Well, that's why I created this thread; to dissect this topic in further details. The point was to have users share their experience because what works for someone might work for others. It can also give other ideas to try in bed, either the same technique or maybe change it up a bit according to her liking.
I'm literally rolling on the floor.

I really have no issues with you trying to score some involuntary literotica on LPSG, but God dude, be subtle about it. B+ for balls, but a big ol' F for effort.

I find this way to inappropriately funny.
I wasn't trying to score some lit-erotica. I was trying to help you, other males, and myself become better in bed with women.

Thanks for your opinion.
Lol. Seriously????????

You got her there didn't you? Keep doing what you're doing. Better yet, join her

That's is why I made this thread, to see if there are other things I can do to make it better instead of just keep pounding her.
 

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Yes, for God's sake don't ask her at that moment or she'll get pissed. Pay attention to her sexual response and go with it. Lovemaking is much more of an art than a science.
Of course it is better not to ask at the moment of orgasm. It is something that is better discussed before hand or can just be a trial & error situation.

do the dishes.
Would you still be able to have an orgasm while your partner is doing the dishes and having sex with you? If yes and the sound of dishes doesn't distract you, then I would consider buying a dish washer so your partners can have both hands focusing on your body giving you even more pleasure.

I don't have orgasms from penetration so I can't tell you what I'd like my man to do. I say just keep doing what you did to get her there in the first place.
May I ask how you get your orgasms? Self stimulation?
 

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*ponders* keep doing what ya doing is a safe bet.
if she wants you to stop she'll do something like grab your ass/wrap her legs around you tight to keep ya deep.

personally.. if i want my partner to change up the game at orgasm i'm pretty damn up front about it. after that is all getting familiar with each other sexual response/tastes.

to folks always curious about what ya partner likes.. flirting/fantasy play/communication of the talk fuck variety. folks get turned on talking about sex *well some to most* take advantage of verbal exploration to map out ya&their pervy interests.
I agree with the keep doing what you're doing being a safe bet; better she gets her orgasm then to have it interrupted when you try to be cool and try something new.

Dirty verbal about fucking usually turn on most of the girls I've been with. Plus, it would be kind of awkward if she doesn't reply back.

MrsR does this a lot and sometimes grinds back when I'm perfectly still. When her orgasm starts subsiding and lets me go I like keeping her peaking by slowly rocking in and out of her deepspot or long pounding strokes when she least expects it.

Gives her an immediate follow up orgasm before the previous one ends. This is what I fondly call an orga-orga-orgasm.
Nice! What position works best for you?

14 x 9 uncut- maybe in centimeters
The internet adds an additional 9x5 inch. 5x4 is what he had before the internet.
 

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Let me help everyone else understand the point of this thread. I'm trying to un-broaden this topic by focusing on specific details that I think are important for the male's knowledge. It's nice to have the "I don't get a fuck" attitude since that's what some women like, but use it only to get the women in bed with you, not during sex. We can't just be like, "well at least I gave her an orgasm." Also someone stated already, attentive needs to be of great important during sex. Watch and understand the response to improve for next time. I'm sorry if this topic requires thinking skills. Maybe this is too in depth for some people and that's fine. It's up to you if you want to keep learning.

Here's an analogy: An auto mechanic / automotive engineer knows what exactly is happening when he/she is driving a vehicle. He/she knows how the engine works and that a little tweak here will cause a big impact; pretty much knowing the vehicle in and out. Now a normal buy/driver will just drive the vehicle from point A to point B. As long as the vehicle takes him/her there, he/she is satisfied. It's just like saying, "just give me an orgasm and I'll be happy. I don't care how, just do it."

Now for the women, wouldn't you want a male knows how to fuck good and understand a women's body as oppose to a male who just keep pounding away until he's done. The answer of course is yes you would prefer the male who understands the woman's body. It's always good to learn new techniques; sometimes when you think you already know it all, you learn something new about yourself that you like. It may even be about your partner that you learn something new about.

