I don't even think he realizes it hurt my feelings, and if I brought it up he'd say "Oh, come on...you know you have a million things over on her, just because she has a nicer body doesn't mean shit". But to me it DOES. So anyway, I know I have self esteem issues, but this really didn't help matters.
I think you answered your own question here, honey. I mean first of all excuse the sexist in me in pointing out the conflict that you placed upon him: you pushed him for an honest answer (which he shouldn't have complied with) and really what you were really looking for was some unrealistic reply where no matter how beautiiful other women are, that you are the one for him. So in other words, you were looking for what you wanted to hear from him, and not the truth. Couple that with our culture today where men buy magazines about cars, guns, popular mechanics and women, meanwhile women buy magazines of just women women and women, and you are doomed to feel ever so inadequate.
I've also noticed in places where there is a huge population of "beautiful" women and an emphasis of that importance, that the closer that a woman is to that supposed 'ideal" the more insecure she gets about it. Meanwhile, a woman that is pretty much not on the radar so to speak has far more confidence, having to have relied on being more herself.
now that I got the stuff that will get me into trouble with the ladies here out of the way, :wink: I'll also point out the realism that either sex should face: there will be a better lookking, bigger dicked and boobed individual out there than yourself.. I mean there are dudes here with 8X6 dicks asking how they could make it larger. I mostly don't criticise that here since this site is about size and I think we should be aloowed our most extreme wishes desires and even insecurities here. However, the generality that you posed here I think qualifies as somethign that deals more witht he whole picture...
If someone who I really cared for asked me that question, I would have pretty much said what she wanted to hear.. mainly because its partially true.. i.e., she's the only one. The fact is that the animal part of our brain will wanted the greener pasture over there. One could argue that in men its worse as they get older as that societal cliche of older man and younger woman is a bit of a reality in that mid life crisis issue. However I think in such a case, couples should be realistic and realize that at 55, their relationship isn't just the physical glue that it was 30 years ago, its more the issue of companionship, a shared life together, and the imtimacy that the two share, which should really surpass any desire to be with a 36DD or a 10x7.
So relating to the what you posted, diamond, the "truth" is that there is someone far better looking than everyone in this board out there. thats a fact. Crap they may even be a better person. So why ask the obvious? The other hard truth out there is that whoever you are with is supposedly the "best you can do" and vice versa... I mean you can go through life thinking that way because in the end, we are just animals, with far far too much brain capaciity than this deserves to analyze it. its like that suopermodel wearing a fat suit for a day and suddenly realizing how cruel people can be. Well thats the "truth" out there...
So what remains is for us to use that oversized sex organ: the brain, to compensate for the cruelity regarding nature's genetical dice role. I think that one should realize that if they are in a relationship that its because they want to be.. despite the fact that there are better looking people out therre.. because there is way more than just the looks to have to tolerate when one is in that relationship.