Ladies, your experinces with a guy that took cialis, viagra or levitra

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  1. jake7.5

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    Ladies, what has been your experinces with a guy that took cialis, viagra or levitra? Please explain, was it a good experince or bad experince?
     
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    New Rule: If I like a topic on the "Women's Issues" forum and no women are answering, it's free game for guys to answer after it gets demoted to the second page.

    Ok, having said that, here's my answer: My ex once complained it was "too stiff". She said it was almost like one of those stiff dildoes. I'm not too sure why that could be a problem, but then again she herself had lot of problems anyway.

    Oh, and she also said I lasted too long. Again, I didn't see an issue there.

    I take it once in a while for the weekend long fuckfest marathons my wife and I have. I call it my weekend helper. For the longest time, my wife was looking for a suitable counterpart for her. We tried the ED drugs and cialis worked wonders for her sexually, but upset her stomach too much. We even tried those creams you rub on the clit, but that actually backfired and made my dick numb.

    We finally figured out her weekend helper... Vodka!!
     
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    I've had a guy (young) take viagra once and it did seem to make his dick harder than usual, but it might have been mental.
     
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    But can it actually be a bad thing? Help me understand my ex.
     
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    I LIKE stiff dildos. Sounds like something I should explore.


    I'm not seeing the problem here either . . .


    I love drunk sex too. It enhances the floaty feeling. And I'm sure MrsR appreciates it if it helps her get past that 45 minute mark.
     
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    It really is a lot of fun. With the right partner, very addicting (in a good way)

    Good. Too much of a good thing can be... GREAT!

    Try 3 hours straight. Seriously, one of the best times of my life.
     
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    There was one time where a fellow simply could not lose his erection and I knew he'd been somewhere else, with someone else, earlier in the night too. He and I had multiple orgasms, I was quite tenderized and wanted dearly to sleep, but he simply could not get rid of it! He confessed he'd taken a pill. I chided him a bit for obviously not needing it.

    In the end he allowed me to fall asleep with him inside me. By morning, problem solved, and he'd slipped out. Oh were we sticky though!
     
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    I've never been with a guy who took any of those, so I couldn't answer the question.

    I've been curious about trying them myself. I've heard that they can be very pleasurable for a woman.
     
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    Raw Dog, your wife might try Bremelanotide injection. You can buy it on line and there is a YOUTUBE video on how to use it. Its a peptide that affects the mind.
     
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    It can be if the fit is too tight!

    When we had difficulty fitting together because of girth, I found that sucking TheBF's cock until he came so that he wasn't so hard for Round Two really helped with vaginal sex. I also came a lot more when he wasn't so hard when I was too tight for him. We hadn't mastered anal sex at that point, so I can't say what that would have been like.

    Actually, I think it really helped with length, too. The end of his cock seemed to be "spongier" so that it didn't pound into my backstop so hard.
     
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    Ever hear the saying, "Would you rather have an inch you can't fit, or an inch you can't reach?"

    I'm of the mindset that it's better to last a minute too long than a minute too short. :smile:

    Did you take it as a challenge to "get rid" of his erection, or was he insistent on fucking until it got soft?

    I am officially jealous!! I've always wanted to fall asleep inside my wife, but never accomplished that one. Oh, I've passed out while we were... hmm... nevermind.

    It's a hit or miss thing with women. My wife, like I said, loved it (until it upset her stomach). Another one didn't notice a difference except a stiffer clit and she came a lot more easily. And another didn't realize it doesn't turn you on, that is was supposed to aid the body *once* she gets turned on.

    I know you don't need to hear this, but if you do experiment with it, do it after you deliver you're baby.

    The Barbie drug! Too expensive, too risky, and my wife's not interested in poking herself (with a needle). She would've been ok if it was nasal, but that turned out to be more hazardous based on the studies performed.
     
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    Of course! I'm ultra-careful! I think I only took my allergy meds 4 times over the summer, and only when the pollen was really making my life miserable and I suffer through headaches instead of taking acetaminophen. A headache won't kill me but I'd never forgive myself if something went wrong with the baby. The ability to avoid potential future guilt matters so much more to me than any temporary pains or inconveniences I might experience during this year.
     
