Ladies, what should we (men) do when your orgasm starts?

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"Please elaborate as much as possible because it may help others become a better lover in bed"

What a load of bollocks.
Every woman is different and so every womans needs will be different and even then it can change depending on situation and mood.

More like this is a transparent attempt to get flog fodder.

Fuck off.

this every woman is different is an avoidance in revealing intimate details about yourself out of fear of being exploited for fap fodder, however no matter what you do there will be some guy whom will store your face in their memory bank for a lotion-fisted visit to a bathroom. you can't stop what other people do, but i understand privacy, yet vehemently fighting all threads involving the sexual life on a sex site is getting a bit old, and sounds more like bs and woman crowd pleasing at this point.

obviously each woman is different, and each body is to be explored differently, but the female posters here are more than likely human. therefore, their own experiences can be educational and pivotal in the growth of those who are seriously interested in becoming greater "lovers". commonalities and overlapping principles which may be exposed by open communication with someone other than their respected or future spouse can lay groundwork for informative dialogue in their personal lives, as they aren't speaking to their spouse in a bubble. they've gotten other people's input already and aren't coming to a sex without anything in mind.

the fact that each woman is different should be a disclaimer, not a refusal to participate, because its counter-productive and counter-intuitive to not participate by participating (posting) in the thread.

now, you guys can go about your responses as per usual - before hand i do have something to offer. in my own experience i've noted women rather you not slow down during their climatic experience. orgasms are a release, and slowing down the action can disrupt their lack of focus. so i'd advise to treat the moment as business as usual until the woman says otherwise. plus, who wouldn't want to have a multi-orgasm? bang for the high score; low expectations are for chumps.
 
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i said might not work, Mr. Rawdog :tongue1:

Ok, I see now. Subtlety was never one of my strong points.

the only stimulation i would want extra is grinding. like rock rock grrrrinnnnnnddd rock grind. pounding when least expected.
The unfortunate physiological difference between men and women is the resulting stimulation from simple back and forth swaying. By "grinding" did you mean:

http://i.imgur.com/6Kaiu.gif

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http://nsfwgif.com/gifs/fucking-her-deeply.gif

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http://nsfwgif.com/gifs/giannas-amazing-boobs.gif

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http://29.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lvmryxwQxC1qkdrmho1_500.gif

and randomly.. in non-jenny related orgasms.. kissing is instant orgasm triggers once i hit orgasmic-buzz. the boy learned early on my mouth is slutty. and my boobs. i like boobeh play leading up to. squeeze/massage during.
That reminds me, I need to suck MrsR's nipples more, especially whilst cumming. She likes that.

For example: Mr Rawdog does this thing with Mrs Rawdog where he remains still while she's cumming - and she clenches and does her stutter orgasm (as MsLee calls it, I think). I do that, too. But would it be as good between for he and I as it is for he & Mrs R? With her he knows exactly what pressure she needs, how long, what to say or not to say - he doesn't know that for me. Would he know just how much to move to roll me over into the next orgasm?

No, but the learning curve would be so much shorter with the experience behind me.

If you WANT to just bury it to the hilt and feel me pulse and pull against you ... that's fine too

That!! That's what I love when we do that "thrust and hold" when she cums.


as long as I know you are working to get one more good one out of me before you get yours... and believe me... I will stay with you until you get yours...

The work doesn't end til we've both made a mess. Then you can stop, then you can pull out...
That was hot. Sorry, I just had to mention that. I like keeping my dick in as long as possible after I cum so I can enjoy the extra lubrication before I get soft.

Then I make a bigger mess when I pull out,

How was that Mr. Best? Was it as good for you as it was for me? :biggrin1:
Mr. Best is one lucky guy! :biggrin1:

I need a cigarette now.
 
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Every woman is different end of story

Some women have orgasms through:
Big cocks
Oral sex
Anal sex
Emotional connection
rough sex
or a combination of things

There's no real how to for orgasms or becoming a better lover
You just gotta find out this stuff,by exploring you're partner
 

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what works of Ms. Rawdog might not work for any other woman on the planet *cept maybe Ms. Subgirrrl :tongue1:*

ROFLMAO :lmao:

All too true! MrsR and I do seem to have a number of tastes and tendencies in common :biggrin1:.

What Mickey's saying here really is true though, even separate from the joke. We really are all different.