I know I would rather be the guy who can give a women non-stop multiple orgasms (of course, me having experience and knowing her body well) instead of the guy who gives women only one orgasm every 5-10 minutes?
 

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Nice! What position works best for you?

Mr. Rawdog is posting on his experience with his wife. he's taken the time to learn what she responds to, the rhythms of her orgasm and has put millions of naked hours into learning what works with her.

the point some folks were trying to make, and why there was some grump directed to your thread.. what works of Ms. Rawdog might not work for any other woman on the planet *cept maybe Ms. Subgirrrl :tongue1:*

reading about will only get you so far. practical application is were ya need to focus.

to the dirty fuck talk.. ya don't spring it on her in line at Subway. is just like sex, start out with a lil tease.. some foreplay.. filth is a gradual thing :biggrin:
 

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i said might not work, Mr. Rawdog :tongue1:

the only stimulation i would want extra is grinding. like rock rock grrrrinnnnnnddd rock grind. pounding when least expected.

and randomly.. in non-jenny related orgasms.. kissing is instant orgasm triggers once i hit orgasmic-buzz. the boy learned early on my mouth is slutty. and my boobs. i like boobeh play leading up to. squeeze/massage during.


eta: important.. my orgasm isn't strictly jenny-centric. is a whole body thing. things like hair tugging, the position, body tension, how he talks.. my inner thighs.. for true, just feeling him between my legs.. all muscle flexing and contact is enough to get me off. how he holds/restrains/lifts me.

*ponders* maybe cooter only focus is why the "how do i" threads get a grumble/ignore from the ladies. is not just out slicky-pinky bits.
 
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Here's an analogy: An auto mechanic / automotive engineer knows what exactly is happening when he/she is driving a vehicle. He/she knows how the engine works and that a little tweak here will cause a big impact; pretty much knowing the vehicle in and out. Now a normal buy/driver will just drive the vehicle from point A to point B. As long as the vehicle takes him/her there, he/she is satisfied. It's just like saying, "just give me an orgasm and I'll be happy. I don't care how, just do it."

Now for the women, wouldn't you want a male knows how to fuck good and understand a women's body as oppose to a male who just keep pounding away until he's done. The answer of course is yes you would prefer the male who understands the woman's body. It's always good to learn new techniques; sometimes when you think you already know it all, you learn something new about yourself that you like. It may even be about your partner that you learn something new about.

I know I would rather be the guy who can give a women non-stop multiple orgasms (of course, me having experience and knowing her body well) instead of the guy who gives women only one orgasm every 5-10 minutes?

The problem with this analogy is that women aren't cars. If we were, then we would be cars that all had generally the same engine, but we wouldn't have been mass produced, but hand crafted by different engineers. Each car's performance would be different depending on a thousand things.

There's no point in sharing what works for me, because it doesn't nessarily help you learn about any other woman on the planet. You can learn basic techniques that will help you be a damn good lover for most people most of the time. To be a mind-blowing lover, you have to (in my opinion) get to know one person over time - know their body, their mind, their own quirks.

For example: Mr Rawdog does this thing with Mrs Rawdog where he remains still while she's cumming - and she clenches and does her stutter orgasm (as MsLee calls it, I think). I do that, too. But would it be as good between for he and I as it is for he & Mrs R? With her he knows exactly what pressure she needs, how long, what to say or not to say - he doesn't know that for me. Would he know just how much to move to roll me over into the next orgasm?

Nia says 'do the dishes'. You didn't take this seriously. Some women have a lot of stuff on their minds. If I've got dishes to do, laundry, groceries to pick up - it might affect my ability to relax. Maybe if you did the dishes, I can relax and focus on sex.

Maybe like dolf, I don't even want you in the room. Mind blowing sex doesn't even have to involve orgasm.

