Ladies, would you date a bi sexual man?

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Opinions are like assholes.....
It cracks me up when people say;" oh! I would never date anyone who's bisexual". As if they can tell by looking at someone!
Under the impressions, that some of you have espoused,why would the guy
ever want to tell you honestly?
To those for whom it's not a big deal {and it shouldn't be!} Bravo to you!
It should be the persons character,not their sexuality.
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Your version of the truth is just that, another opinion, and frankly you being bisexual yourself leads me to believe you are too biased to even admit to there being even one drawback to dating a bisexual person. Which you've already denied. This is called... Hmm.. I know there's a psychological term here... Something like living in denial or refusing to realize the truth.

The fact of the matter is (for whatever reason) every single girl that I've been attracted to has been bisexual. I noticed this about a year ago or so. It's very odd but I have the statistics to back it up. Seriously. I noticed the pattern because when I started out on the dating scene (having not been on it in a year or two), every time I hit on a girl or a girl hit on me she'd turn out to be bisexual. I'm not even lying, I swear to whatever god you choose. EVERY TIME. This was just in a couple month span of me trying to get into the dating scene. This got me wondering if this was the case with my years of girlfriends throughout my life. I thought back, went through every single GF I had ever had...

Out of all the like 10 or whatever women I had the only long term relationship I had was with a woman who claimed to be straight AND I think the only reason she claimed to be straight is because she was like a major religious nut. This was when I was religious myself so it was cool then. She was the antithesis of a swinger. However, I still suspect there's some bisexuality she never let come out because of her religion and her nut parents. So, yes, for some reason bisexual women and I are just like... joined at the hip. Maybe it's because we're both freaks in bed.

BTW- as an experiment to see if I really was only attracted to bi women I did a blind test... I never asked any girl her sexual orienation during like a year or two period. I'd let her tell me, which normally took from 2 weeks+. So, by the time we were well into a relationship I'd find out she's bisexual. Every time. I wouldn't even suspect it most of the time, she'd just come out with it one day randomly. Hell I wasn't even thinking about it. Talk about weird.

Swinging and bisexuality go hand in hand. Normally. And if you notice I wasn't downing bisexuality per se, I was downing irresponsibile people who happen to be predominantly bisexual, generally of the swinger type. And if you notice I said that straight people of the swinger type do this kinda shit too.

The fact of the matter is I believe that there is a statistical anomaly that makes people of the bisexual type and people of the swinger type more predisposed to being unfaithful when they are less experienced and immature.

I think it's a solid hypothesis.
 

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The fact of the matter is (for whatever reason) every single girl that I've been attracted to has been bisexual.

However, I still suspect there's some bisexuality she never let come out because of her religion and her nut

I think it's a solid hypothesis.

That alone buggers your hypothesis up.
 

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Yes, no reason not to. As long as he is able to stay faithful in a relationship I see no problem.
How many people can do that though? Straight, gay , bi, female, male? We are all capable of cheating. The fact still remains we frequently hear stories of bi-sexual women leaving their husbands or boyfriends for another woman, not another man.


Amen sister.
I think that too many straight people believe that if you are attracted to both sexes then you are attracted to twice as many people. :yup: That is definitely not true in my case; I'm the pickiest person that I know. No wonder I'm single :mad: No, you are still single because most people don't want to play tennis outdoors in January in Canada. :tongue: I can assure you ladies, as a flaming bisexual male, that bisexual men are not twice as likely to cheat.
See that's the thing on which I get stuck. Maybe it's because I had a bf who cheated on me with another woman before. It just seems to stand to reason that there would be more opportunities to cheat if you are attracted to both sexes. Afterall thanks to gender selective abortions there are even more men available then there are women in many countries.

Bisexuality wouldn't bother me, infidelity would.
Ah, theres the rub! That is what would bother me as well.


I'm bi and I would like to add that bisexual men can be just as monogamous as straight or gay guys. I've been in long-term, monogamous relationships with both men and women without any issues.
I don't doubt that but insofar as the people on this site I think you may be in the minority.
 

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Ladies, would you date a bi sexual man? I don't have a problem with bi sexuality...but I have never thought of dating a man who was bi? I guess I could have dated someone before that was bi....but he never told me he was. And he would like to be with someone who would be open to being with two bi men. I am up for that...but I guess I am nervous about how to handle this....

So....whatcha think?

If the guy is really nice and we both appear to be into each other yeah I'd probably date a bi-guy. Who am I kidding? I haven't had a date in months I would jump at the chance to date a bi guy! :tongue:

Then I remebered this post from a while back. It is this behavior that concerns me. To me being in a relationship with a man means we are monogamous especially in a marriage!

http://www.lpsg.org/897299-post78.html
 

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Praise Goodness I am married and hopefully I don't have to worry about this.....

I don't think I could ever be in a serious long term relationship with a bi man. I could be friends and even have a fuck buddy relationship......but I don't think I would be happy in a marriage with a bi male. And it all has to do with my insecurities and the fact that I never learned to share very well at all with something that means anything to me. I want the cock all for myself. I don't have a penis......but I will gladly wear a strap on....(because I am kinky) But I just don't know if I could ever share my man with anyone other than another woman.....and it isn't because I am interested in being with a woman......it is because I know that he is into women and it would probably make him feel good to have more than one woman making a big deal over him. Isn't that supposed to be every straight guy's fantasy? (I am in to stroking my man's ego. ) I keep suggesting this and so far my husband says he barely has enough energy to keep up with me and keep me satisfied.....he doesn't need any more things to add to his to do list. He says he is happy just being with me.


Anyways I guess I have a need to be #1 in my significant other's life.....and if he wants something that I don't have (another penis) there is a chance that I will feel inadaquate and I don't want to live my life with a person feeling this way. If the person is bi curious and they don't tell me....then what I don't know won't hurt me.

I feel like everyone has a right to be with whoever they want to be. Just like I have a right to be with a straight guy who just wants to be with pussy.
 

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If the guy is really nice and we both appear to be into each other yeah I'd probably date a bi-guy. Who am I kidding? I haven't had a date in months I would jump at the chance to date a bi guy! :tongue:
NJ, the same situation could happen with a straight guy. As a bi guy, when I am in a relationship, I am totally monogamous with that person. I am not checking out other guys and girls scoping out my next conquest. As a bi guy I am attracted sexually to both sexes, but that doesn't mean I will cheat on the individual with whom I have entered into a relationship!

What are you doing Saturday night :smile: