I'm not really the target audience of the question, but I had a recent experience with a guy that sorta fits. I was in my usual pickup bar and made eye contact with a mid to late 20's guy - very fit looking. Tall, over 6'2" moderately muscular. dark hair and eyes, great smile. He was wearing slacks and a sport coat, with a tie and leather soled shoes. I mention to shoes because I rarely see them on younger men these days, unless it is really formal. Anyway, we talked and came to an understanding about what we wanted and went back to my hotel. When he undressed he was wearing very lacy black panties. Very expensive. It was incredibly hot. He looked great in them, filled them very nicely. He saw my eyes widen, and he smiled and said, "I just really like 'em."
There was nothing fem about this guy at all. I can't remember ever running into this before - ever. The sex was spectacular.