We aren't cars. And sex isn't a NASCAR event. Not everyone is going to have multiple orgasms and some aren't even going to orgasm once. Study one woman. One woman can fill a book! :biggrin1:
 
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my steering wheel is disguised as fluffy dice and kept under the back seat. my gas pedal is where you expect to find the brake.

your analogy now works!
 

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urm, better analogy.... video games, maybe? :wink:

ya gotta figure out which system ya dealing with.
ya gotta learn the game you're playing.
ya gotta learn all the move codes.
ya gotta go level by level.
eventually, if you play often/well enough, you get an +A rating and unlock special features.

and some women are PC. everything ya learned is probably gonna be a lil bit different than the last time you played.

*not everyone is willing to type out a walk through just cuz you wanna get to the end faster :rolleyes:*

*snickerteehee*
*is joking.. for true*
*looks up cheat codes*
 

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urm, better analogy.... video games, maybe? :wink:

ya gotta figure out which system ya dealing with.
ya gotta learn the game you're playing.
ya gotta learn all the move codes.
ya gotta go level by level.
eventually, if you play often/well enough, you get an +A rating and unlock special features.

and some women are PC. everything ya learned is probably gonna be a lil bit different than the last time you played.

*not everyone is willing to type out a walk through just cuz you wanna get to the end faster :rolleyes:*

*snickerteehee*
*is joking.. for true*
*looks up cheat codes*

Sometimes I'm a PC....some guys make my system go a little unstable and they get the blue screen of death! :eek:
 

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Sometimes it takes a really long time to reset......hardly worth the effort really. Best just to get a snack.
 

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Yeah dude we're not all the same either. I am not one for 'multiple orgasms' once I'm done, I'm done..that ship has sailed and I'm no longer in the mood for sex lol.

Like ppl have been saying, every woman is individual...I'd hate it if a guy expected me to have multiple orgasms. And very few men have given me orgasms..even if they were good in bed or had large cocks, still didn't make me orgasm. Wanna know why? Cos I need the emotional connection there...it essentially needs to be making love for me to have an orgasm from sex.

And I was serious about the spitting in the eye thing.
 

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Let me ask you this: If a girl who I have intercourse with is having an orgasm, do I keep pounding her the same way throughout her orgasm? Or should I stop and just put it in really deep so she can clench on it?

Honey, posting this question in the Women's Issues Forum was your mistake :wink:

Also, sometimes we just see an opportunity to have a good laugh and go for it... it happens to most all threads...

I wasn't gonna reply, but seein' how Mr. Best has his pants already unzzzzziiippped and his cock is flying... I'll play with him a bit...

Remembering that... this is me speaking for ME... if you wanna know how to please ME...can't guarantee that if you try this with your girl you will get the same results. (See above post)

I orgasm as many as 10 times to a guy's one. I am multi orgasmic and sometimes they just run together.

Keep pounding... make me cum again and again... If you pull out, it could be like turning off a faucet... and we don't want that now, do we? If you WANT to just bury it to the hilt and feel me pulse and pull against you ... that's fine too as long as I know you are working to get one more good one out of me before you get yours... and believe me... I will stay with you until you get yours...

The work doesn't end til we've both made a mess. Then you can stop, then you can pull out...

(the hair pulling? aww that's part of foreplay... )


How was that Mr. Best? Was it as good for you as it was for me? :biggrin1:
 

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urm, better analogy.... video games, maybe? :wink:

ya gotta figure out which system ya dealing with.
ya gotta learn the game you're playing.
ya gotta learn all the move codes.
ya gotta go level by level.
eventually, if you play often/well enough, you get an +A rating and unlock special features.

and some women are PC. everything ya learned is probably gonna be a lil bit different than the last time you played.

*not everyone is willing to type out a walk through just cuz you wanna get to the end faster :rolleyes:*

*snickerteehee*
*is joking.. for true*
*looks up cheat codes*


I gave my husband a cheat sheet for me .... he's got all the codes memorized and has made it to the top level many times... Score for hubby ... :lmao: