I do believe you're right there. Not that it's a bad thing, just different.
Yeah, I can't see any bad points (except that it's harder to get toys), but it is different. I always want an explanation for 'difference' though. I was one of those kids who ask 'why' every two seconds.
Oh, uncomfortable/impossible. It was about 6" girth, straight, and the vibrator was stiff plastic under the rubber exterior. At about 4" in, it stopped and just wouldn't go in any further (and my ex was deeper than 4"). It wasn't uncomfortable, it just wouldn't go any further.
Hmm... maybe I just answered my question from earlier.
Interesting. Maybe she was particularly curvy? And/or I'm particularly UNcurvy? I have trouble getting the larger girths in. They only go a little way in then stop, but I think with me it's just that me and girth don't mix without effort and the toys don't have enough weight behind them to push past that boundary (whereas humans do). My skinny and stiff toys go in fine.
I need a willing team mate to do that with though. With your FB, does he quit first, or do you?
We've never really had the opportunity to test it properly. Given several hours, neither of us will quit. The few times we've had a whole night, he's bailed. He's too responsible and can't help thinking about getting up early in the morning etc. I, on the other hand, would go without sleep for days if it meant I could have more sex (I think that has more to do with stupidity and a lack of ability to prioritise, than staying power or desire)
He seems to take my unwillingness to quit as a challenge and looks forward to the day we have more time to play so he can conquer me :biggrin1:.
It was more the orgaorgaorgasms. A series of highs and highers.
Now 45 minutes of that I could take!
I'd like to agree with you, but I'm fortunate in that all my exes (and MrsR) are screamers. Either that, or really good fakers. (The pussy spasms and blushing though are tough ones to fake)
I am a screamer. But apparently I spend most of the time screaming. I still think he's not very observant if he can't tell the difference between the almost cumming scream, the cumming now scream, the REALLY cumming now scream, the starting to come down scream, etc. Add that to the bodily reactions you mentioned . . .
Pot is such a toss up with me though. MrsR loves it and can last a lot longer with it, but it either helps me stay up, or just completely annihalates my erection. Same with tequila. But, I have noticed the last couple of weeks if I combine the two, that's never a problem. Well, not yet anyway. I could've been lucky. More research.
Pot's definitely not the thing to use if it annihilates the erection.
I'm sure there's some logic to that combining thing. Not sure where but I'm sure it's there . . . Actually I think I was combining on the night of the best ecstasy sex.
Keep my fingers crossed. After 4 failed marriages (her 2 and my 2), if we can't make this one work, we're doomed.
Fingers are crossed for you. Although I'm not so sure either of you'll be doomed if it doesn't work.
Thanks.
I was thinking of some snappy self depricating comeback, but I got nothing.
Just accept the compliment and enjoy, my friend :smile:.
It seems to work for you though, doesn't it?
Just borrowing him occasionally? I guess it does. I doubt we'd work well together in a relationship, and I couldn't handle his need for an open relationship. Wish I could see him a little more often though.
Do report back what you find, I'm always curious about this stuff.
Will do.
Rawdog, I am not a big advocate of drugs or being...err..on the wrong side of the law BUT....as a former teenager in the glory days of Ecstasy I tell friends who havent done it, that it's one for the bucket list. I honestly can say that it was the best I've ever felt, and yes that's sad but it's true that E does really take you to a whole new level.
If there's a drug I want to try it's ecstasy. But I'm scared I'll like it too much and won't be able to keep to occasionally. I get addicted to things WAY too easily, even things that aren't really addictive, so i try to avoid most drugs.