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    ^^How sweet, I think you will be a good mother. I was always grateful to my mom for not being a pill-lover. She was pregnant with me during the Thalidomide crisis.
     
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    It's a hit or miss thing with women. My wife, like I said, loved it (until it upset her stomach). Another one didn't notice a difference except a stiffer clit and she came a lot more easily. And another didn't realize it doesn't turn you on, that is was supposed to aid the body *once* she gets turned on.
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    ok, now that's one I never heard of or thought of, that if a woman takes cialis, viagra or levitra it could give her a stiffer clit? :wink: Nor did I think it was safe for a woman to take a cialis, viagra or levitra pill? :confused:
     
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    Aw, thank you. I really hope so.

    You got so lucky! Thalidomide is one of those lessons that reminds me of why I shouldn't take any medications unless it's absolutely necessary, even if it's believed to be safe. Thalidomide was given to pregnant women for morning sickness because it was believed to have no side effects. As you know, they were very wrong and the results of that were tragic.

    I knew that I was pregnant when I was just four weeks pregnant, so I got lucky about that. I was on several medications at the time, but I stopped taking all of them immediately, so the zygote might have been exposed, but probably not long after implantation. I'm glad that I found out that I was pregnant so soon. It gave me the chance to switch over to organic foods, too, before pesticides, antibiotics, or growth hormones could do any harm.

    Anyway, I should stop thread hijacking!
     
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    I was an exchange student in West Germany when most of the Thlidomide babies were univeristy age. I saw so many different manifestations of this drug. I regularly visited one lecture where there was a girl who had hands attached to her shoulders, no arms. She carried her stuff in a shoulder bag and was quite capable in getting on with things and taking notes.

    I know of course the really unlucky ones never made it to universoty.
     
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    this question is to hard to answer
     
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    Definitely on my 'to try' list now.


    My ex-FB used to get that effect from ecstasy. I always knew I was going to have a good night if had an E.
     
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    Penetration by anything too hard (so far, only plastic vibes have qualified) hurts me. I feel sharp, sudden pain if I clamp down on it, and I am in the habit of clamping down. Even if I force myself to remain relaxed, one false move has that thing jammed up against my pubic bone again, and that sharp pain is very jarring, and un-sexy.


    As for the OP: I had one lover who used to take Viagra. He was twice my age, and convinced he needed it. Not only did he not, but he was never very hard. I liked the softness, though. I liked the way it felt like he was slightly changing shape inside me to fit even better. One day, he got the flu and did not take Viagra. He was really, really ill for weeks after, but his dick was so hard that day! It was like diamond.
     
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    Good to know. That fits nicely with what my ex was trying to tell me. My refractory period sucks, so getting me off before we did any PIV sex wasn't an option.

    I knew you were, I just needed to say that to let people know I don't advocate using controlled substances for the hell of it. I get a medical exam once a year, and get a good bloodwork done with it. I do a lot of research before I even begin to think of buying anything. Some people just take one or two anecdotal stories and run with it. I don't.

    As I said before, my boddy's a playground and a temple. Once in a while it's also a test tube.

    Sure. A clit's just a penis that never formed into one from the fetus:

    clitoris (anatomy) -- Britannica Online Encyclopedia

    A lot of the ED drugs in the market (all?) started out as blood pressure lowering meds that just happened to work on the dick as well. I assume it can be dangerous to anyone with low blood pressure or anyone with a weak heart. Bremelanotide started out as a sunless tanning drug that just gave people a higher libido (women too).

    For your partner, for yourself, or both? Either way, you have to report back here to let me know what the effects on you were.

    Unfortunately, with the current crop of friends I have, none of them are into hard drugs. As such, I don't have a source to do anything like that... yet. What were the effects?

    See, if my cock wasn't following the contour of her vagina (like a plastic dildo), I'd buy that. I'm pretty sure it wasn't that stiff though. Interesting... that may have been part of it too.
     
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