ladies {yes, that's the ones with boobs, NOT the ones with willies!} men and porn?
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I don't know, I guess I haven't been with any men that watched A LOT of porn before falling into bed with me (like so much that it became detrimental to their approach with women). I just make sure to talk a lot about sex and compatibilities/differences (without an agenda) before going there with someone. I would like to think that would help solve any shockers about sexual style beforehand but perhaps I am naïve? But also, I may be out of the loop with this one -- I haven't dated regularly since around 2000.
I do know this, I defo wouldn't let any fellow who professed a love for fake boobs anywhere near me (sexually) -- I would be self-conscious of my large natural ones. We just wouldn't be a good fit, simple as that, so I'd pass on dating a person like that (and having sex too, naturally).
I guess if there's anything I've noticed it's been that sometimes men do have unrealistic expectations about women's bodies, but that comes not only from porn but fashion and other related industries I think. And too, ever so oddly -- women. I think women are often bigger proponents of this super svelte ideal (that I'll never be!) than men are quite frankly. All of the men I have managed to keep in my life at this juncture all say they adore very womanly women and also that they think women are harsher about the perfect ideal than men.
Oh there is one more thing, I think -- porn does seem to have influenced the idea that all women cum easily and often. Sometimes it's simply not the case as we all know. I noticed this when I was in my 20s...I think a few of my partners then believed this and of course being young and less sexually mature I wasn't really cumming that much or often. I chalk up those experiences to youthful ignorance. I am glad for maturity, nudge nudge wink wink.
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(I was looking for a drooly emoticon, I have no idea if that's it above. It kinda looks like it's hopped up on Benadryl.)
I do know this, I defo wouldn't let any fellow who professed a love for fake boobs anywhere near me (sexually) -- I would be self-conscious of my large natural ones. We just wouldn't be a good fit, simple as that, so I'd pass on dating a person like that (and having sex too, naturally).
I guess if there's anything I've noticed it's been that sometimes men do have unrealistic expectations about women's bodies, but that comes not only from porn but fashion and other related industries I think. And too, ever so oddly -- women. I think women are often bigger proponents of this super svelte ideal (that I'll never be!) than men are quite frankly. All of the men I have managed to keep in my life at this juncture all say they adore very womanly women and also that they think women are harsher about the perfect ideal than men.
Oh there is one more thing, I think -- porn does seem to have influenced the idea that all women cum easily and often. Sometimes it's simply not the case as we all know. I noticed this when I was in my 20s...I think a few of my partners then believed this and of course being young and less sexually mature I wasn't really cumming that much or often. I chalk up those experiences to youthful ignorance. I am glad for maturity, nudge nudge wink wink.
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(I was looking for a drooly emoticon, I have no idea if that's it above. It kinda looks like it's hopped up on Benadryl.)
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almost nobody reads the link!
i forgot that one!
we all make porn noises, porn faces and orgasm as soon as they enter.
SilverTrain
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My cock tastes like nectar.
It is always just a little too big.
She craves it 24 hours a day, and is frustrated if she hasn't been fucked in the past two hours.
She wants to suck the hell out of my cock as soon as I am done giving her ass a proper drilling.
She cums 4 times before I do.
When I cum, she wants to see at least 6 ounces of semen, sprayed artistically around the room, with at least 3 ounces of it ending up on her face.
It is always just a little too big.
She craves it 24 hours a day, and is frustrated if she hasn't been fucked in the past two hours.
She wants to suck the hell out of my cock as soon as I am done giving her ass a proper drilling.
She cums 4 times before I do.
When I cum, she wants to see at least 6 ounces of semen, sprayed artistically around the room, with at least 3 ounces of it ending up on her face.
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Back in High School, before the easy access of internet porn, just vid and mags, a friend told me how porn is not good for high schoolers, but maybe for Jr high.
Because when you get to High School, you may start having sex and get unrealistic expectations. You want what you see and are not going to get.
As for me, I think there is some truth to Dolfette's point.
The constantly changing of postions is one I had to get over. Basically, a less is more had to be learned.
Also, I think the reason why I had trouble cumming is because I put a lot of performance anxiety on myself. I was under the myth that a guy has to last long. And I could. Still could. But at the expense of my own pleasure.
The other big dispointment for me, and still is, is the not cumming off a blow job. When I first got one, it must have been 45 minutes of enjoyable sensation, but no "pop". And watching porn where every guy seems to be able to go didnt help my situation.
Now the positive. Porn watching is the "safest sex" around. You do it when you want, you see what you want, and there is no awkward next morning. You get your cum and you leave. Sure, you miss the human connection. But at the same time, it makes me appreciate women even more. When I get with a woman, it is not just about the orgasm. That I can get on my own. I get to the sensation, the closeness of human contact. All the things I said in the Tit Sex thread about how I love tits and why.
Sometimes just holding her in a spoon is the big reward. Smelling her hair. Running your fingers through it. Giving her little kisses all over. Taking the time to really savor a woman. And you dont get that from porn.
Because when you get to High School, you may start having sex and get unrealistic expectations. You want what you see and are not going to get.
As for me, I think there is some truth to Dolfette's point.
The constantly changing of postions is one I had to get over. Basically, a less is more had to be learned.
Also, I think the reason why I had trouble cumming is because I put a lot of performance anxiety on myself. I was under the myth that a guy has to last long. And I could. Still could. But at the expense of my own pleasure.
The other big dispointment for me, and still is, is the not cumming off a blow job. When I first got one, it must have been 45 minutes of enjoyable sensation, but no "pop". And watching porn where every guy seems to be able to go didnt help my situation.
Now the positive. Porn watching is the "safest sex" around. You do it when you want, you see what you want, and there is no awkward next morning. You get your cum and you leave. Sure, you miss the human connection. But at the same time, it makes me appreciate women even more. When I get with a woman, it is not just about the orgasm. That I can get on my own. I get to the sensation, the closeness of human contact. All the things I said in the Tit Sex thread about how I love tits and why.
Sometimes just holding her in a spoon is the big reward. Smelling her hair. Running your fingers through it. Giving her little kisses all over. Taking the time to really savor a woman. And you dont get that from porn.
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Me too! OMG that sucks.
But anyway, My 2 Cents? I admit, I want to fuck like a pornstar. It seems really fun.
But I don't think porn has ruined sex for me. I actually think its made it great for me and my partner. We love to try new things and do crazy stuff because we want to make each other feel good. When we're done experimenting or if it don't work, we just stick to things that do. We'll get a happy ending anyway. At first, I was brought down to earth seeing that sex was overrated when I started having sex. But it was still great.
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