Ladies, which do you prefer: Young or Old?

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  1. D_CloakThicket

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    So here I am, certainly not a “spring chicken” but hopefully not what some might call “old” either.
    It is a great place to be in life. You’ve been around the block enough times that you’re able to take life in a much calmer sort of way…it’s good!
    Sex is without doubt a totally different world. I’ll explain.
    BACK THEN- I was a VIRILE STUD!
    Talk about massive cum?!? That’s an understatement. Lots of it and shot far enough to be in a different zip code.
    Ready for action? Always! The problem was that foreplay lasted as long as it took to rip of our clothes and cum. Basically it was: Ready, Shoot, Aim.
    Endurance? Well, I could be ready for another round it short enough time. But as far as any kind of prolonged, long, slow, drawn-out session, I just couldn’t hold back the “horses”. Satisfying for me, but certainly no Tantric master!
    NOW- Well… I like to think that I am still a stud. Maybe not as virile, but definitely more mature!
    Although I get just as hard as I ever have, I can’t make the claims of setting off air raid alarms when the cum rips lose.
    However, when it comes to the question of endurance….ohhhh what a different experience sex is now!!!
    Remember how I mentioned that I take life more relaxed now? Well, that defines my sex life today. NO WORRIES AND NO HURRY’s.
    The best sex now is when we have at least 1 ½ hour (preferably more) to devote to total, sensual ecstasy. I love it!!! Now, we spend all kinds of time fondling, stroking, caressing, massaging, stimulating, kissing, licking and that’s all before I even think about penetrating. Oh no! That doesn’t happen until her juices are abundantly flowing and she is insisting that I pleasure her with my cock. Here is the best part of NOW; unlike the younger days, control is my middle name. It is the best of fun to start out with light and shallow strokes for, I don’t know, 10,15 or 20 minutes. Then gradually deeper and deeper. Of course, this is all by request. My whole purpose NOW is to provide the deepest, longest, most intense orgasm any woman can tolerate! It is so much incredibly erotic fun! Well, anyways, back to endurance. At this place in life, 8 out of 10 days I can completely control when I cum (read between the lines- I never will cum before she does). Because of this “gift of maturity”, my lady gets to ride on the deepest stroking, slowly grinding, orgasm creating cock that performs entirely to her demands. IT’S A PRETTY COOL PLACE TO BE IN LIFE!
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    So the question is, “Which do you prefer: The young, 20 somethings or The older mature guys with the patience and experience that only time can bring?
     
  2. HiddenLacey

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    Personally I've never dated a guy younger than myself. I'm 26 and my current bf is 34. I do have a girl friend thats 38 and most of the guys she dates are in their 20's. I really think it just depends on the person. I would date a guy my age if I were single I guess, but most of my friends are older than me as well. I can't stand bars and clubs so I tend to hang out with older people period... even though I'm extremely hyper :) Since both of my lovers have been in their 30's I can't say if sex would be better or worse.
     
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    Spring chickens!!!!

    ASSEMBLE!!!!!
     
  4. D_Sparroe Spongecaques

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    It depends on the guy but generally spring chickens.My current beau and the 2 before him are in their early 20's and the one before them was 18,i was 32.
     
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    Experience doesn't necessarily equate with age.
    Sure, you can get to a point where you've had a lot of practice and therefore you've gained experience but there's always the possibility that you'll meet someone who doesn't respond in the way you'd expect to positions or techniques you consider yourself to be a master of. Experience doesn't necessarily equate with good technique either, doesn't matter how many people you boff if you learn nothing from it.
    Unless someone has an already established preference for older or younger men, I'd say that every partner has potential, no matter their age.

    On a personal note, the most fulfilling, satisfying, breath taking and incredible sex that I want to continue having a lot of, has been with a man in his twenties, who has a set a standard far beyond that of excellence. And not only for actual physical performance in bed. He's extremely mature, considerate, has great stamina, is adventurous, attentive, selfless when it comes to giving pleasure and very responsive when receiving it, which is something I really love.

    Could be that I'm a remarkably lucky girl or maybe it's entirely possible for younger men to be equally as good as older when it comes to having the skills required for being an amazing lover so there's not much point in judging beforehand.

    Thanks! I re-read the original post in the voice of Ron Burgundy and it was awesome.
     
  6. D_CloakThicket

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    Great point Keleios. I totally agree. Age certainly does not equate to a person becoming something more and/or better than they were at a younger age. To your point of technique and/or positions. Although, those things can be "added benefits" of experience and life, they certainly aren't the end for all.

    I suppose what I am really getting at is the fact that life is like a vintage wine. If you start with a good grape, the right barrel and the patience of time, you may end up with an exquisite wine. Not every variety is for every person. But that's OK, there is the perfect person out there for each one of us.

    It sounds like you may have an incredible vintage wine in the making! aka-an exceptional grape.
     
  7. Fleur

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    I don't know that I have a preference...I don't think I'd ever date a guy younger than me though...maturity doesn't always equal age, but on the whole, guys in their early 20s or younger aren't in the same place I am. The guys I've dated in the past were all older, but not by much. I'm 25 now and the guy I'm seeing is 33...he doesn't want a relationship though, so it's over and I'm not getting any anymore, sadly for me, but his loss.

    I've always been more mature for my age and most of my friends, male or otherwise are older, it's been that way since high school...most of my male friends, except for one are around 29-mid-thirties...
     
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    The better question is what they do with it who cares about young or old
     
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    Not everyone takes forever to "mature". Between the ages of 18 and 24, I was involved with one man only a year and change older than I. He never had endurance issues. He got hard if the wind changed direction, or I turned and raised an eyebrow. He could give seconds, thirds, and fourths, with only a few moments to eat and rehydrate. He came hard, and in large quantity when he came. Foreplay was long and deliberate, and afterward, instead of pillow-talk, there was usually more oral attention if I could stand it (though this was usually analingus). He was like that in his early 20's, and so was my lover before him who set the precedent to which all men have been held since.

    The older guys I dated were lots of fun to fuck, but they were actually more hurried, like sex was a store about to close. To this there were two exceptions, and he rushed through foreplay, but took a lot of time with the actual intercourse. But I was so attracted to him, that he could have taken only a few minutes and it would have been enough.

    The other exception must be more like you must have been at an in-between stage. He loved to kiss, and to explore, to try new things, and to please. Sometimes it was slow, sometimes frenetic. I always came first, however. He was very special. He said he had almost no experience with women. As amazing as sex was the first time with him, it always felt better each next time.

    I prefer the considerate, perceptive lover, regardless of his age.
     
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    I really don't think age necessarily means someone is going to be a better partner or a better lover. But when i see a younger attractive guy i think he needs an older woman like me to show him the ropes. He could very well know them already, from porn, experience, books, research, etc.

    I know plenty of older men who can't stop getting into bad relationships, losing everything they have because of them...i can't imagine all the "experience" is helping those guys out much.

    I married my husband when he was barely 20 and he hasnt changed much from my perspective in any area, probably because it's an everyday life together where you both change at the same time. I'm sure if i were 18 again and he was his age now, i might see the differences. But from my perspective, older doesnt mean better, younger doesnt mean better. It's all about that person and their personality, which typically doesn't change with age really. We are who we are.

    If anything, i find older guys to have stereotypical ideas on what women like. They are oldschool and tend to think if their ex-girlfriend did it, you should be able to do it too. That it isnt something your body can or cant do, its all about how THEY are able to make you do it in bed...after all, they have the experience.

    I've fucked too many virgins to believe that.
     
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    yea it seems too many older women dont like young guys. which is shit cause i love older women!
     
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    I'll take the older guys. They are much more appreciative and less shallow (most of the time)
     
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    im not shallow =/
     
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    You may not be darl, but there is plenty your age that are.
     
  15. D_CloakThicket

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    FOLLOW UP TO THE ORIGINAL:
    Thank you for all your great comments.
    As I hear your insightful comments, I sit hear shaking my head in agreement.
    You all make great points.
    I agree....it is not about age, but so much more!
     
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    Though you didn't ask men - I've always wound up dating women at least a few years older than myself (apart from instance I'd rather forget). I only mention it because I'm unsure whether that's a case of me seeking older women, or them seeking me.

    Then again, my age seems to confuse people. When meeting me, most people peg me as anywhere between 19 and 30, which is odd.
     
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    I'm married to someone younger than I am. Before I met him, I dated only my age group or older. However, I don't have a particular preference, but I do know that my sex life changed when I met hubby. Even though he's younger, he is a wonderful lover and gave me my first intercourse orgasm. I'm sure that I walked funny for the first five years!! I vividly remember always being sore...not that that is a good thing. Seriously, 20 something men are like sex machines...always on and ready.
     
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    Are we talking physical age or mental age. There are some young'uns who have old heads, and vice-versa.

    Speaking from my own standpoint, but if you're a guy that wants his partner to enjoy the sex, you'll generally be viewed favorably, even if your starting technique could be improved because you'll be more likely to want to improve the technique.
     
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    I've been thinking about this post since I read it a few days ago. For me sex is better with someone that I'm super attracted to, very hot for, have chemistry with, click with mentally, and who I like as a person.

    For me I tend to be attracted to younger guys. They usually have the qualities that I prefer. I love a guy with a thick head of hair, sexy eyes, great smile and a good body. Sex wise, I've had the best sexual experiences with younger guys, who are early to mid-20s. Their sexual abilities are compatible with my sex drive. Specifically, the best sex has been with 2 younger guys who had stamina and zero down time. I'm super impressed with guys who can cum and then immediately go into round 2. When I have amazing sex...I want more and more. Younger guys can handle that. Plus they're usually tons of fun in bed.

    However, when it comes to oral sex...older guys seem to have the upper hand. I don't know why, but many younger guys for whatever reason, they are not as into to eating pussy as the older guys. Perhaps its experience? Or patience? Or understanding the value of pleasuring a woman in that way?

    Guys my age or older who excel at eating pussy have wanted to set up camp between my legs. I love for a guy to make me cum that way...licking, teasing, sucking and then using their fingers inside me. When I orgasm from clit stimulation...its really setting the stage for me for the rest of the sex session. Not only does it make me super wet...but its makes me even hornier, more passionate, more eager, more enthusiastic. It makes me even hotter when a guy can make me cum from going down on me. I think many younger guys do it, not because they enjoy it, but because they want to make me feel good and know that I love it. But I would love it more if they loved doing it.

    I love sucking cock...I think I'm so good at it because I thoroughly enjoy it for me, as well as what it does for the guy.

    Now if I could get my young friends to love eating pussy and then fuck me all night like an energizer bunny...that would be the best of both worlds.
     
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    i was involved with older guy 46 to be exact who was actually my first. i eventually fell in love with everything was good. well, not sexually!!! eventually he left me for a much older women so i might like to but not too young!!!!
     
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