An FB of mine is brilliant in bed, and I get the feeling I'm not the only one who thinks so. His great skill doesn't lie in his specific techniques though. It lies in his amazing ability to read a woman's body like it's a book. He knows when he needs to keep going, when he needs to stop and hold, and when he needs to change what he's doing because he PAYS ATTENTION TO THE PERSON HE'S WITH. The trick really isn't any more complex than that.

My Sir seems to be the same, although it's harder for me to step outside myself and assess it with him because we've had an emotional connection from the start. He always does exactly the right thing at exactly the right time (okay, not ALWAYS, but when it's wrong he's doing it on purpose to fuck with my head and he tells me later that that''s EXACTLY what he was doing). How does he know what to do? By watching me and listening to me.

The woman you're with holds all the answers.
 

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An FB of mine is brilliant in bed, and I get the feeling I'm not the only one who thinks so. His great skill doesn't lie in his specific techniques though. It lies in his amazing ability to read a woman's body like it's a book. He knows when he needs to keep going, when he needs to stop and hold, and when he needs to change what he's doing because he PAYS ATTENTION TO THE PERSON HE'S WITH. The trick really isn't any more complex than that.

The woman you're with holds all the answers.

Lordy. Can I borrow him?
 

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Once again Rawdog rockin' the forum with hot gifs. Thanks babydoll, love 'em, keep them coming.

As to the subject the only thing I ask is that you don't rub my clit. Just too much and it brings my orgasm to a grinding halt. I've noticed a guy will pull away if I suck or jerk his cock too fast or hard near the end of his orgasm. So I imagine it's akin to that, just too sensitive for anything vigorous.
 

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ROFLMAO :lmao:

All too true! MrsR and I do seem to have a number of tastes and tendencies in common :biggrin1:.

What Mickey's saying here really is true though, even separate from the joke. We really are all different.

An FB of mine is brilliant in bed, and I get the feeling I'm not the only one who thinks so. His great skill doesn't lie in his specific techniques though. It lies in his amazing ability to read a woman's body like it's a book. He knows when he needs to keep going, when he needs to stop and hold, and when he needs to change what he's doing because he PAYS ATTENTION TO THE PERSON HE'S WITH. The trick really isn't any more complex than that.

My Sir seems to be the same, although it's harder for me to step outside myself and assess it with him because we've had an emotional connection from the start. He always does exactly the right thing at exactly the right time (okay, not ALWAYS, but when it's wrong he's doing it on purpose to fuck with my head and he tells me later that that''s EXACTLY what he was doing). How does he know what to do? By watching me and listening to me.

The woman you're with holds all the answers.


How true that is. Just don't look at the cover when you need to read the book. I found that out when she was having an orgasm I kept thrusting and she gave me this look '' like what wtf are you doing to ruin my orgasm ''. She had me in a head lock with her legs wrapped around me, kissing me to death. She said I wanted you cum with me and if you can't, don't worry, just let me enjoy my orgasm then I'll make you cum one way or another.
 

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Once again Rawdog rockin' the forum with hot gifs. Thanks babydoll, love 'em, keep them coming.

As long as they serve a function, you betcha!

As to the subject the only thing I ask is that you don't rub my clit. Just too much and it brings my orgasm to a grinding halt. I've noticed a guy will pull away if I suck or jerk his cock too fast or hard near the end of his orgasm. So I imagine it's akin to that, just too sensitive for anything vigorous.

If her clit's way too sensitive and she's half cum-drunk and speechless, my wife has this hand signal to tell me when her clit is off limits. It resembles a firm slap to the back of my head. If that doesn't work, she boxes my ears with her inner thighs. Effective and not so subtle.
 

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As long as they serve a function, you betcha!

If her clit's way too sensitive and she's half cum-drunk and speechless, my wife has this hand signal to tell me when her clit is off limits. It resembles a firm slap to the back of my head. If that doesn't work, she boxes my ears with her inner thighs. Effective and not so subtle.

That's the one, haha. If a guy gets aggressive with my clit right after I orgasm and his head has the misfortune of being down there he better be prepared for a death grip headlock between my thighs followed by a quick release and kick to the head or torso that will have him flying off the bed. I have no control over this violent reaction and offer no apology for any injury, unconsciousness, and or possible death resulting from it. :tongue:
 

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That's the one, haha. If a guy gets aggressive with my clit right after I orgasm and his head has the misfortune of being down there he better be prepared for a death grip headlock between my thighs followed by a quick release and kick to the head or torso that will have him flying off the bed. I have no control over this violent reaction and offer no apology for any injury, unconsciousness, and or possible death resulting from it. :tongue:
way to thank a guy for making you orgasm :p